Obliviate

28 Jun 2023 00:21

Caring only makes you weak. If they think you care, they'll walk all over you.

Obliviate

23 Nov 2021 16:15

It feels so good when someone just accepts you just the way you are

Obliviate

27 Oct 2021 14:53

Hye ! Let have some talk if you need one. I'm always here.

@litstardustbot

Obliviate

19 Sep 2021 16:56

The key is to start living in the moment.

You’ve probably heard this advice a million times before, but there’s a reason why it’s been re-hashed over and over again.
When we don’t focus on expectations, we live in the moment. And when we are in the moment, we have a better understanding of knowing what’s right for us.

Obliviate

15 Aug 2021 16:32

The recipe for finding success in love.

High standards + low expectations = peace of mind.
It’s hard to not have expectations, especially when you first meet someone for the first time. But we have to remember that every relationship is different. And we can’t expect everyone to behave the same as other people we know or have similar needs as us.

It’s true that we all dream big. And while it’s healthy to be aware of what we desire in life, we shouldn’t assume that things will always turn out exactly the way we planned it.

Obliviate

13 Aug 2021 19:34

The truth is — we have no control over other people and situations. We only have control over ourselves. And sometimes that can be very limiting when it comes to what we actually want.

Obliviate

31 Jul 2021 11:13

If you don’t have good intentions, leave me alone. I’m tired.

Obliviate

29 Jul 2021 20:20

You cannot make someone understand a message they are not ready to receive

Obliviate

25 Jul 2021 20:26

it’s worth carrying on the fight because there might be something better ahead, rather than sinking back into the abyss and feeling like it doesn’t matter whether you live or die. And that’s the hardest damn thing of all, but hey, you gotta keep trying

Obliviate

20 Jul 2021 21:26

If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left out

Obliviate

03 Jul 2021 09:46

If I could, I would apologize to the sky and my room ceiling for all of the nights I’ve awkwardly stared at them remembering things I should have forgotten

Obliviate

29 Jun 2021 17:54

Fear of trusting people

“Pistanthrophobia is the fear trusting others and is often the result of experiencing a serious disappointment or painful ending to a prior relationship"

Obliviate

20 Jun 2021 16:57

I know it's a hard lesson to learn, but the truth is you can't love yourself and love someone who hurts you at the same time. Choose you

Obliviate

18 Jun 2021 21:18

Tapi pulih nya tiada tarikh pasti,
Mungkin aku tidak bisa seperti dahulu.
Mungkin ini semua hal hal manusia dewasa.
Dan tanda aku tidak boleh laku seperti anak kecil.
Seperti kalian yang dewasa;
Walau masih sakit tapi betah tersenyum.
Tidak seperti aku.

Obliviate

18 Jun 2021 19:55

Terkenang masa lalu itu kadang bisa bikin berdarah juga ya?

Walau sudah lama, hingga kini pedihnya masih terasa.

Obliviate

16 Mar 2022 17:06

It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.

Obliviate

27 Oct 2021 15:38

go easy on yourself. really - don’t make life harder for you in this moment. when life is challenging, when it’s painful, you don’t have to be strong, you have to be gentle. please make this your priority.

renuka

Obliviate

27 Oct 2021 14:52

What a beautiful thing it is to be able to stand tall and say, ‘I fell apart, and I survived.’

Obliviate

19 Aug 2021 12:35

People can’t always read your mind.

Setting up expectations and thinking that people can meet them is a sure way to let yourself down.

It might seem that having low expectations is the last thing you want in a relationship, but they actually often get in the way.

Of course, we should all have standards. We should know what we want in a friend or partner. And we should never tolerate abuse or mistreatment.
But we should never believe that something should happen just because we want it to.

Obliviate

13 Aug 2021 19:38

Learn to live with the fact that people don’t view the world with the same eyes as you. And understand that they have priorities, too

Obliviate

05 Aug 2021 17:22

"Ada yang begitu dekat namun bukan untuk dimiliki, hanya untuk disyukuri keberadaannya, dan dicintai dalam diam."

— Ikhlas Paling Serius

Obliviate

29 Jul 2021 21:22

“The truth is social media makes us impatient. We’re rushing to get what someone else has. We want to be that person we see on our timeline, to live someone else’s life. Don’t let this happen. Learn to be content with what you have. Learn to appreciate the person that you are”

Obliviate

26 Jul 2021 22:23

Mungkin kita tidak punya banyak waktu untuk memahami semua yang terjadi, terkadang kita hanya butuh duduk dan menertawakan apa - apa yang telah terjadi, mengikhlaskan apa - apa yang telah kita lewati, dan mensyukuri apa - apa yang telah kita raih sejauh ini.

- Asta Gharino

Obliviate

24 Jul 2021 20:25

Being in a relationship without love is like getting wet in the rain but never feeling it, never feeling the beauty & serenity that rain brings.

Obliviate

20 Jul 2021 21:21

Sometimes you end up losing yourself trying to hold onto someone who never cared about losing you. Know when to let go.

Obliviate

03 Jul 2021 09:38

Notice the people who make an effort to stay in your life

Obliviate

22 Jun 2021 18:13

Attitudes and Mindsets that can Change your Life

1. Knowing deep inside that you are good enough.

2. Believing you can do it, and believing you can make it.

3. Choosing to be grateful when you feel like complaining.

4. Choosing to hang in there when you feel you’ve had enough.

5. Knowing each new day is a true gift and fresh beginning.

6. Valuing others, and treating others well.

7. Investing in people instead of chasing things

Obliviate

20 Jun 2021 16:53

I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.

Obliviate

18 Jun 2021 21:04

Bukan mahu menghilang diri,
tapi masih di fasa pemulih,
Mencari kekuatan untuk diri yang dulu.

Obliviate

18 Jun 2021 19:13

Often, I think when someone tells you that they need to rant, they are letting you know that they want to complain, and will feel better just by having complained. They do not want you to help them fix the problem. They do not want you to come up with a solution.