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Let me tell you something I’ve been carrying for a while.

Back when I was in like grade 5, I had this “role model.” She was my neighbor  just finished matric, got into AAU, and suddenly she was that girl. Everyone talked about her like she made it. And to me, she really had.

Then she went to university, and everything about her felt… elevated. The clothes changed trendy, a little bold, the kind you notice. Her hair was always done. She had this 4 tight circle of friends, always together, always going somewhere. I remember her showing me pictures  eating out, concerts, laughing, glowing, just living. Those soft, pretty pictures that look effortless but somehow perfect.

And I internalized that.
I thought that was what your 20s looked like. I thought growing up meant stepping into that exact life the fun, the friendships, the freedom, the aesthetic of it all.

But now I’m 22. Almost graduating.
And I keep asking myself…

where is it?
Where are those moments I imagined so clearly?
Where are the friends that feel like a constant fun?
Where are the pictures that tell a story I actually want to remember?

And yeah, I know  I’m not naive. I know social lives aren’t always what they look like from the outside. I know people curate what they show. But still… I wanted to feel it for myself. Not perfectly. Not all the time. Just enough to say, “yeah, I lived my early 20s.”
Because right now, it feels like I blinked and went straight into “serious life” without passing through that phase I was promised or at least thought I was.

So I’m wondering…
Is it just me?

Or are there other girls in their 20s quietly feeling like they missed something they were supposed to experience?

If you get it… you already know what to do.

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Hey im 19yo Algerian female And me and my sisters just found evidence that my dad is cheating on my mum
We suspected at first cuz whenever we go to our other appartement which is in another city he closes his door and at 11:30 pm smth we can hear him talk to a woman and it isn’t my mum and they laugh and he makes jokes but like we were im denial plus we thought maybe its one of our aunties we werent sure ( we were we just didn’t want to admit it) and after that day i tried to put my phone in his car and record but nada nothing and when we went back to our hometown my twin sister saw him driving his car inside in the passenger seat there was a woman with blue hijab and it was definitely not my mum plus my aunts live in France so no chance Again me my older sister and my dad went to the other city last Thursday and my mum my older brother and younger brother and my twin stayed home
So me and my older sister decided to go shopping and dad drove us and i just had this idea to leave my phone in his car and tap record and i did and when we finished shopping and went home i forgot my phone in his car and he went to pray in the mosque so i called him from my sisters phone and told him that i forgot my phone in the car he brought it to me and at 11:30 pm my older sis heard him talk and we went beside his door and started listening but we couldn’t hear well and then i remembered the recording so yay we listened to it and now we know for sure he is cheating there is no denying it he was talking to her we heard her voice on the phone she’s also married with kids and for the firsttime in my life i was disgusted with my dad
He doesn’t talk that kindly to my mum he doesn’t chat with her that much becuz whenver she asks about his work stuff ge starts acting up and not telling her anything but when he was talking to his other chick he immediately started gossiping like wtf is wrong with u
And i thought maybe now he doesn’t want my mum but dude whenver he has the chance he acts all lovey dovey towards her like hugging her or kissing her infront of us
But the problem is there were signs of him cheating like how he always brings homemade cake with him and tells mum its from work and how he tells us he is driving but we can hear him in the phone that he is in a closed space
My mum and dad have been married for 26 years and i can’t believe he did this
Also i remember from my childhood that the cheating happened and she confronted him and told him that shes gonna tell his kids( us) and he regretted it and started apologizing and begging and telling her he would never do such a thing again and me and my siblings thought a woman messed with him like he wasn’t cheating but he was texting a woman but in reality he was we just were to young to understand and we loved out father so we never thought he cheated
So till now the only ppl that know are me my older sis and my twin and we cannot tell mum becuz if my dad was emotionally absent our whole lives my mother was very very suffocatingly present and we know that she would never leave him and that if we do tell her she’sgonna make our lives a living hell
And now we are trying to know who that woman is and we are close we know her name and where she lives but who is she in person and what does she do we dont know
All we know is my older brother is an asshole becuz we disnt tell them about dad but we were like we have this friend and her father is cheating and stuff and my older brother was like well he can do whatever he wants he is a man and we were like imagine this happening in our family and the motherfather was like i will support my father if he ever does something like that
Imagine if mama knows how her favorite son thinks about her
Sometimes im convinced he hates us all and he is just waiting for our parents to die so he can inherit money and takes everything from us believe me when i say he is greedy its sickening

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Is it normal to not be in a relationship by 18? I'm turning 19 in two months, yet I have never been in a relationship once. I don't know if it's the fear of getting rejected; I tend to take the friendship route. Every time I start talking to someone, I talk to them like they're my friends. What should I do?

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Enemlew gn.setoch lemndenew tamagn wend abreyachu lehun blo siteyek yemeteteraterut neger gn lenante mnm keber yelelew wend gar setehonu nebsachun lemestet hula yematederaderut koy and wend endemiyagebash kenegeresh endemiyafekresh kenegeresh tamagnenetun ke were alfo be tegbar kasayesh lemndenew sele sex siyanesa esun ende balege yemetekotrut lesemetu becha yefelegachu yemetasmeselut koy new weyes ende lelawochu achberberen alga lay mewsed aleben koy lemn endezi endenehon taregunalacu setoch melesulegn eshi mawek efelegalew

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I'm 29M Lately I’ve been thinking about something and I just want to say it out loud.

I’m a calm, respectful guy, easy to get along with. But when it comes to women, I’m not that close or open. Maybe it’s because I’m more introverted, I don’t know. It’s not like I’m boring or don’t have personality, it just doesn’t come naturally to me. Sometimes I wonder if that’s normal or if it’s just me.

Another thing is, I have strong sexual feelings like any man, and honestly I wish I could meet someone who understands that and feels the same way. Not in a bad way, just in a real, mutual, honest way. At the same time, I’m trying to understand how to control myself better and stay balanced.

And one more thing I don’t fully understand — why is it that when men talk about sexual topics, many women get uncomfortable or even dislike it? Is it the way it’s said? The timing? Or is it just something people see as inappropriate?

I’m not complaining, just thinking and trying to understand myself and others better. If anyone relates or has a different perspective, I’d honestly like to hear it

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girls is it suppose to hurt like hell i did it for the first time and i bled like hell like every thing was covered in blood i wanted to get over with it and after 30 min we tried it again and i still bled and i could see his d when he did me on my stomach i dont knw any thing i just got married and we havent done it since am scared to do it he said it is okay when ever you are ready

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I gave this guy my phone number ik him from before but he doesn't i have seen him before from afar ena semonun we had a chat not that long and he took my phone number it has been like 4 days he still hasn't called is he playing hard to get or has he forgotten me orr am not enough orrr he just isn't into meeee even if he calls what do i do, do i play hard to get??? Or should i just not care am so confused😭😭🙏🏼

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I need advice guys
Am M 26 I hv gf and she's 27 we're together almost 1 year I loved her so much I respect her and I cared for her, I don't want anything to happen to her, I gave her everything and she's virgin, she wants to marry by teklil I respect that even when she came to my house sometimes she stays like for weeks they know me her fam so I didn't even wants to touch her cos I don't want to shatter her dreams. The things she's acting weird lately after she found out that am 🇨🇦 citizen and I hide it the whole time that upset her i apologized so many times and when i told her i hide it cos i don't want to go back and wants live her. she's doing that I don't wants her to do like she's talking to her ex behind my back and she didn't wants me to meet her, talk to me, she's not picking her phone I don't know guys what to do am tired her shit.

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Hiwot astelachgn. Hiwot balege honechbgn. I hate myself. I did this to myself. I thought I was righteous. I am not. I f'd up my life. Me! I'm responsible. Wow! Bcha bzu new negeru. Idk!

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Mariyamen nafekegne it's hard to have mindful conversation with others. I don't wanna get back with you but i miss the moment we had together. Wtf do we have to fight. Wtf do we have to stop talking. You were the only one i share meaningful conversation with and here I'm being too serious for my age and people think I'm weird. I doubt i will ever find someone like you🥺
Can you just come back again, i promise i won't fall in love this time.

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Hey you guys endet alachu ye college temari negn ahun mn efelgalehu meselachu I have to be gobez temari wededkum telahum especially set slehonku ena beka wste gn not normal beka even fetena noro rasu alferam dro edenegt nbr betam ahun mnm aymeslegnm betam genius balhonm gn gobez neberku ahun lay beka betam dekmognal tmhrt yemibal ngr gn gdetaye slehone 1 lememar yemiyanekakagn ngr hulet dmo my god how you guys can understand accounting course especially the second one ewnet endet nw koy eshi yemigebachu ere help me out final 0 endalameta ewnet ene tesakekugn erdugn ewnet sayrefdbgn

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Okay M19 HERE...1 tyake lewendm le setm alegn ene bzu abro adeg set guadegnoch alugn backup mnamn aydelum real ende eht emayachew nachew we're almost family ena ene be relationship lay endet new problem lhon emchlew? Yerase life alegn emnaweraw be 2 or 3 month once new mnamn ena Andu flregna negn bay akumu blo segtual ye 13 amet friendship 🤦🏽‍♂️ why? Chgru mndnew?

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HI👨 Been a while since i vemted and I feel like I’m living in a world of temporary people.​I’m at that age where everyone says we should be having fun,but my version of fun isn't a revolving door of empty physical encounters. I find myself caught in this exhausting cycle: I have this intense drive for intimacy a physical obsession that I sometimes feel I can’t control yet the moment I give in to it, I realize I’m right back where I started. Alone.
​It’s a paradox. I’m craving deep connection, but I keep meeting people who treat sex like a handshake. I’m looking for someone who wants to build a life, talk about the future, and plant roots, but all I find are people who only want the right now.
​They want the heat, but they don't want the heart.
​I’m trying to learn how to break the cycle. I’m trying to figure out how to stop letting my physical impulses run my relationships before they even have a chance to turn into something real. I want to be normal.I want to be able to look at someone and see a partner for the next ten years, not just a distraction for the next ten minutes.
​It’s hard to stay serious about life when it feels like the rest of the world is just playing games. But I’m realizing that if I want a future, I have to stop settling for people who are only looking for an exit.

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I’ve asked a lot of things here, but you know what fascinates me? Almost everyone is talking about betrayal, exes, love—everything that revolves around relationships. What have we become? Why are we all so focused on love, even though we are still teenagers?

Our generation feels lost. What happened to talking about doing something meaningful for our country? About creativity, spirituality, and big goals? We are so blessed to be Ethiopians, yet we act like we’ve forgotten that. We need to fix our perspective.

Our generation is also becoming overly sexualized. We were raised to see virginity as something valuable, something meaningful within marriage. Now it feels like that sense of value is fading. It makes me wonder why we feel like we are facing so many problems—maybe we need to reflect more deeply.

Where are the people who seek out our ancestors’ hidden knowledge? Instead, many are focused only on physical desires, like nothing else matters.

Who is learning Ge’ez today? Almost no one, because we say we’re too lazy—yet we are eager to learn Spanish or Mandarin.

Who reads old Ethiopian books about medicine? No one, because we dismiss them as “not scientific.”

Who reads the Bible or the Quran nowadays? Very few, because we say we are too busy.

Who visits and explores different parts of Ethiopia? Few people, because many would rather travel abroad.

Who studies how many books our ancestors wrote? Hardly anyone, because we are too busy scrolling on TikTok.

Who truly helps others in the name of religion? Very few, because instead of compassion, we sometimes judge those who are different from us.

Many of us think we are smart and know everything, yet we may be emptier than a vacuum.

I miss the old “Mama Ethiopia.” I hope to see a more pure and grounded Ethiopia again. May God help us.

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Being single Man  with a high libido feels like being a "high-performance" machine stuck in a permanent school zone. You’ve got all this drive, all this intensity, and all this desire to connect, but you’re just... idling. It’s exhausting to constantly have to manage your own energy, to be the one always dialing yourself down so you don’t come off as "too much" or "only after one thing."
The worst part is the misunderstanding. If you vent about it, people think you’re just "horny" or "obsessed." They don’t get that for you, it’s a vital sign. It’s how you feel alive, how you express affection, and how you want to experience the world. When you’re single, that channel is just blocked. You end up redirecting it into the gym, into work, into hobbies, but at the end of the day, you’re still staring at the ceiling at 2 AM with enough leftover energy to power a small city.

It’s frustrating to have a heart and a body that’s ready to go 100 mph when the rest of the world seems stuck at a crawl. You’re just waiting for someone who won't ask you to slow down, but will instead ask you to keep up.
Does this feel like it captures that specific frustration of the "mismatch," or is there a different part of the experience you’re feeling most right now?

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I’m a genuine person and my heart is pure, I don’t have many friends my cousins used to be my best friends
They’re 3 sisters and I’m the only child so I used to spend bezu gize at their house gen I’ve been trying to distance myself because sometimes I don’t feel comfortable around them i feel like they don't give the chance to talk about me, how i feel mnamn she always talk about herself and they are 2 years older than me gen endmalawek ende mogn new treat miyargugn I'm 24 btw ena it’s hard because they’re family i can’t just cut them off
So when I don’t see them they say tefash engenagn mnamn eyalu yaschnkugnal keza when we hang out
sometimes it’s actually nice but most of the time whenever there’s a bigger gathering with other cousins or friends I always feel left out
When they meet other people they completely forget about me and don’t include me and it really hurts
I don’t know what to do because I still want a relationship with them we’re family but I don’t like how this makes me feel

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I was in a relationship where I gave everything I had. I was loyal, I cared deeply, I showed up fully. I wasn’t playing games, I was serious abt it. And somehow, even with all that, it still drained me.

If I’m being honest… he wasn’t even what I truly wanted. Not my type at all. I like tall men, good-looking, someone who carries himself well, someone who’s actually smarter than me or at least challenges me mentally. I value intelligence a lot because I know what I bring. I’m academically smart, I think deeply, I have goals, I’m not just anyone. I’m the kind of person someone should be proud to have. And I ignored that standard for way too long.

I stayed and tried to make it work anyway. I thought effort could fill in the gaps. It didn’t.

I’m not even bitter abt it. I learned, I left, and I kept moving. That part of me is solid.

But now I’m stuck in this weird in-between space.

One side of me wants to fully focus on myself. Build my life, level up, be independent, disciplined, that version of me that doesn’t need anyone. And I know I’m capable of that. I’ve always been that girl. But at the same time… it feels a little boring. Like life is missing some color.

Another side of me just wants to enjoy life. Go out, go on dates, be around energy, feel wanted, have fun without overthinking everything. But I don’t want anything toxic or empty. I don’t want to end up in something meaningless that drains me again.

And then there’s the part of me that wants to just wait. Be patient. Protect myself and only give my energy to the right person. Someone who actually meets me where I am, not someone I have to shrink or adjust for.

The confusing part is… I feel all of this at once.

Because right now, if I’m being real, I want to be spoiled. I want a man who takes care of me, who gives, who makes me feel soft and wanted without me stressing abt anything. I want that lovey-dovey energy, attention, consistency… but not in a toxic or confusing way. I don’t want some fwb situation or something half real. I want it to feel natural, easy, and genuine.

And I don’t even know if what I’m looking for fits into one path or if I’m asking for too much.

So now I’m just here trying to figure out which version of myself to follow… the one that builds, the one that enjoys, or the one that waits.

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I wore the jacket you borrowed from me to work today, it still smells like you. Somehow I keep missing you more everyday

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Hey guys, I’m not a bad person honestly but I have a type i prefer taller guys
I met this guy and we talked online for about 5 months Personality wise he’s perfect He’s caring, sweet, and mature We really got along well when he asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes that was so fast for me but I don’t think I fully thought it through at the time
I expected him to be at least a little taller than me maybe like 3 cm so when we met in person for the first time he was shorter than I expected I suddenly felt turned off I know physical attraction sometimes matters and even though his face is nice his body type didn’t attract me
So when I got home I told him I didn’t want to continue and I broke his heart now I feel really bad
What do you guys think?

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Hey I’m a 21 female I feel like I’m not where I want to be in life Ik many people feel this way but for me it’s a big problem
I see potential in myself but I have low self esteem I want to grow financially, spiritually, and academically I want to become well spoken, educated, knowledgeable person and I’ve tried, but I can’t change this cuz alwekm keyet endmjmer and I'm lazy for that and i hardly attend my classes meknyatum it’s very hard for me and i lost interest
Sometimes I find myself crying while studying because I don’t understand things mnm aygbagnm tolo eresalu
This thing affects my relationships I usually attract nerdy, smart people but I feel like I don’t deserve them I feel like I’m not at their level and I don’t have interesting things to talk about this keeps happening again and again and i want to change this but idk how!!!

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I’ve had a lot of “best friends” since I was little… but somehow it always ends the same.
we get close, then it breaks and honestly, those friendship breakups hurt more than anything else.even with guy friends, it’s not always real... sometimes it turns into something conditional or just feels off.I think I just want something genuine for once.a real best friend even if it’s online, I don’t mind. no weird energy, no games.yeah, it might sound random to say this out loud, but if you feel the same… maybe we can just talk and see where it goes.

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Uv temari nbrku 2nd yr lay iyalew i got 3 f then in second semester be academicall warning temarku then ahunim i got 1 course f meselgn so 3rd year 1,sem, altemrkum i think dissmisal new aydel?? Gin temlshe memar chilalew new wayis ebkachu badenb asrdugn ??

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I need people opinion from medical doctors or pharmacist who are in the professional world.
I will be soon graduating with pharmacy degree and the problem arises what path will I take after graduation. Studying medicine was my dream even after I grew up but due to multiple reasons even though I tried my best I couldn't get into medshool so I went to pharmschool. Now I heard there is an opportunity for me to join medshool after completing my pharmacy degree and I am eager to try that. Mind you I am 25 F and It will take me another 5 years to finish med school. But through the next 5 years I want to work using my degree, get stable , build my career , start a relationship and and get married and travel(possibly )but I don't think most of my desires are possible if I go to med school now. I feel like I am at the greatest dilemma of my life because based on the information I have , either I have to let go one or the other. So the question I have for pharmacists is should I just start working with my degree and establish my career and let go of medicine ? Will this profession satisfy me in the future? And for the doctors, should I spend another precious 5 years of my life to become a doctor and become both things ? Is it worth all the sacrifices I am willing to make to become a doctor? And also I would like to hear anyone experience related to this like people who were in the same confusion as I am and how you deal with it and how does the outcome looks like? I would greatly appreciate all your advices and opinions in advance. Thank you.

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Idk which part of my unhealed trauma is causing this. I start pushing them (men) away the moment time starts to pass, I say to myself ' ohh maybe I'm just bored' but nahh idts. Yk it's like a cycle meet, talk for a while, they show interest, I feel suffocated. then boom it will end just like that. Sometimes I think I should stay single for the rest of my life and half of me asks to love and be loved, to know how it feels like to be with someone with out feeling the urge to push them away or disappear all of a sudden even if it is just for once and maybe who knows once might be what it takes to end this.

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hey sewoch
am never been in relation ship am 21 .F . university student...and every one around me have something going in their life .....at least crush or some one to flirt with.even goes on date often
..........me .i didnt let any of this thing happen to me ..like i need the real love to find me .soi i dont want to waste my self and feeling ..on just temporary situationships ...so i avoid every man's conversion......and some time i question my self may be if am being very strict on my self..........in then what happen before few months some one approach me and ..i tried to be open ...i just wanted to see what will happpen ,,,,we manage to become good friends .we talk every day .and now idk am gettting confused ...i dont believe on idea of boys and girls being best freind ...............do u think guys ? .so ...am quesitioning where our friendship is heading ..like ..am not comfortable on staying on anonymous relations............actually i dint want to get in realtion too .........my idea is i dont want to invest my sef too much if things we are building ,our communication ,friendship someday didnt lead to some thing series like miarriage ,,,,,,,,,,,.................and lately am tried being in question every day ...so i ghosted him kemeret teneseche😁 hooooooooo.....yane nw mn yahl attached hogne endeber rasu yawekut... i think about him all the day ...and like sudden urge to talk text him back yefetatenegnal...so should i try to resist these feeeling or talk him again ...and be normal as before...................some advice pls.......actually we have been talking for almost 6 months .........and stilll he talks like sis or idk .what his intention.........actually idk what i want him to do tooo

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Any friends I can get here? I'm a guy, early 20's, learning, working and live alone in an apartment.

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bare with me and share your experiences!
earning a high salary, yet I find myself deeply unhappy. My workdays are defined by constant complaining and a heavy sense of dread that begins the moment I wake up. I feel trapped by guilt, fearing that leaving would be ungrateful to those who struggle for such an opportunity. However, the fear of the unknown and the risk of unemployment keep me anchored to a role that is causing me significant daily stress.
POV I work at a bank

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Today I've decided to move on without breaking up that means I won't care if what ur wearing is revealing, I won't care who u follow on social,I won't care if ur posts are inappropriate, I won't care if u keep talking to the guy that constantly hits on u,I won't care if u go out with ur friends knowing other men will come, I won't care if u repost other men or lust over them in front of me,I won't care if u post thirst traps and say it's not for attention starting from now on I will stop trying to turn u into someone I can marry and have a serious life with cuz I know one day we'll breakup and we'll be strangers so I should prepare myself for my future serious rnship just focus on myself and stuff go on and keep listening to ur friends let's see who has ur best interest in mind so if ur that man who thinks if ur in a rnship most of this stuff is a no no for smone who is dating to marry stop trying to change her there are plenty of women out there and trust me one day she'll move on and have a happy life with her type so should u

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Ok so this for all christian who believe in Christ especially all my ጴንጤ niggas and girls. Well I’ve been praying about my next year, and I’ve realized I need to come before God with a different kind of honesty one that doesn’t hide my struggles or pretend I’m okay. I’ve been overwhelmed by sin በእየሱስ ስም😑. I’ve sinned, repented, promised myself I’d change, and then failed again🤧. I’ve tried to fight what I know is wrong, but I keep discovering how weak I am , how easily I can lose ground spiritually. And I won’t call it anything else: it’s been immature, it’s been messy, and it’s been hard. But here’s what I know : my failure hasn’t canceled God’s calling on my life🤷‍♂. It’s calling me back. It’s pushing me toward repentance, toward the Word, toward real surrender.

This world is losing its balance. People are losing their purpose. The noise around us is constant temptation, distraction, and everything that pulls our hearts away from worship. Sin doesn’t only break rules; it distorts our identity( እቺን ያዙልኝ✍). It tells us to value what God never told us to value ....

pleasure over holiness,
comfort over obedience, momentary satisfaction over eternal truth.

.....And the more we drift without God, the harder it becomes to see clearly. We don’t just fall , we start losing spiritual sensitivity. We forget why we were created. We forget what love truly looks like. We forget that life is meant to be lived under God’s Word.

So this year, I’m choosing to return.😤

I want to seek God seriously, not casually, not only when I feel desperate. I want to start reading the Bible from complete scratch, Genesis to Revelation, like I’m beginning again. I don’t want surface-level Christianity🙄. I want depth. I want understanding. I want the Scriptures to become more than something I hear.I want them to shape my thoughts, my conscience, my decisions, and my life. And I want to go deeper than “just reading.” I want a commentary Bible journey where I can understand the meaning of the passages, the theological truth behind them, the cultural context so I don’t misunderstand, and answer real philosophical and spiritual questions grounded, thoughtful, and faith-building.

I also want to write hand notes brief and consistent so God’s Word becomes something I carry in my mind and heart, not something I simply scroll past.I’m starting with humility because I know I can’t fix myself through willpower alone. I need grace. I need the Holy Spirit to rebuild me from the inside out. I need repentance that is real, and discipline that is sustained.

So if anyone is serious about seeking God, growing in Scripture, and becoming steady in faith Genesis to Revelation then I’m inviting you to walk with me. Let’s learn. Let’s repent. Let’s stay accountable. Let’s grow together.I’m starting over with God. 
And I want to be God’s army. not because I’m fearless, but because I’m surrendered.

So all my Christian people reach me out and let's build a real faith 😇😊

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It is incredibly draining to be 27, feel like you’ve done the “work,” and still find yourself staring at a blank screen or sitting through another mediocre first date.
At 27, you’re in this weird limbo. You’re young enough that people tell you "you have so much time," but old enough to see your social circle thinning out as friends settle into serious long-term roles. It feels like everyone else got a manual on how to find "their person" while you’re out here just trying to figure out if a two-sentence bio is enough to prove you’re a functioning human being.
The dating app cycle is its own special kind of hell. It’s a part-time job that doesn't pay. You put in the effort, ask the thoughtful questions, and try to be the "good guy" who’s emotionally available—only to be met with ghosting, one-word answers, or the realization that the "spark" just isn't there for the hundredth time. It’s exhausting to keep introducing the same version of yourself to new people, hoping this time it sticks.
it’s valid to want to throw the whole phone out the window sometimes.
Are you feeling more burnt out by the apps themselves, or is it more about the lack of connection when you actually do meet people?

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