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05 July 2026 18:01

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Hi, can I get you guys opinion on something.
What could be a reason to stop dating someone? Cheating, lying, difference in opinion on important things like religion, financial problems, physical attraction?
Or being late 45 minutes for a date?

No huge context but I had a date scheduled before hand at mata 1:00. He always says why so late why can’t we meet keza befit but I had work and bet gebiche eskiweta 1:00 yihonal so we confirmed the date earlier in the day and I was caught up by work till 12:45 mnamn and I communicated that I was leaving work and am coming to the place. He also said he will go home and leave his car at home in case the place had no parking and we agreed to go be ride.
When I got home it was almost 1:30 but he’s also home so I called and tell him am leaving and we can drive by his house and pick him up and he got so angry that I don’t value his time and he left his friends coz he had a plan with me mnamn so all and all when I said am coming and ahun tiwetaleh alku he got angrier and anchin aydel mitebkew endiyawm almetam ciao ale. Mind you the ride is outside, am all dressed and he said he doesn’t wanna go out now. I literally begged him and he said no and not just to go out now but he doesn’t wanna see me again and we should end things right now over the phone. I pleaded with him beka yezarew plan yikir am sorry let’s try to fix it biye and he said he doesn’t want to date me anymore mayet alfeligm and strangers nen kahun wedi. Mind you it’s gena 1:45 at this point and sidewil silk yizegal and he literally said zimblesh nw mitlefiw am done and when I asked him if he wanted to talk tomorrow he said he has nothing left to talk about between us and aygebashim alfelgim malet ale.

Am I the only one who thinks this is over reacting? I mean late mehon liyabesach yichilal or betam tilik kehone yezan ken yaserizal enji overall yakorarital ende 45min late mehon? It’s not like in a restaurant bichawn eko bet tekemto 45min?? Oh and he said the reason is he doesn’t want anyone that has this much power to make him angry and disturb his peace.

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05 July 2026 04:00

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I am Coby
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Hi, my name is coby(ilia). I had this gc and all my friends in it. I created it and was like the center of attention or smth and it was way too fun. It was all i had and tbh i had no other friends other than them. Now, they all kinda hate me and being passive aggressive towards me. I believe the reason to be they found someone wayy more fun than me. I even tried to vent to them about this and they just didnt care. I dont know what to do anymore. I have a lot of work around(exams,money problems,family problems) and im losing my "friends" too. I really feel like im not a good human being and i cant have a stable friendship with people. I feel like the reason they hate me is i care too much and lovedump them too much that i become boring and hateful. I dont know what to do anymore

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05 July 2026 04:00

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Used to be a lover boy Fallin for potentials i used to love the idea of love write poetries and songs with inspiration of love , i love love i love serving love but when the realization sets in we live in a world where on could love with out their options the high they still chase the attention they want to get fed any hoo i dn blame none knowing thy self is not to condemn others rather to make choices that wisely and thats how i came to this new born personality with a hint of sight of mismatch misalignments and so i make sure i dn waste both our times i end it right there it doesn't take long as they said to know sm one i stoped looking to uncover smth and started accepting what they project is what they are and that my story and my relationship with love i dn mind not the one what matters is me not lossing my self trying to find the one

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05 July 2026 04:00

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I was so confused after we had this conversation with the friend group and lowkey made me judge them too like are you all fr 🤨 So here is what went down. It was one of my closest guy friend’s birthday. I know the guys don’t do birthdays and they were just going to hang out and eat lunch or dinner. But what’s a birthday without a cake so I sent the money to a bakery and told them I just want them to pick up the cake and take it to him because I wasn’t in the city. They were so stressed. They keep saying men don’t do this tho 😂 at the end, I set them straight and forced them to take it with the candles. They sent me the video after and the first thing they said when they meet him is “here is your cake. No homo. She sent the cake” and just dropped the cake on his hand like 🤣🤣 it is not that deep. So later on, I brought up the conversation with other friend circles. We were having a discussion about fragile masculinity and topics like that. I wanted to see if their fragile masculinity and humanity actually matched up, so I posed a question to them. This is the scenario. “Your best friend whom you see like a brother is very sick and needs to go to the toilet to pee. He can stand up with a little support but his hand doesn’t work. Usually, when men pee, they have to hold it up straight so it won't ruin their clothes or whatever. Because his hand doesn't work, he can't do this himself.” So the question is, would you do it for him? I wanted them to consider that this is not a normal scenario where they are doing it for games or sth. This is a serious problem. I was flabbergasted when all of them said HELLL TO THE NOOOO. One said, “he can soil himself for all I care.” One said “I will pray to God so he can give him the power to hold it on his own” one said “I will hire someone to do that” one with so much hesitation said “I will hold it with tongs” one said “if it is my brother, I will do it with gloves” whattttt??? I swear I was hoping they would get out of this ridiculous fragile masculinity mentality when it is a sick friend. But no, they resisted till the end. I said I would definitely do it for them even if it is a little awkward and they retaliated, they would definitely help me if I need help with the toilet too but they just wouldn’t go as far as holding their guy friends like that. Okay well the other girl friends said they would definitely hold their girl friends’ dress for her and sit her on the toilet. And if needed, they would even clean her up with a tissue after. And I 10000% will do this too. So the question is, would you all men here think the same or am I in the wrong friend group? 😂😂 if yes, why are you exactly so against this?

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05 July 2026 04:00

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Anyone who are experienced in anal sex i need help guys

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05 July 2026 04:00

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Stop using love as bait for sex. If you have a high drive own it but dont drag someones heart into it just to get your needs met. You know what you’re doing when you whisper sweet things and make promises and act like this means more only to flip around later and say I dont want love right now. Thats not maturity. Thats manipulation. Maturity is knowing what you want before you take someones trust. Its saying upfront I just want a FWB nothing more. Simple and honest. And dont tell me sex isnt a big deal. For those who get it easily sure maybe its casual. But for the good genuine people out there who connect sex with emotion it is a big deal. They give their bodies because they think theyre giving their hearts too. Dont believe people just because they talk smooth. Words are cheap. Consistency is what matters. Because the pain of seeing someones true self after youve already given them everything cuts deep and stays long after theyre gone. If they’re down for just sex it will happen. If not walk away. But dont fake love to get what you want. Good people deserve better than your temporary affection. Be honest or keep your promises to yourself.

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04 July 2026 04:00

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"After I became rich, it has become very difficult for me to identify a woman who truly loves me."

ለጊዜያዊ ነገር አንድም ቀን ተቸግሬ አላቅም በፊትም ደሃ እያለሁ ከ የሃስኩል ተማሪ እያለሁ ጀምሮ ቺክ ላይ ተፍ ተፍ ስለምል ጌሙ በደንብ ነው የሚገባኝ የሴቶችንም ሳይኮሎጂ በደንብ ነው የምረዳው እንደውም ብዙ ወንዶች ምክር ይጠይቁኛል  

ሃብታም ከሆንኩ በኋላ ግን ቁም ነገር ሳስብ እንዴት ነው አንዲት ሴት እንዳፈቀረችኝ የማቀው የሚለውን ሳስብ ግራ ይገባኛል ምክንያቱም 80% በላይ የሚሆኑ ሴቶች ሃብታም ባል ሲሉ ነው የሚውሉት እና የምር እኔን ወዳኝ ይሁን ገንዘቤን ፈልጋ ይሁን ለመለየት ከባድ ሆኖብኛል 26 አመቴ ነው አሁን ላይ ዝም ብዬ ነው ስማሽ እያረኩ ያለሁት ቁም ነገር ሳስብ ግን የሴቶችን ምክር መስማት እፈልጋለሁ
i need home girl 😁 ስለ ሴቶች የምታማክረኝ የሴት ጓደኛ እፈልጋለሁ የምር  ጥሩ ሴት ላይ ካልጣለኝ ገንዘቤን መበላቴ ነው 😂

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04 July 2026 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Henok 🇺🇸
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Hey... I just need to vent.

I'm from the U.S., but I've been living here for 10 years now. Honestly, I don't have any friends. I have some foreign friends, but I really want Ethiopian friends too.
A few days ago, I had a girlfriend, but she cheated on me with her ex. Since then, I've been feeling really down.

Can you we be ?🤦‍♂

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03 July 2026 04:00

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ከ 5 ወር በፊት አንድ ቆንጆ የ 25 አመት Model ተዋወቅሁ
ቆንጆ ናት ረጅም ናት she was my ideal girl, she was perfect.
ተቀጣጠርን ተገናኘን እንዲያ እንዲያ ስንል አፈቀርኳት እሷም ፍቅሬን ተቀብላ we got together (atleast i though we were)
Goddd our 3 months of relationship or(what ever you wanna call it) was a dream.
በጣም ነበር የምወዳት and that was for the very first time in my life.
እሷም የምትወደኝ መስሎኝ ቀሪ ህይወትን ከሷ ውጭ ማሰብ አቅቶኝ ነበር

በዛ ሰአት እንደማቶደኝ የሚያሳይ አንድም ነገር አልነበረም ሁሉንም እሺ ትለኛለች፣ ፣ እንዴት እንደሆንኩ ትጠይቃለች፣ቤት ትመጣለች we did every wildest things together በቃ ምንም ነገር እምቢ አትለኝም
ከዛ all of a sudden እንለያይ አለቺኝ በቃ ቁም ነገር መስሪያ እድሜዬ ደርሷል እንለያይ አለቺኝ and i was like whatttttttttttttt  Ps:(as i said earlier she is 25 and religious i am also 23 and agonistic.)
እኔ ሲባል የማቀው girls don't fuck they don't love ነው እሷ ግን she fucked the shit outta me without Loving me.

ምክንያት አርጋ ሀይማኖትና እድሜአችንን አነሳች but that was a lieee we both knew that wouldn't be the matter.

በደንብ ሳስጨንቃት በቃ አላፈቀርኩህም i only liked being with your stupid rich ass  እንጂ ወደፊት አብሬው ለመኖር የማስበው ሰው አይደለህም አለቺኝ (God that shit hurts) 💔

የመጀመሪያዬ ስለሆነ አበድኩ i was a play boy my whole life, never took anyone seriously.

nothing will make me understand that gender man አለምአየሁ ገላጋይ "ሴቶች የመጥፊያ ጉድባ ናቸው" እንዳለው ህይወቴ ውስጥ ገብታ ድምጥማጤን አጥፍታኝ ሄዳለች!

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03 July 2026 04:00

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We met at  hospital,cause of smth.we talked normally ,cause the situation made us close.heis kind of religious person ,i like that ,he jokes and laughs with everyone .when felt blue ,he tried to cheer me up,and i like that.then one night i sat next to him cause i was charging my phone  he called me and tokd me to close to him,i didnt oppose held me ,u know what i mean?right?it wasnt normal .he told me that i am beautiful (i am not by the way).when i was about to go he told me not to go ,i was tooo okay with that😊.u know it seemed kike መግደርደር.finaly i gone,

Kezih tenstachihu silezih sew mn maket tichilalachihu?felgew new commentun

Was he approaching me or not
Ene yes endalil ene bota silesetehut normally tegvabtogn new yemil hasab new yalegn ,kehulum gar tegbababi new.

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02 July 2026 04:00

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M28 and just feeling incredibly lonely lately. I’m a simple man with a kind heart who loves animals and the earth. I genuinely want to find a serious relationship that leads to marriage, but the waiting and the search are really starting to weigh on me. I could really use someone to talk to—whether it's just to chat or jump on a call. Just needed to vent this out and hopefully find some connection.❤

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02 July 2026 04:00

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M, 28. I see lots of vents on this channel about people wanting to be dominant or sometimes submissive. Or some might be neutral. I dont understand how they are able to decide on one thing they want. Im very confused, most times i feel like being dominant (although i cant imagine myself spitting on someone) but just like grabbing her and softly wrapping my hands around her neck. Other times i feel like being submissive (very rarely and i dont even want to degrade myself) i just like the idea of pleasing someone. I feel like bdsm has gotten out of had a bit. Or maybe my definition of it is different and i cant even find myself being strictly one sided. So can a person actually be both? And not even want to be extreme?

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02 July 2026 04:00

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ሰላም
የ 28 አመት ሴት ነኝ
ለ4 አመት relationship ዉስጥ ነበርኩ ለሽምግልና 2 ወር ነበር የሚቀረዉ በመሀል በትንሽ ነገር ተጣላን ለማዉራት ብሞክርም አያወራም አይመልስም ምንም ለማዉራት አይፈልግም መለያየት መፈለጉ ገባኝ። እኔም ሙከራዬን አቆምኩ።ከብዙ ነገር አንፃር ዋጋ ከፍዬበት ነበር ጓደኝነታችን ላይ ከሁሉ ነገር ርቄ ስለነበር አሁን ላይ የማማክረዉ ሰው እራሱ የለም ። እንዴት ነው move on የማደርገው ? እንዴት ነው ሁሉ ተረስቶ አዲስ ሂወት የሚጀመረዉ?

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02 July 2026 04:00

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story time ግቢ ካለ ጥፋቴ እንዴት F እንደተሰጠኝ😭😭

ግቢ የሆነ assignment የምናስረክብበት ቀን ደርሶ መምህራችን departmet office እየመጣችሁ አስረክቡ አለን..... እኔና ጓደኛዬም ቢሮ ሄድን ግን ሰውዬው የለም ሌሎች መምህሮች ነበሩ....

👨‍🏫 : ማንን ፈልጋችሁ ነው
እኛ : ዶክተርን
👨‍🏫 ዶክተር ማን?
እኛ: አይ ስሙን አናቀውም
👨‍🏫: እንዴት የሚያስተምራችሁን ሰው ስም አታቁም ለማንኛውም ለምሳ ወቶ ነው የሚሆነው ቁጭ ብላችሁ ጠብቁት........

ከግማሽ ሰዐት ጥበቃ ቡሀላም አልመጣም....

👩‍🏫: ያው ስሙን እንኳን ብታቁት እኛ ሲመጣ እንሰጥላችሁ ነበር.... ሌላኛዋ teacher

ከዛ ጥግግ ላይ ተቀምጦ የነበረው ሌላ መምህር ወደኛ እያየ
🧔:የሚያምረው ነው እንዴ ?

እኔ : ኧረ አያምርም
ሁሉም በሳቅቅቅቅቅቅቅ

at that moment ዶክተርዬ ከችችችች
ከዛ የጓደኛዬን assignment ተቀብሎ አንቺ ቀጣይ አመት የኔን ኮርስ ታናናሾችሽ ጋር ትፍቂያለሽ ብሎኝ ሄደ

ምን አደረኩ ብዬ ወደ መምህሮቹ ሳፈጥ😳😳

"ዶክተር የሚያምረው ነው ስሙሙሙ"
በሳቅቅቅቅቅቅቅ

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01 July 2026 04:00

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Hey there I'm in dire need of help my my fellow brothers here who had the pleasure of getting laid. How the heck did y'all do it? It sounds like such a difficult thing to do. They say ask the fisher how to fish and not the fish itself. So please, enlighten me, men of telegram.

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05 July 2026 04:00

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I 22f desperately need friends. I always thought I had friends leka I hv acquaintances,classmates or old high-school friends who I meet once a yr or stb... notice saderg weekend lay enkuan dewye enchebs or buna aflche sew enma yemelew sew yelem😂jk jk I don't even hv smn to go out for a walk with lol

I need yeset jema of 5 or 6..u hv no idea how jealous I am when I see group of gurls laugh hangout mnamn😭....we'll hv big plans like birthdays, galentines, cinemas, bowling,posting cute stories , try new trends, hangout at eachother's place mnamn...also ppl who aren't scared of exploring the nyt life like bermel fest or concerts mnamn once we trust and get to know eachother well ofc...bcha am in desperate need of friends who wants to hv fun...if u are interested and a girl above 20 ..ask my id belugn...we'll form a group ketemechachen within a week mnamn we'll plan a fun hangout😁if we all vibe ofc

Gn demo hule yetekabede nefs yemiaschenk hangouts mnamn alfelegm..sth casual yaltasebe ketero yelem after class mnamn catchup madreg or weekend lay big plan baynorm abro kuch blo medeber...am usually alone so I'd love any type of company at any time 😂ena bchegnet bekremt defa kena yaregachu ehtoche let's gather here😂ena mela mela enbelew..please dm if u are as desperate as I am hehe

Thnxx xoxo

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05 July 2026 04:00

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So I'm a guy, 26.
I'm into both dominating and being submissive but both has limit. Bezum deep algebam, I just want the energy and the intimacy. My role will depend on the girl but sometimes I can be dominant if teased.
Also I never had sex but did oral stuff .
The question is, what do girls think about a guy being both dominant and submissive..

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05 July 2026 04:00

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22 M here

I am not ashamed when I say, I feel absolutely zero sense of patriotism for this country. I would say this out loud if I could but some mfers probably are going to virtue signal and Tell me "but the society that fed and raised you", first of all; I can without a doubt say that the only people I owe something to are my parents. The only two people I would give my life for are my dad who got screwed out of his hard work and money when he was younger when he made the mistake of starting a business with someone with no proper legal contract, the man who had multiple businesses destroyed because he refused to bribe his way to success and set an example for his kids and earn them a better life and my mother who woke up at 4'O clock after 3 hours of sleep, worked as a secretary from 8 to 5'O clock till her fingers cramped just to make minimum wage and get her son's ass educated thinking he would be successful just for him to end up in med-school and probably earn minimum wage by the time he graduates and not be capable enough financially to retire her.

I have been trying to make a side income while I study for 2 straight years only to see a big L after another big L and when things finally started to click, I realized that I can't even use the money I worked hard for to buy the things that I wanted as long as I lived in this country and now I have came to the decision of just packing it up and leaving.

Ethiopia, I know you aren't out there to reply to what I am about to say but it is from my heart, from top to bottom when I sincerely say SCREW YOU.

I don't want to "love" a country for the sake of saying it when I sincerely hate the people living in it. The kind of society that defaults to "devil's influence" whenever someone says something out of the ordinary, the kind that treats ignorance and stupidity as a badge of honour, the kind that still brags about what his fat ancestors who have nothing to do with him were able to accomplish, the dumbasses who still haven't moved past crying about which ethnicity has done which literally 200 years ago.

Screw you and the second I get the chance, I am leaving😭

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05 July 2026 04:00

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heyy lately I'm getting a little bit lonely I have people around me but they aren't people I trust that much I had a girlfriend but we broke up for a lot of reasons I'm not rich guy but I do relatively well for myself I after I broke up with my gf I constantly crave physical intimacy we used to do freaky stuff and I don't have the energy to get into another relationship and I'm not a night life guy either for a one night stand I've tried massage parlors but the experience wasn't that great and now I'm thinking about escorts I don't even know if there is such service available in Ethiopia anyways I'm just a guy craving something I just wanted to put it out there it's eating me alive

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05 July 2026 04:00

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Guys, I said I was looking for friends, not a sex partner. 😭

I only mentioned that I'm from the USA because I was hoping to find people who live here too. Then someone noticed I misspelled a word and immediately started saying I'm not from the U.S. 😭😂

Bro, I'm not trying to brag or prove anything. I'm just trying to make some friends.

So seriously... how do you guys make friends? 😭 If anyone is from New York, please talk to me.

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04 July 2026 04:00

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23m
I envy people who're "happy", find joy in the smallest things, keep being excited for what's coming, have hobbies and interests that they can seek comfort in. Or go outside and have fun, act their age, meet people, mingle, date and all that stuff. I question myself anytime I encounter people Ike these. Where did it all went wrong for me? Where did I lose a step? Because I used to be that person. I had hobbies I never imagined could live without. I had will to live a life where I could be happy. I feel like a shell of my old self. From the outside, I may seem like just a lazy individual who's always been stuck in. Or is finding a reason not to be better and man up. There's no ounce of energy left in me that'll Joyce me. I don't react to things like I should've have. I'm not affectionate as I wish I could've been. There's so much wrong in me that I can only hope for it to disappear one day. It's crazy how one event can turn into a snowballing of disaster.

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04 July 2026 04:00

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Okay here goes nothing this is probably one of the most ridiculous things I ever did anyways yesterday July 2 2026 I saw this guy which was pretty cute and just wanted to get it out of my system I will give y'all a description incase he is in this channel it was around piyasa taxi station at 7:40 ish he was tall light skinned and had huge hair idk it was curly but looks like an afro most of oll stylish which is pretty cool he was wearing dark washed vail jeans kinda old school but not too tight with a leather black shoe and a shirt not sure of the colour but it has orange stripes. And was holding something not sure what it is my assumption is pastry. I feel like the odds of this reaching the person in question is almost 0 but idk i feel like venting about it .

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03 July 2026 04:00

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I'm a 32-year-old male government employee, and I've been single for many reasons. Now, I'm ready to start a serious relationship. The problem is that I no longer have the patience for long phone calls or chatting. I lose interest quickly and often stop replying or talking. I know that if I keep doing this, I might end up staying single forever.
Has anyone experienced similar thing?
What do you think I should do?

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03 July 2026 04:00

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Hello everyone

I would really appreciate some advice from people who have been through something similar or have a different perspective. I withdrew from medical school after completing my 3rd year. During that time, I was struggling with MDD and CPTSD, and I took a one-year break where I focused on therapy and working on my mental health. Now I’m at a crossroads. Part of me still feels drawn to medicine and feels joy when I think about returning. At the same time, I’m wondering if returning is the right decision or if I should pursue a different profession and start a new path instead. For anyone who has stepped away from medicine, taken a long break, or had to rebuild after difficult circumstances: how did you make your decision? Did you return, change paths, or wish you had done something differently?

I’d really value honest advice and experiences. Thank you.

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02 July 2026 04:00

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I’m a 19-year-old woman getting my driver’s license, and I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with my driving instructor. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it or if my concerns are valid, so I’d like honest opinions.

I’m taking lessons with my male cousin. The instructor has both of our phone numbers, but he almost always calls me instead of my cousin. One day he called me 9 times, and I still don’t know why because he never explained it. He has also offered to pick me up for lessons more than once, saying he was nearby. He always said “you,” not “you two,” even though my cousin and I were taking lessons together.

He also makes a lot more personal conversation with me than with my cousin. He asks me about my studies, talks to me in French because he knows I speak it, and even came back another day after looking up a French driving term just to tell me the correct word. He doesn’t do this with my cousin.

During driving lessons, he sometimes physically moves my leg. At first I thought it was normal because he also guided my cousin’s leg. But one time I had already moved my foot off the clutch when he told me to, and he still grabbed and moved my leg anyway. It didn’t feel necessary.

Another thing that bothered me was during a lesson where my cousin drove first. I sat in the back seat, and nobody asked me to leave. When it became my turn, my cousin stayed in the back seat, but the instructor told him to get out. My cousin refused and stayed anyway. There was enough room in the car, so it wasn’t because of space.

At the end of one lesson, the instructor slapped my cheek with his hand in a joking way. It wasn’t a hard slap, but it also wasn’t just a light tap. He then said something like, “Don’t be upset with me, I’m teaching you.” That made me uncomfortable because I don’t think an instructor should touch a student’s face.

Now my cousin has passed his circuit exam, so my next lesson will be just me and the instructor alone in the car for a long drive.

I don’t know if I’m connecting unrelated events or if these are legitimate red flags. I’m not trying to accuse him of being a predator because I don’t know his intentions. I just know that his behavior has made me uncomfortable, and it’s bringing back bad memories from my childhood. I’m stressed about my next lesson and want to know:

If you were in my situation, what would you do? Would you think I’m overreacting, or would you set boundaries? If so, how would you handle it?

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02 July 2026 04:00

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I am 17, female

I need someone like me, or someone who can understand me. I can't rest still and needs to be active all the time, either in my head or physically. It's not a bad thing per se, but when i am also meaning-oriented and  continuously ask why this and why that about everything it's hard.
I can't answer everything. Sometimes i get answer when i am physically active and around people, feeling and experiencing things. But when i am at home for a while trapped in my head asking continuously why, i can't get any answers, cause it's all in my head. And everything seems nonsense in my head. I can't get a proper answer for the whys, but  i can't just stay still, but at the same time i can't find a reason to do anything at all.And i am uncertain if i will be able to get answers in the future, which crushs my hope.  I want everything and then nothing. I am a walking contradiction.
I just want answers.😭😭😭

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02 July 2026 04:00

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Hello everyone this is serious!!!
I'm a 29-year-old woman with absolutely no support system and I'm the one helping my family financially.
I recently got an opportunity to buy a car through Mesriya Bet. It's a really good deal: a good interest rate, a good-year repayment period and only a 5% down payment.
The problem is that I only have enough money for the down payment. I have nothing left to cover the other costs. I know some people might see buying a car as a luxury but for me it's an important opportunity.
My sister had promised to lend me 100,000 but she changed her mind at the last minute.
Please does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? I would really appreciate any advice. Thank you.

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02 July 2026 04:00

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I am ＴＨＥＯ
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ሁሌም ስሜቶቼን ለማደራጀት እቸገራለሁ። ያለምንም ነገር ጭንቅላቴ ሁሌም ይወጠራል፤ አንድም ቀን ፈታ ብሎ አያውቅም። "i think therefore, i exist" አልልም። "i think therefore, i hate existence" ብል ይቀለኛል። ሁሌም ሲነጋ ቶሎ እስኪመሽ እቸኩላለሁ፤ "የጭንቅ ቀን ይረዝማል" አይደል የሚሉት ቀናቶች ይረዝሙብኛል።

በየትኛው የህይወቴ እጥፋት ላይ እዚህ እንደደረስኩ አላውቅም። እንዲ አልነበርኩም፤ እንዲ መሆንም አልነበረብኝም። ግን ሆንኩ።

መቀየር እንዳለብኝ ሁሉም ይነግረኛል። ይህ የሰው ጫና ውጬን እንጂ ውስጤን እንድቀይር አልረዳኝም። እኔነቴን ስታገል ኖርኩ። ከነበርኩበት ፈቀቅ ግን አላልኩም... ለለፉልኝ፣ ለኖሩልኝ፣ ለራሴ ውድቀት ነኝ.....

ማን ያውቃል መልካም ቀናቶች እየጠበቁኝ ይሆናል....
ማን ያውቃል ምን'አልባት ጥሜን ለማርካት ወደ  ጉሮሮዬ በላክሁት ቀዝቃዛ ማይ (ውሃ ) ትንታ እ'ሞት ይሆናል!

Ａ Ｄ Ｉ Ｏ Ｓ !

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01 July 2026 04:00

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Hey first time venting here
I want to talk about something that’s so exhausting and honestly really annoying

I’ve been obsessed with beauty since I was 13 and it’s crazy I don’t know why I’m like this I think I enjoy the attention i get even though I never want to admit it The first thing I look at when I wake up is the mirror not even my phone i look at the mirror at least 60 times a day isn’t that crazy?
I genuinely feel like if I lost this face i would die I wouldn’t even want to stay one day in this world
Nobody likes me for my personality no one and I know I have a good personality Whenever I think my looks are enough to keep people it just ends up with them showing me off and then leaving am so lonely and introverted i’ve never had a friend who isn’t jealous or who doesn’t get mad when people approach me so I keep wondering what’s really the point of all this? If it can’t make me lovable then what is it? All that stress to look good all the money I spend on skincare for what?
I don’t want to care about my appearance like this anymore and I don’t want people to care either I want people to love me for my personality because honestly what has being pretty done for me? Nothing! absolutely nothing Even girls I thought were average are getting more than me
Don’t think am a bad person with no personality just because i said that it’s just how I feel and if this is what beauty is then I don’t want it i really don’t because the whole point is to be loved am not an object to be shown off or something for men to compete over i’m so much more than that it’s getting too much I just want to be free from this obsession because it’s not even working in my favor anyway I’m really starting to hate myself and feeling very lonely every single day I thought it would get better but no it’s getting worse

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01 July 2026 04:00

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Who els think this life is just scripted drama by God who is watching us suffer and fall again and again he keeps us alive but we are keep suffering like if God actually knows our tomorrow why he aint helping us why he is just giving us the energy to survive why this age is so touch and panful for us some of us might survive what about the others who actually didnt make through what about their energy their tears their dream why God is so brutual on us on adults what els we can rely on just him we dont have anything els we can get as a backup this life aint fair for us everything is so fucked up when i thing ik stn i didnt know shit even the shit ik before is also fucked what the actual fuck is happening

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