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I don't know why he is still on my mind. Every time i think of him i feel sad. It's like i admitted he left me and i don't want him either but, there is this part of me who can't stop looking back to all the moments i spent with him. I want to forget him, stop thinking about him but i don't know how😔
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Hey guys 23 m here and I would like to share my situation and I would like to see your feedback and any advice you might have.
The thing is that every girl I have ever met that has been romantically interested in me has always been short, not that good looking and come with a lot of emotional baggage and they get close to me just because I am a good listener and trauma dump on me which just makes me carry a lot of the emotional load between us and that eats at my emotional energy.
What I just don't get is for once why can't I get to date a girl that is decently looking and somehow is emotionally stable and just completely interested in me and not in what I could provide.
And I know it is shallow but I want to date a good looking girl and stop being anxious about what people might say seeing me next to her. I'm just tired of getting jealous seeing guys with such beautiful girls. I want to feel confident in showing off my girl, and not avoiding even the topic of what she looks like.
Anyways tell me what you think about it and I'll definitely accept any comment good or bad. Thanks in advance.
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Hi 22 f relationship wst negn 5 amet hononal gn misemagn like ende situationship new yehon gize yahel tefeto ymetal keza ende normal yaweral busy neberku mnamn blo mkniyat ysetal bzu ye set friends alew esu demo comfort ynesagnal snegerew endemiyastekakel ynageral gn melso yaw new bezi huneta meketel yalebgn almeselegnm ena mn tmekrugnalachu
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Selam guys... yehonech lj alech tmhrt bet gibi wst nw mayat betam konjo bathonm enen gn temechtagnalech betam ena lawerat bye almechach alegn ena tlant yehone sefer heje nber ena endatami betachwn setgeba ayw which means seferuan aweku ena lawerat felge alfelgm or you're not my type mnamn mibalu reject'och asferugn eski please mela belugn seriously
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Okay you people give the final verdict. So me and my friend were talking about how much we like cuddles and he said, he likes cuddles so much he could even get into r/s just for that. Okay good for him. But I told him about a website I stumbled upon once. It is a woman owned cuddling business. Apparently people sign up, she will send them a form, they fill up, arrange a place and cuddle. Strictly cuddle! It is a very dangerous business. Especially dealing with men but she is doing good so far. I told him I thought of opening this business in Ethiopia for some time with thorough investigation and by cherry picking clients and he said I am asking to be sexually assaulted because Ethiopian men are not that civilised to think cuddles can end as cuddles only. And I argued back saying it is possible. My point is that, seeing how male loneliness epidemic is at its peak, it shows men are craving and dying for a women touch. Not even sexual but just to get a hug to fill that void. Just to feel cared and loved through touch. So if we create a platform where boundaries are clear and actions could have big consequences, what makes Ethiopian men different? Do you think the men are going to think “awkesh ketedefash biregtush aykfash" and use the service to their advantage? I don’t think about the business anymore ofc because if anything happens, I don’t think the legal system will back me but generally, as an idea flow, what do you think?
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Heyyy guys how u doin hulachum ena mn meselachu talking stage lay negn like 2 wer kemnamn ena he's a good person fr he's older than me menamn like 9 yrs gn chegeru kezi befit betam serious relationship nw yeneberegn sexual things alneberegnm yekerebugn sewochm betam teru sew neberu thankgod🙏 ena when we come to this person demo he want lela ngr menamn betam weird negeroch ena yehone ken forfirst time endi aynet ngr text siyaregln i blocked him keza gn he said sorry enem boundiarywochen selalnegerkut negrew endi aynet negerm werewochm endemalfelg keteln gn he still keeps talking about that shit endewm moreee ena demo when we argue betam silly things he said anchi ko lej nesh am more mature menamn yelal soo makom endalebgn asebku should i dump him or give him another chance yamakerut sew demo overreact eyaregsh nw betam alugn am i wrong?? zm bye demo ghost ladergewm alfelekum what do u guys feel ??🙏😊
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Hey guys, I am 22 F
Negeru ke boyfriend ga 3 amet lihonnen new Ena lemegabat eyasebn neber familywochachen awkewal Ena shmagle lemelak endasebe yawku neber ke gize behuwala lene sayasawkegn hasabun keyere Ena slezi neger sanesabet mawrat ayfelgm Ena bezu setoch gar endemiyawera selku lay ayewt Ena slesu steykew (lemekenes emokralew) alegn siyanagregnm tru balhone tone new miyanagregn Ena bestemecheresha teyekut sle gabchachen mn eyasebk new alkut Ena mnm endemayasb negerkegn keza ene demo relationshipun yematfelgew kehone kante ymta alkut keza esum asre alaskemetkushm alegn alfelgm alegn Ena mn tlugnalachu?
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Everyone is niche now😭 apparently everyone has been a nerd, everyone has a goated music taste bro I can’t tell who is who, genuinely larp larp larp sahur…. Oh and to add the “woke” mentality but our nature defies us, the same way you can tell old money from new money, you can tell a person growing up watching movies and a persons letterboxd filled with niche films…. Don’t get me wrong it does not make me mad, but it breaks my heart finding out they’re nothing but a try hard sijemer I’m better ahaaaa😝 I’m playing but I get the fact you want to appear in some sort of way, but like it’s possible to act less of a wannabe
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I saw kezi befit endezi aynet vent ena I really want too I mean Finding genuine friends is difficult these days because there are so many fake people around, so I am looking to build a small, close-knit circle of like-minded women who have finished their studies and are focused on their careers. I want us to be a group that can discuss our professional lives, attend the Orthodox Church together, and explore new places while sharing ideas and supporting one another. My goal is for us to provide mutual encouragement and build deep, lasting connections that grow into a lifetime of friendship.
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Holla guys I'm 20M and I am under weight. Now I want to gain some weight or maybe being in average bmi and some people suggested working out and stuff but I'm in university so eating protein dense foods Is not affordable cuz I got a lot of expenses so should I just workout in gym even if I don't have that much protein dense foods or is it useless to workout without that kind of food or supplement. Any one willing to help your bruv here, reach out
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Hi. I wanted to discuss something that has been weighing on me for quite some time now. I live alone and there’s this side street that leads to my home. I’m getting catcalled and pestered by men there almost on a daily basis. They attempted to touch me yesterday and said some very rude things. I’ve kept quiet so far but I’m tired. I thought they’d grow tired of the assaults and just leave me be but its been constant and honestly degrading. Enough is enough. I’m getting anxious and constantly ruminating on how they’d break into my house. I can’t do this anymore. I will say something. If need be, I’ll fight back. I do not care. I’ve had it. Society doesn’t care about us women. The police or anyone for that matter wouldn’t assist me in anyway. I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t get justice even if I died by their hands. I will fight back. I will say something. I’m also considering getting a taser or a pepper spray. I just can’t keep up with their bullshit. I prefer death over being treated like this by men who enjoy projecting their shitty lives on to mine.
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I think i am broken.or i am depressed .or bipolar not quite sure.since a young age i was raised in a house where love is earned on your big achievements, and i am not talking a pad on the back or words of affirmation.it is more like i hate you a little less.i know i sound like exaggeration but i promise that is not it.i once read this quote that said " people who tend to push and hate love needs the most love".hey mama here is the thing i never could say to your face because u told me i was just trying to get attention and being a drama queen.
Hi ma,i am sorry u didn't get ur dream life,or ur dream husband,or kid.i am sorry u trusted a maniac that ruined yours and ur kids life as the love of ur life.i am sorry the love u rutted for was just sand .and the hope and dream u had was washed by the wind.i am sorry u cried more than u laughed.i am deeply sorry u got stuck in a life u never dreamed of.as a women in my 20's i get u ,i know what it is like to hope for the one.i am sorry u have to endure all that pain when u were just a girl hoping she found her man.but all this can not be a reason to fuck'n hate me.may be i remind you of him.eventhough people always tell me i look like u and nothing like him.i think u see him in me.i guess i am the only thing of him that stayed when he left.my heart break for u especially as i got old.u were just a girl that wanted to be loved ,that was just seeking for home.but mama while u were trying to heal ur broken heart u broke us.i know u probably thought if u were tough on us we wouldn't be hurt by the world.but ma you hurt us more than anything in the world.u raised us to be suspicious of people to the point we couldn't trust our own shadow.i am not scolding u ma i get why u have trust issues ,i know the world wasn't kind.but ma u made me hate the world and be a loner .and i wanted the world. I really wanted the world.u always told me i was different but not in a special way but in a way i have to earn do better A's my exams.and i did and actually managed to score .i was the top in ma class,went to uni studied medicine and everything.and that was enough u wanted me to cut all my friend because apparently they will use me and leave me like ur husband did.u wanted me to stay in the house and not go out.u told me no man would love me and i should just stop beong around guys.u said i was difficult because i said i am hurt.u called me ungreatful for the things u done for me .i am not ma .i just was so fuck'n tired of hearing of the things like u could have been sth if u hadn't had me and my sister.i got tired of hearimg how u feed me ,dressed me and gave me shelter.i got tired of being compared to the neighbours kid .i got tired of being told i am difficult because i ask the tough questions and i got tired of feeling like a worthless shit and don't deserve love and most importantly i got tired of trying to be perfect so u can hate me a little less.
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Am i doomed
I graduated in medicine
I have no motivation for anything
I wash my whole body be 6 wer and ( I'm not lying i swear to God ), but i wash the important ones every 1or 2 weeks or I make my bed be 2 samnt ande, i clean my room be wer ande, i change my panties besamnt ande, my room is smelly i mean understandable 🙄, now i am suffering from scabies, i have no motivation to make my CV and to apply to jobs, i don't have any motivation to go out and meet up wz friends, all i want to do is lay down on a bed and scroll, i had a lot things that i wanted to achieve, i feel really behind compared to my friends they get informations quickly and easily am always the receiver, I'm always fezaza, kalsiye yshetal, academically betammmmmm kenshalew, all i do is sleep,
I was not always like this trust me. And yeah i don't have a depression i don't fullfil the criteria but i think i have some thing which is fundamentally wrong wz me pls don't judge me,i procrastinate a lot not just a lot there is nothing that i can do on time tbh, I'm not depebdable, I'm clumsy, i have no fucking idea what my future would look like, my parents they are really concerned abt me. I don't feel like I'd be good enough for any job that's why i don't apply for jobs
Bcha idk idk if am a mere lazy person or somthing had changed my brain chemistry for the worst bezam ale bezi idk bcha
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Hello
Please give me advice
I got girl pregnant I know I can't be with her for some reason I can't mention now the thought of it is killing me any advice please any one with same experience text me.
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March 14, 2022
I would like to vent about the most painful day of my life.
The lights were out. I was sitting on the living room couch, my left leg raised up on a heap of clothes so the fluids from the loosely stitched open wound wouldn't soil the sofa. I was in great pain, I just denied it for the sake of my mom. I was five when the accident on my Achilles happened about two weeks ago and since I missed my appointments repeatedly, I was bleeding like hell and white fluid was everywhere. It was really dark.
It started to rain. Mom lit a candle and was putting buckets under the leaking holes of the ceiling, praying the roof holds on for another winter. She went to the kitchen to start a fire to heat up some food and soup for us. It was dark, and it was raining. Then you came barging in, greetings and all.
Mother starts telling you how bad the wound was turning out to be, but you didn't want to listen, did you? It was just one of her rants, right? Not this time. Today she decided to push your limits, a bit further, for me. For us. But you were drunk.
You ordered hot water and salt and I would be fine for another day. She got you what you wanted, you sat down on the stool and tried ever so carelessly to wash the wound. I was crying and whimpering but I stopped when you screamed at me to man up and not be such a pussy. I was in pain so I couldn't hold it in much longer I let out a yelp. That was the trigger you needed, right dad?
It was pouring outside by this time. You ask for scissors and pliers as you were convinced that the stitch was the thing that was making me bleed and cry like a little bitch, right dad? Mom doesn't seem to agree and she refused to get them. She had no power. You got up, letting my foot that was hanging on by a thread, literally a thread, hit the container filled with blood and warm water and sea salt. I screamed but mother couldn't do anything but watch.
Thundering and hailing now. You sat down again and tried to pull out the stitching. A small pull, then another, a bigger one, I was hysterical by this time. Crying over your shouts telling me to shut up. I look at mom on the left side behind you, in the glow of the candle light. Her face of horror now turned away as she saw me looking at her helpless. I felt numb, everything turned dull and numb from all the pain and crying.
Then came the big yank. You forcefully pulled on the thread so hard I shrieked in agony, soaked in sweat and tears that felt like lava flowing down on my body, burning in every drop. Mom took a peak and stood frozen, started sobbing fiercely once she came back to her body. A piece of the thread was hanging on the plier as it had pulled something on its way out. A piece of something I couldn’t make out the shape of, a small chunk of something black and soaked in blood. I was screaming for what felt like forever. It burned when you hurriedly wrapped the cloth around my foot, I was crying. You seemed terrified of what you've done. What have you done, dad?
The rain was easier now. It was dark, the small drops from the ceiling on the bucket were the only things making a sound. You went into your bedroom and closed the door behind you. Mother walked back to the kitchen, shaking and sobbing.
I was alone now, unable to distinguish what I was feeling besides burning. It was really dark, then it turned black.
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Hello guys I need your help with something I had a friend when I was in highschool ena we talk about about everything and anything as a Curious teens I was ( 14 at that time) and one day we were talking girls mnamn ena he asked me "ሴጋ መተህ ታውቃለህ" at that time I have no idea what that means ena I asked him what that was and he replied "ሴ ጋ ካልመታህማ ስሜት የለሕም " And I a asked more keza tnsh ngeregn ena I started getting curious so I googled it and I masterbated that night imagining about a girl ena for the first time in my life I ejaculated and I was so confused ያለ ሴት ይረጫል እንዴ ብዬ " After that day I never had any conversation about masterbation with my friend and with anyone else until now but something in me change that day I started watching porn and masterbation becomes my everyday activity but not long after that I realized I was doing something wrong and started reading about it online and I decided I won't do it again but I can't it even get worse 3 year ago when I had a girlfriend we cuddle a lot we kissed sexted and more but we never had sex but now as a 24 Year old guy after all that year (10 years) I'm still masterbeting knowing it is killing me I'm even starting to lose my strength and some time back pain balding mnamn ena I'm so confused why I can't stop it? Please help me
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24M. Guys, where do you even find genuine girls? I work a 9–5 Monday to Saturday and have no idea where to meet my future wife 😅
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Hey 29M… I just needed a place to vent a little.
A few months ago I met someone on a dating app. We clicked fast—calls, texting every day, and after a week we started seeing each other. Things were simple and clear between us. She told me she didn’t want luv or anything serious, just a friends-with-benefits type of situation. No pressure, no deep emotions, just enjoying each other’s company and the physical side.
I agreed, and honestly, those three months were intense in a good way. We had a strong connection, a lot of chemistry, and we were both open to trying new things. It felt easy and natural while it lasted.
But then she moved abroad, and since then, I’ve been feeling it more than I expected. I didn’t think something like that would affect me this much, but it does. I guess even when u tell yourself “it’s just physical,” there’s still some kind of attachment that builds over time.
Now I’m trying to move past it, but it’s not as simple as I thought.
I also wanted to ask—especially to women here—how do you see friends-with-benefits situations? Do u think they actually work long term, or do they usually end up affecting someone emotionally?
And yeah… I’ll be honest, I’m someone with a high level of physical desire, and I’d wish and like to meet someone who’s on the same page about that.
Just sharing what’s on my mind. Appreciate anyone who reads this or shares their thoughts.
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i am M 27 years old
this is my firts time vent here
ena bemiwedut sew alemeweded endet yale asiqeyami simet new . beqa keza sew sew ga bizu ngr yiniregnal bilachi asibachu future life imagine argachu gn at the end ya sew lenante simet endelelew sitaqu yalew simet beqa debari ye menor tirgumu erasu tefabign eko .mn meselachu guys i have never been in relation ship gn 3 gize ke libe wedije tegodichalew . setoch yemiyawerut ena yemifeligut lela new . yemiwedegn , yemitamen , yeminkebakeben wend yemnifeligew yilalu endeza aynet wend siyagegnu friendship wust yiketutal yanin wend .ene in life tru sew lemehon mokralew orthodox negn be haymanotem lemeberta eyemokerku nw . date yemaregewum lemagbat fetari bifeqid be teklil gn 4 gize fail aregebign betam nw tesfa yeqoretkut ahun fetarinin mamare jemerku . ene mn godelegn eyalku tru sew lemehon kememoker wuchi . yemikerbachew setoch gn truneten eyenegerugn gn le fkr hiwot ayifeligugnim . ymr betam nw kelibe tesfa yekeorktuk ahun mnmn aynet set data lalareg wesignalew . megodate beyegizew erasen makem selchitognal .beqa wey andegnayen setochun endemigodut aynet wend hogne limokrew meselegn
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F, early 20s. Never had a serious relationship Becuz of a lot of reasons one being not trust people that much in general.
Met a guy a while back, for some reason I liked him. And I made sure he knew and I was happy that he felt the same way.
Both of us not having physical relations with other people before made us create genuine feelings. However doing the deed was not in the option for the both of us at the beginning.
Lately I felt like I was ready for allowing myself to explore more and even considered the deed.
The funny part how ever is that now I feel like I am the one running after him 😂. Just told him I am ready whenever and ever since then he’s wants time to think about it and all.
I feel embarrassed y’all you got no idea.
But now I decided to let him go cuz wth is this 😂
But guys pls never say NO to a girl when she’s that much open and vulnerable to you. Atleast she is willing to do it with her loving you, she isn’t even asking for love back.
Idk if anyone can relate 😂 Mn teblos yweral
“ (hesitant )… I need to think about it… I am not ready…I never this would happen to me…”
Some of the wise words he used instead of saying NO😭🤣🤣🤣
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I’ve been realizing how hard it is to find genuine friendships these days. I don’t want a big circle just something small and real. But a lot of connections feel surface level or not aligned with where I am in life.
I’m focused on growing, building my career, and becoming better, and I want to be around women who are on a similar path real, consistent, and supportive. Not perfect, just intentional. I want friendships where we can talk about life, share ideas, explore, and actually show up for each other.
It’s frustrating because I know this kind of connection exists, but it’s not easy to find and I don’t want to settle for less.
Does anyone else feel the same way?
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Hey everyone 24 M
I perceive myself as an exceptionally agreeable individual, as others frequently describe me as a "peoplepleaser." 🤔 I am uncertain whether my tendency to avoid saying no or it does not suit me is appropriate.... I feel that this behavior is currently detrimental to my own well being.
I possess no personal boundaries...my time and resources are entirely dedicated to others. My friends often vent their problems onto me, yet I have no time to address my own stress. Even when I am facing greater difficulties than they are, I feel compelled to bear their burdens. I fear that refusing requests will cause me to lose people. 😟
Currently my academic performance is declining, my mind feels foggy, and despite being surrounded by others, I feel profound loneliness. I worry that if I say no... I will appear unloving or that my friends will abandon me. Consequently, I have begun to resent myself. 💔
My question to you is: How can I establish and maintain my personal boundaries? How can I learn to say no without hurting others while also protecting my own well being?
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hey 23M my second time venting here I told you guys about my gf of 2 yrs that I've been cheating on while she was thinking about getting married and most of you guys told me to come clean and accept the consequences I've been reluctant to do that cus she is dependent on me financially and I didn't want to leave her hanging or stay with me anyways because she needs the financial support but I finally decided to come clean and get it over with I have some good business this month and I managed to pay her 6month rent and put some money in her account so that after I tell her atleast she can survive without going back to her abusive family so after all this I told her that I cheated and I'm very sorry and i love her so much and pleaded for her forgiveness she was heartbroken and didn't expect that from me at all then she told me she want ntn to do with me and that she doesn't wanna see me at all actually that was exactly how I expected her to react but after a week her sister called me yesterday and she said she isn't eating or sleeping she cries all night and she is worried about her and asked me to check on her I went to her home I took some food with Me I didn't expect her to even let me in but I hoped atleast she will eat something but she let me in we ate together she was cold toward me mejemerya but she even smiled at my jokes mnamn and when I ask her please don't hurt yourself eat sleep don't cry mnamn she said I will eat if you keep bringing me food I did the same today and I think her mood is improved so much tdy so my question is should I keep doing that or do I give her space to actually figure out what she wants because I feel like she is just accepting me because of needing something familiar to hold on to and do you guys think she cab forgive me eventually if I keep being the good boyfriend
I realized now that Noone will love me like she does and how much I miss her everyday too 😭
just honest advice guys no need to insult mnamn specially if anyone was in the same situation
sorry for the long ass vent
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Hey guys am girl 22 ena mn mslachu for 4 month bf nbrgn btam nbr mnwdedew time matter endmayadrg aychebtal day today eytgnagn bzu memory asalfnal lza ge asked me sex ene dmo after marriage nw mflgw alkut esum ene sex relationship wst important nw algn after that he said tbkign ene lfeature mflgsh ngrochn astkakake agbashalw alegn mind u time limit altksm kza 4 month yahl snenfak eytgnagn eytdwalwln asalfn bmhal block sadrgw bsw slk dwlo unblock endadrgw ngrgn bcha ene I love him gn ahun lay esu miste nsh ylgnal gn we are not together bka endtagsw yflgal ene dmo ahun bangabam tlyaytn mtbk endmalflg ngrkut gn bka it's so hard to leave him ynafkgal btam bezu memory nw yaln I don't no how to explain this in general ahun lay end situationship wst nen mslgn endmalflg knchrasu mlyayt endmflg bngrew hultachnm mlyayt alchalnm please tell me what should I do
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My bf broke up with me because he said our relationship is haram and he cant continue am really hurt we are too young to make it halal this dumb ahh just remembered it’s haram i dont regret dating cuz i always wanted to marry for love but its really hard
Help me
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Hey female 24 don't know i guess I just wanted to vent always been lonely being an only child made me too aware of people being betrayed by women friends didn't help yes I'm extremely lonely I sometimes think like who is gonna be my brides maid I'm very detached and I love love being I feel this freedom I can't describe by my own I listen to music chill and whenever someone befriend Me God I see through them and don't like it I literally do every thing by my own eat sleep walk music I'm extremely obsessed with me I love Me I don't care if I don't have siblings friends I'm in my own world lost where i can't be found comments are accepted anyone similar maybe I'll give the friend thing a shot 😂😅💅
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Aight hear me out,.. what if we just disappear for like 4-5 days like tomorrow ain't even real ? No future stress, no what am i doing with my life thoughts... just us being young, outside and prsent fr. I am not saying let's do dumb stuff but can we live a little?? No overthinking , no weird energy , no gossip, just us doing what we are afraid of doing because of society and good energetic vibe,
Let's link up with some strangers, hit a place that's not expensive, spend like 10k each, and make memories that will have us laughing for the rest of our lives. And listen ..... NO alchol, no addictive nonsense, b.c we not escaping life , we actually living it, real life ,real vibes.
Trust me this ain't just about me, i am just tired of seeing people stuck in survival mode like a video game, so yeah we plan it, make a group , and we out. No gender drama, no extra stuff just nature, good energy, freedom.
Memento vivere......
We not here to collect things, i ain't saying be broke 💀, BUT we here to praise God and enjoy life too
And honestly what's the worst that could happen ¿¿¿
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What the actual hell is this koy
Donu think this is a curse mnamn
Bcz sew endet esp set ande enkuan aysakalatm
1 i started taking wz a guy i met on tinder he was really welcoming and warm and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold asf and yeah eventually kept me on read
2 never had a proper boyfriend who actually loved me
3 was kinda close friends with a guy who was telling me that at this point he just wants a woman just a woman and when i made it super easy for him he blew me off
4 i am so freakingly easy to be forgotten by guys who were to the slightest bit involved with me
5 whoever i met online i don't meet a proper and descent human being who wants a genuine connection. Never I've tried many times but never
6 connected with a guy on some deep stuff exchanged numbers and yeah he didn't call at all,
7 i tried and shoot my shot on to some guy he told me he is baletdar and yea he didn't wear and ring
8 had a class with some guy that i liked i tried for us to get some training and suggested that he said he didn't want to go at all also this same guy replied with just 🤟 or something to very continueable conversation
9 some guy friend would just leave me in the class room to hangout with a girl who didn't even like him even after telling him i hate people who ditch me. Got his karma tho😅 i like how she'd mistreat him
10 another guy friend whom i supposedly thought liked me went along and got married. He didnt give a flying shit abt me after that he'd just ignore my calls, messages mnamn( which were innocent i promise just hw u doins )
11 has stng small wz some guy i was the only one who'd call, text yeah i was dumb and just 18years old while doing that but even after i left him he didn't bother to come back
12 thought i started something genuine with some guy i met online turned out he was a catfish
13 i met someone here on venthere and as soon as he saw my pic he got cold
14 i thought i found the love of my life at only one point in my life. I met him online and turned out he was a catfish
15 my friend thought some guy from church had a crush on me we'd talk intermittently and he'd reply years later and for some unrelated reason i started talking to him through anonymous account and turned out his replies were faster than the flash or flush whoever he is
16 started talking to my highschool crush anonymously and he blocked me as soon as he found out who the freaking hell i was 😭
17 met a guy online who was really miserable tbh gn esu rasu he'd just leave me after sexting, make me beg him for replies, tells me that he just wants to fuck wz me and yeah I'd stay
These are all different guys
Do u guys think it's a curse
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