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Ahh highschool temari negn ena i met a guy who is grade +1 from me ena we were a jst friends. Gn kehone gze bohala he started treating me like unusual like siyakfegn mnamn ale aydel ds yemayl aynet ena temawat running sport seralw ena and ken esum wede gym sihed tegenagn (tenegagren aydelem) kezan akefegn as a normal gn he tried to kiss me and i refuse it beza lelit ande lsamsh please eyale betam aschenekegn enem endemayhon ngrew telelayen kezan tewat lay ykrta text lakelgn esum mata yayehut film simetawi adrgogn mew ale and he said "i feel unusual feeling when am around u " ene demo bemehalachn mnm aynet r/ship saynoren kiss madreg it is not good at all it is kinda ማመንዘር isn't ? Mn tlalachu should i kiss him? Dont judge plz
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I have this sudden urge to smoke a cigarette movie eyayhu hone anything bicha sew siyaches kayehu yamregnal sometimes it's all I think about bewnet I was having stressful and depressing qenoch ena dehna sehon miyalf meslogn neber but it's still here funny part is I have sinus ena sigara sichtegn hula yamegnal degmo I'm pretty sure ande bemokrew endmalmlsbet bicha can anyone relate? Any suggestion kalachu wedi belu help a sister out🤲🏾
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Hello everyone, I need a real advice. m a female. I have a fiance which I really love malet new. He lost his mom 2 years ago. Here is the thing, he kept her close wardrobe, dressing table...things she bought to this day. And he even took it with him when he moved to a new house. He gave her close to laundry. I kept telling him it is wrong and he can't move on if he keeps doing this....but when I try to persuade him more my mind asks me what if I am wrong for saying these things so I usually stop.what do u guys think. I think he should give all her belongings mayb for charity or sell it mnamin.mindin new midereg koy? Thanks in advance
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Hi I’m a 22F and a 4th year med student. I have been feeling really lonely lately and would love to find a genuine friend to talk to daily or regularly. am into psychological thrillers, love medical-related talks and enjoy deep honest conversations. I’m also a good listener and just want a real connection with someone who's consistent and kind.
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I'm addicted to watching porn 😩 what should I do ?
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18 M...plz read tiil the end
I am addicted with masturbating.
5 amet honegn sega memtat kejemrku ena bzu gize lemakom mokriyalew gn alchalkum. Maximum le 4 wer akababi salmeta ekoyna keza dgami wede droye emelesalew. Even be tsom gize rasu emetalew ena beka betam rasen eyetelahut new. Ahun rasu tsom lay honen sega makom alachalkum so yene tsom ke mgb merak bcha honebgn slezih mulu le mulu tsim lakom wesgnalew...mknyatum ke sega sus mewtat alchalkum. Yalmokerkut neger yelem even slken le 2 wer mnamn askemche kezi sus lemewtat bmokrm alchalkum tsebelm mokriyalew. Rasenm busy lemareg mokriyalew gn i couldn't get rid of it. 😭
1, ፆም ወቀት ራሱ ከምግብ እየፆምኩ ሴጋ እመታለሁ 😭 እንደዚህ አይነት ፆም ደሞ ስለሌለ ወይ አንድያዬን ፆሙን ወይ ደግሞ ሴጋ ማቆም አለብኝ ወይስ ሴጋ ብመታም ፆም ማቋረጥ የለብኝም?
2, ebakachu kezi sus endweta yemiredagn sew yasfelgegnal rasen betam eyetelahut new. Kezi sus yewetachu experience share btaregugn ebakachu 🙏 lerase yaleg amelekaket eyewerede new
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F 18
I know that there are a lots of ppl out their who are struggling to fit in and find real friends, just like me.
so here is the thing.
since i grew up alone witb my parents as a kid, i received lots of attention from them and other people.
My older sister used to live with our grandmother till mom and dad were able to settle and when they did she moved in with us and my mom gave birth to my little brother. And eventually the attention started to get divided and as a person who was given a lots of attention that wasn't pleasant to me.
Even at school my friends weren't the best. We had this friend group of 6 or 7 in KG and out of them i had one favorite friend. She was everyones favorite per se. And me and her used to have those side adventures away from the group. So there was this one other girl from our group, she always hates it when me and my best friend play alone. She comes and takes her away and tells me not to play with them anymore.I hated going to school because of them.
After kg the same thing kept on happening, my friends eventually drifting away from me, getting new friends and forgetting I've ever existed. I always used to cry in my room because i didn't have friends that really loved me.
I know I'm not a bad person, I'm a bit socially awkward and don't have a lot to say most of the time maybe even boring but i promise that once i getting along with someone i genuinely like them and di whatever to keep them but i still don’t know why it's not working out for me.
Even as of recently the only person i consider almost a best friend is drifting away from me, we shared lots of memories together last year but now it's like we don't know each other anymore. She started to hangout with another friend we became friends with this year. I felt very betrayed and sad realizing that our friendship was never strongI don't laugh and joke with them like i used to . They rarely include me in anything. And i eventually started feeling less wanted and depressed. Being someone's backup person is very disgusting and disappointing. I really don't know what to do anymore.
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Hey guys I have question, but before that some background story: I am a...how do you say it " crazy horny guy?" I think about having sex many times and boy only I know how many times I stopped my self from fucking random girls since I don't think it is right to do it with anyone other than your soulmate.
So the problem is I am in a relationship with a religious girl(it has a loooong story behind it) and she is so pure like she never thought about sex and she is not interested in having sex and she can't imagine herself having sex, she prays that god creates a way to make women pregnant without needing to have sex. From the way the things are heading I believe that we won't be having sex even if we get married(few years from now) unless it is not for having babies (2 babies according to her)
I want to have sex since I knew about it and Watching porn contributed to that desire but my plan was to wait until i find the right person but now it seems that won't happen. I had told her about how I feel about sex and my desire but she says that I am not that kind of person (maybe it is because I don't look so but I am dying to fuck her brains out and told her this too)
My question is, it okay this way? I have started to masturbate a lot just to keep my urges low at least I won't think about sex for a day or two but I don't want to be doing that my whole life, what can I do, I can't breakup with her she will be hurt more than me
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selam guys betam aschekuway new so please HELP
Mn meselachhu guwadegnaye(just friend) yeljinet trauma alebet ena ahun lay ya traumawun yemiyasnesabet negerm akababiw slale malet betesebu slehone ahun lay betam mekuwakuwam alchalem ene demo bemchilew akm keza sew larkew eyemokerku new kebotawum chmr gn demo erko ayrk neger betesebu new yehone neger betefetere kutr dehna ayhonm ena ahun lay betam handle mareg kebdotal so psychologically yemtaku sewoch wey yemtatenu bcha mn larglet lezih sew hiwetu bezih mknyat libelash new futureu malet new…ena please HELP ME TO HELP HIM…betam gra slegebagn new experiencem bihon share arguggn
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I wanted to share my concerns I have about my younger brother. he fourth year of uni student. As his big sister, I can't help but feel worried about him. He is really strange and lonely person and honestly he almost seems to embrace that loneliness. He hardly ever leaves his room except for classes, has no friends, never has a girl friend even in his teen years and the only thing he care about is his studies and those stupid movies. he is unhealthy obsessed with movies. he spend an entire day just watching a movie. i am the closest person to him and we are not even that close . Whenever the topic of marriage comes up he always says he will never marry and will just die alone. It’s not that he is shy he’s one of the most charming and well spoken guy I know. But at this point, I’m genuinely scared for him. Is it normal for someone to be like this? Have any of you known someone who was similar? Did they eventually come around? .I really want to help him become more sociable, but I’m not sure how. Any advice would be great. Thanks
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let my name be hold back for now i am 21 male and my story is a little normal i live with my mom and her side of families not my dad tho ena my story being i have a big problem like i am peace less my moms brother disturb all my peace he make everyone in the family uncomfortable and i can say fuck u all and live my own life but i care to much for them and even my grand parents couldn't do shit to him.And there my ex in my life and keep nagging me i already told her we can't be together but she keep bothering me and she want us to be back i don't want to be rude to her but she don't understand.So be in my place and try to figure out a solution for me
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I am mr x from A.A am uv student and i just got eyesight love i dont know when i see her dereke nw melewe 🥶 and sometimes i remember her and i Think about her for a minutes but i wanna change ma life first then i will talk to her but what if someone came up and take her tebelawe malet ayedel so mn larg eski tell me guys
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I am 24 lady and I am in a serious relationship with 25 year guy whom i met on work. Aka we still work together same office side by side desk.
So you can tell how all it started we both felt it at the same time and we just went for it. (I know workplace dating is too much I know) but it was too good not to try it out and honestly it felt like God's plan at first. It went smoothly and we fell really hard..as you can imagine we spend the whole week at work and we also date or take walk bzu times so we got really close. Everyone knows too.
The thing is this is my first relationship and love so i have no idea how much of the fighting i should expect..at first I thought it was because we are knew to each other's company it was normal but idk.....once in a week ged nw fight.
it aint about the fight i have issues with but the road we take to solve the issue. I was all about emotional intelligence before i was dating him but now...i don't even know who i am at this point.
Blocking eachother? Deleting chats ? Hanging up the phone joro lay? Calling names (dedeb) And me crying my ass off ? Not sleeping the whole night. And we see eachother the next day...it goes on.
These are the stages we had to pass through to actually sit and solve the problem. And as much as i love him I am so tired btw we talked about this a lot and no change specially on his side ...ahun lay enem endesu crash out maderg sew honkugn and i hate that. I need to guys to tell me the reality of love and relationship ...idk much people around me who are in serious r/p ..is this normal? Will it change after a while?
Btw he had shown me true love , action.. he is respectful until he isnt . And i love him so much.
Please I need your advice.
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If you're ever feeling like you can’t go on, or you’re thinking about ending it all — please reach out. I’m not a professional, but I’ve been there. I’ve felt hopeless, lost, and like no one would understand. But you’re not alone. My DMs are open. I may not have all the answers, but I can listen and share what helped me through the darkest times.
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About a year ago I vented here about a boy I couldn't get over. I kinda wrote multiple vents and its embarrassing asf but not as embarrassing as what I'll vent right now. I have real problems and I don't know what to do about them. I'm a med student in aau and self sponsored, I joined med to make my parent happy and they said they'll pay for me whatever the cost is and it's not cheap not even close. I'm just freshmen now and I'm already dreading it. I wish I just chose something that I actually like and not something I didn't like. I feel like ima fail a lot but that's not the issue now, I can study and solve that problem. My real problem is money. I wouldn't lie and say I was spoiled before but I never worried about getting what I want coz all I needed was to ask but now even when money isn't tight at all my parents prefer doing things for my siblings instead of me. I'm wearing the same two shoes eyaleyayerku for almost 2 years now and they buy new ones for my siblings but not for me. And last time when they were telling me about how they wanted to surprise my little sister with a new phone I reminded them that my tuition is due and I need new shoes coz it's almost summer and it's raining and both my shoes let in water. It's embarrassing to admit but yeah they really do. If it rains I have to beg my sister to give me her shoes and she usual is so mean about it, she's my little sibling not even older. I'm a first born. So when I asked for a new shoes and my tuition that was apparently very "selfish" of me. I got scolded and called many bad names and was told I was so evil and bad for my siblings that I got jealous they got a new phone while they have a working and nice phone and got a computed a couple of weeks before while I was walking around with shoes that barely protect my feet. And yeah I thought about making money the first semester and that pissed them off now I barely have time to make money and I can't even ask for lunch money unless I'm given. I don't know whats happening and I don't know how to fix it idk if it sounds dramatic for some of you but it's actually a big problem for me. I'm always verbally abused and not even ask for basic things anymore.
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Hey, I am about to graduate next week begna be 21/10/17 and I am soooo stressed about the future. I feel like I'm lost in a sea of uncertainty i swear😭. I don't know what to do with my life or where I'm headed. I'm scared and overwhelmed, and I'm worried that I'll never find my path or alakm what to do at all. Can someone please offer some advice on how to figure out my next steps and help me find my way? I'm feeling anxious and I don't know what to do. I mean I don't even know if I can get a job, if I want to do an actual work or a business. Malet have you ever experienced this feeling? Like if you so please tell me how you do it. life after graduation seems sooo scary.
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የ ሊቀ-መለአክት ቅዱስ ሚካኤልን ተአምር በቀኑ ልመሰክር ነው የመጣሁት። የመጨረሻ አመት የComputer science ተማሪ ነኝ እና Final project የምንሰራበት ጊዜ ነው እና Final project 1 አቅርቤ ከ examiner መስተካከል ያለባቸውን ነገሮች ተቀብለን እየሰራን ነበር እና our examiner በጣም ተፅዕኖ እያረገብን ነበር መቀየር የሌለብንን ነገሮች እራሱ እድሰራ አዘዘን እና ትላንት ማታ ቀን 11 project'ቱን እየሰራው ሊነጋጋ ሲል 11 ነው የተኛሁት እደዛም ሆኖ አልጨረስኩም ነበር እና ቅዱስ ሚካኤል የሀገሬ ታቦት ነው በቤቱ ነው ያደኩት, ለሊት ላይ ጓደኛዪ ስለሚካኤል telegram story አድርጋ ነበር እና እሱን አይቼ አባቴ ነገ ከቤት ብቀር የቀረውበትን ምክንያቴን አንተ ታውቀዋለህ ብዪ ተፅናንቼ ስራዬን ቀጠልኩ እስከማታ ድረስ project'ቱን ጨርሰን ማስገባት እዳለብን ነው ምናቀው እና ረፋድ 4 ሰአት ላይ ከእንቅልፍ ስነሳ ከቡድኔ አንዱ ልጅ ደውሎ project'ቱ እደገባ እና ትልቁ ውጤት የኔ እደሆነ ነገረኝ። የተደረገልኝ ድቅ ተአምር ይህ ነው ቅዱስ ሚካኤል የእዳ ደብደቤዬን ቀዶ በደስታ ለውጦልኛል, ለኔ የደረሰ የጌታዬ ታዛዥ መልአክ ለናተም ይድረስላቹ። እኔ አረስቼው እሱ ግን አስታወሰኝ, ሁሌም የሚረዳኝ መልአክ አምላክ ልዑል እግዚአብሔር ይመስገን።🤲
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Am a sex addict not doing it but just wishing up on it
Idk what to do at this point I can't look into people's eye without lusting over them
If anyone has any advice please share sm
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Am I the only one who wants to go abroad forever?
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Hey everyone, I need real talk.I’m a Grade 12 student about to face my entrance exam but honestly I feel like I already failed myself because I lost focus after Grade 11 I’m not looking for empty words or you can do it vibes I want to know what happens after you fail or mess up big time. What do you do next? How do you pick yourself up when everything feels like it’s falling apart?
Please, share your real experiences and advice I’m ready to listen and learn.
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a third-year university student. I'm a naturally shy person, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. Lately, I’ve been feeling a strong sexual desire, but I’m not really interested in a relationship—I just want to experience sex. Because of my shyness, I don’t know how to approach this in a safe and respectful way. I’m looking for some honest advice on how to handle these feelings and navigate this situation.
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Hey, I’m a 24-year-old guy. it's gotta be a long vent bear with me
I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years.
At first, it was a sweet and loving relationship. But after one year, I caught my girlfriend talking to her ex on Instagram. I left her, but she begged me to come back. She cried a lot. It was just a “hey hey” message, so I forgave her. Some time later, she told me she wanted to go to a concert. I said no. Then she said she would go with her friends, and I said okay. But guess what? She went with her ex and cheated on me. I didn’t find out for months until one day I got her phone and checked it. She wasn’t just talking to her ex, she was also talking to a bunch of other guys. She even fell in love with one of them. i asked her about it and left her for a week. But she started crying so much she got really sick. Her parents and friends were worried about her. She even called my best friend, and he told me what was going on. We agreed to meet at a church because she wanted to tell me everything. We talked for hours. She couldn’t stop crying and begging me. People were even staring at us. I didn’t want to be the bad guy, so I forgave her again. After that, she gave me access to all her social media accounts and changed her phone number. She completely changed. She became very loving like wife material. I have no words for how much she changed. It felt real. But 2 or 3 months later, I caught her again—talking to her ex through SMS and calls. This time she started acting like she was mentally unwell. She told me to leave her, that she wasn’t good for me, that she was depressed, and needed a break. So I gave her time. After a week, we talked again. She wanted to fix everything, and I forgave her again. I don’t know why I can’t leave her. I love her so much. But 4 days ago, I told her I was thinking about ending things. I logged out of all her accounts. She cried at first, but later agreed and blocked me from everything. But I had forgotten to log out of her Telegram. And guess what? She started talking again to a guy she used to talk to before. Now, I can’t move on. I’m still thinking about her all the time. I can’t sleep or eat.
Do you have any advice for me?
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Have you ever felt your running out of time am 25 F am having this I don't know what to name it whether heart attack or anxiety or even depression am feeling the constant pressure to end my life cause am constantly comparing my life to every person around me and to every tiktoker out there I feel like there is something missing in my life not something I feel like am like a ghost created to watch ppl live blossom mine been dry as fuck all the time the unrealistic expectations I set for my self but still living at my parents house pushing ppl I love cause o don't feel worth of being loved or deep down I know they will never will smt I feel like I need to go therapy but I feel ashamed how am going to interact with the Dr (am I going to say there is no trouble on my life but the absence of it make my heart sick am jealous of everyone and everything)
My head is all over the place I don't know what to do
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Eshi so this is more lile a question i lost my V before 3 month ena we only did it once 1 bcha new and i bleed betam am wondering ahun sex badrg bleed yenoral weyes endet new ena painfuk yehonal?
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She doesn't love me
She does NOT love me!!! She doesn't want me, she probably wanted me at some point, but not anymore, she doesn't love me, but I still feel like she does. Now see that's the big problem, I just can't get that fact through my thick skull, the way she looks at me, the way she gets excited whenever she sees me(if we just run into each other she doesn't just get excited she gets shocked as well, let's face it though, she probably gets shocked because she's in an awkward situation with me, and obviously nobody likes awkward moments) the way she yaps non-stop about anything and everything whenever we meet up, she also can't maintain a long eye contact with me(but she's probably like that with everyone, I've never actually seen her conversing with other people for an extended amount of time so it could be that or something else) she does care about me because she's a kind human being, she used to care differently back when we were actually in a good situation, anyways FLIPPIN' RELIGION made her not love me anymore, but before things went sideways(when she actually realized that we can't get married because I'm not orthodox, SHE WANTS A "Teklil Marriage") I had no doubt in my mind that she was in love with me, ngl she kinda redefined love for me we were together for a very short time but nobody's ever made me feel what she made me feel, and I used to think that I know what love felt like. but at the end of the day after she realized what's actually what, she did stop our relationship and we stopped talking for a while it fucking sucked, I couldn't say anything to my Queenie that was convincing enough for her to stay with me, SHE WAS GONE. After a while our paths crossed again it had been 2-3 months since we ended everything, I was very happy and excited to see her, she was visibly excited too, but things were different this time she told me that she wasn't in love with me anymore, but her actions didn't support her argument much, I know when someone says that they don't love me anymore and actually mean it, and this wasn't it so I kept fighting. We meet up spend some time together whenever we can but she kept telling me that SHE DOES NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE, we kept this going for like half a year and I started asking myself if she really means it, because nobody's that nice, especially when it's someone you don't love anymore trying to get back into your life tirelessly, it's a very draining thing, I know what it feels like, I've been in her shoes before, so I try to see if she's feeling uncomfortable and stuff, but my Queenie(THE WAY I LOVE THAT WOMAN!!!!) she was always happy and yapping whenever we meet up. But I can't keep doing this, Boys and Girls I think it's time for me to admit that I've taken the "L" here lmao. I was very much tempted to text her today but I obviously SHOULD NOT DO THAT, so I decided to do this instead.
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I need advice – struggling after a breakup
Hi, I’m men. I recently broke up with someone I truly loved. What hurts most is — she was the one who asked me to be in a relationship first. She told me she couldn’t live without me… and I believed her. I changed for her. I gave her my heart.
But then she left me without explaining. She blocked me and is living her life like nothing happened… and I’m left broken. I can’t sleep, eat, or focus. My mind constantly thinks about her, even when I try to distract myself. I’ve even felt physical pain — exhaustion, imbalance, racing thoughts.
I don’t want to hate her. I just want peace.
If anyone has gone through something like this — please, how did you move on?
What helped you stop thinking about someone who left so easily?
Thank you for listening. 🙏🏾
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Hi...let me get straight to the point so me and my ex been in relationship for like 2 years off and on we were in long distance we fight alot he is kinda egoistic and I'm so stubborn and moody we didn't understand each other most of the time but then I start yk understanding him at some point he told me alot about his family problems we share things but then the misunderstanding started again so I had to break up with him for peace
After 1 week I heard that he cheated on me with someone and he doesn't even feel sorry about it I was sad still I'm sad and mad I can't do nothing about it cause we are in long distance but I want to know why...why cheating when you just break up with me why all the lies why all of that talks
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If things are going to happen at their own pace, what's the point of praying? If things don't happen when we want, then what's the point of asking God for it to happen ASAP?
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After I turned 18, I started noticing how much my childhood friends had grown. I began comparing myself to them especially in terms of height, like who was taller or shorter. I even remember searching "how to get taller at 18" tried some exercises, but I got bored and lowkey started accepting myself 🚹 Over time, the height problem started to feel normal. But then I had another problem I didn’t have a gf🙃 So, I searched "how to get a girlfriend" on YouTube and watched some videos. Most of girls said that they want tall, handsome guys with a big manhood basically, their criteria didn’t fit me. That made me feel bad 😞, but I didn’t stop watching porn or playing video games 🎮
Eventually, I turned 19. One day Hang teseraw, they stole my phone, and that’s when I decided to hit the gym because of them. Also tried to quit masturbation. But after a month, I needed a phone badly, so I got a new one. That pulled me back into social media and TikTok. I started skipping the gym. Seeing girls online made me watch porn and masturbate again. I began hating myself, losing sleep, watching random lives on TikTok or Twitch.Then one day, I tried a method to stop masturbation and video games for 55 days. On the 11th day, I masturbated had to start from zero again, I wanted so badly to escape reality by playing video games again, but I resisted because I knew where that road leads. During that process, I still watched porn, but I didn’t masturbate. Gradually, I shifted my mindset from thinking about what kind of guy girls want to asking what kind of girls I want.
The gym was a bit inconvenient for me, so I switched to calisthenics. I installed pull-up and dip bars in my backyard and got some dumbbells for weight exercises. I beat my 55 day challenge. Porn became just a background thing I didn’t obsess over it anymore. I started seeing changes in my body, which made me happier. I began enjoying calisthenics and feeling more confident in myself. I started speaking up whether the topic was good or bad.When I turned 20, I felt stronger like I was ready to fight anyone if I had to. I started doing some side jobs, talking to girls who are my type. I still use social media and occasionally watch porn, but I’ve quit masturbation. And now, I don’t flirt with girls they flirt with me serious.
As long as you stay clean, smart, and strong, you’ll be accepted in any circle.
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Bro, there’s this girl — I basically shared the entire encyclopedia and Wikipedia of my heart and soul with her. But she’s cold as ice. She just keeps throwing mixed signals.
Are girls really this complicated and confusing, or am I just too dumb to understand what’s actually obvious?
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