Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

03 Nov 2023 03:59

You are an Egg

You have great potential within.

Listen to me son, the first lesson that you will learn you is that conversation skills are 100% learnable.

It doesn’t matter how deep you are into human feces and how shitty your game is, you can rise again like a burning phoenix and reach the pinnacle of success.

It doesn’t matter how many rejections you’ve had in the past, you can start again and be successful in the future.

YOU CAN GO FROM ZERO TO HERO.

It starts with believing in the beauty of your potential. You have greatness within; all you have to do is tap into it. Never never never never never give up. Every day is another chance of life. Keep fighting towards your goals until your last dying breath.

The game is 100% learnable.

Unless you’re mentally retarded and in a wheelchair - missing both legs and both arms - you can learn game-related skill sets and apply those skills to have real sexual results with beautiful women.

Learn self-help seduction knowledge from resources such as this program.

Take MASSIVE ACTION IN THE FIELD!!!

Apply what you learn in real world situations.

Get feedback and results.

Take what you’ve learned from feedback and use that to refine your strategy.

Go back to step 1.

STRIVE TO GAIN THE VALUABLE KNOWLEDGE about what works with women then consciously apply it in situations that you find yourself in.

You have to implement what you learn in real-world situations in order for it to be internalized into your personality and skillsets. Knowledge isn’t power. Applied knowledge is power. Likewise, seduction knowledge isn’t seductive power. Applied seductive knowledge is power. Don’t be too easy on yourself son. Apply what you learn in the field.

Simply learning theory without implementing any of it does NOT give you game skills. It simply gives you some pieces of knowledge that you can use to show off to others, and that’s about it.

One cannot read his way into developing six-pack abs simply by reading about working out. MOTHERFUCKER I DON’T CARE IF YOU READ 12 BOOKS ON HOW TO PLAY TENNIS, YOU WILL NOT GET GOOD AT TENNIS UNTIL YOU ACTUALLY PICK UP THE RACKET AND PUT IN THE MAN-HOURS OF PRACTICE. That’s what it comes down to…

Field experience is KING.

Consistent application of knowledge is what leads to skills.

Knowledge is NOT an end into itself. The purpose of reading self-help seduction theory is to actually get results. Results are literally fucking impossible if you are not an action taker. You could know all the theories in the world, but if you don’t act upon what you know then you will get nowhere. You might as well shoot yourself in the foot because you will be going nowhere.

Take this moment right now to commit to taking more action than you usually take to succeed with women. Make that commitment right now!!! Let’s go!!!

Commitment Verbalization

“I am making a commitment right now to spend at least 45 minutes a day meeting women.” OR

“I am making a commitment right now to spend at least 45 minutes concsiously practicing my conversation and flirting skills with women.”

Have intense conviction in the beauty of your potential. As cheesy as it sounds self-belief is paramount in the game of seduction. When you believe that you have incredible potential trapped within you, then you will work HARD to develop yourself every day and reach greater heights with time. Never underestimate the power of compounding self-development.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

30 Oct 2023 15:59

Rise of Incel-dom and how healthy flirting can save Masculinity

There's a disturbing phenomenon sweeping across our society - the rise of incel-dom. Incels, or "involuntary celibates," are individuals who, due to lack of social skills, self-esteem, and action, struggle to form romantic or sexual relationships. This alarming trend is, in part, a result of men not knowing how to take action, flirt, and build connections with women. Healthy flirting is paramount for masculine character development, and it's time we address this crisis before it's too late.

Why is healthy flirting so crucial for men's personal growth? Here are some eye-opening reasons:

1. Building Emotional Intelligence: Flirting helps develop emotional intelligence - the ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others. By engaging in healthy flirting, you learn to read subtle cues, gauge reactions, and adapt your approach accordingly. This vital skill will serve you well, not just in romantic pursuits, but in all areas of life.

2. Cultivating Self-Confidence: When you learn to approach and interact with women confidently, you're actively building self-confidence. This newfound sense of empowerment and self-worth will radiate through all aspects of your life, from your career to your personal relationships.

3. Strengthening Communication Skills: Healthy flirting helps you hone your communication skills, both verbal and non-verbal. You'll become adept at expressing your thoughts and feelings effectively, allowing you to create stronger connections with others, and excel in personal and professional situations alike.

4. Developing Resilience: By putting yourself out there and facing the risk of rejection, you're building resilience. This mental toughness will enable you to bounce back from setbacks, learn from your experiences, and grow stronger in the face of adversity.

5. Establishing Emotional Connections: Flirting is a gateway to establishing emotional connections with others. It's a crucial step in forming meaningful relationships, helping you foster deep bonds and create a support system that can enrich your life.

6. Embracing Your Masculinity: Healthy flirting is an essential aspect of masculine identity. Embracing this facet of your character allows you to express your authentic self fully, cultivating a strong sense of self and a fulfilling life.

The rise of incel-dom is a dire warning that we must not ignore. It's time to take action and reclaim the art of healthy flirting as an integral part of masculine character development. Don't let the incel phenomenon dictate your future - learn to flirt, take charge of your destiny, and unlock the true potential of your masculine identity.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

28 Oct 2023 16:59

When a woman really likes a guy, it is blatantly obvious. If she likes you, you’ll know.

This is the answer to the age old question “Does she like me?” You don't need tor read a 300 page book on how to tell if a woman is into you, if she is really into you. The signs are as clear as daylight.

A guy would have to be really insecure to miss them; an insecure guy will generally misinterpret signs of interest as somehow being signs of disinterest because he can't possibly fathom how a beautiful women could possibly be INTO HIM. All that is left is for him to capitalize on the situation, and make something out of it. ONE NEEDS TO ACT ON OPPORTUNITY.

If a woman really likes you, it would be obvious and you wouldn’t even ask the question: “Does she like me?” A woman’s body-language will reveal the truth; she can’t control the signals her body is constantly sending out.

Even if a woman really likes you, if you do nothing then the lead will die. Women have been raised to be passive (although feminists are trying hard to change that). Even if a woman likes a guy, she'll still wait for him to make the move - even if it means losing him in the process. Some women have an ego that is too sensitive, and fragile to risk handling getting rejected, so they won't even try to make a move on a guy (even a guy who they really like). This is why if you wait for sexual opportunities to come to you then you might die waiting. The responsibility for making things happen, and escalation is ON YOU. Don't wait for opportunities. CREATE THEM.

You're the man with a dick, so don't be a fucking pussy. MAKE THE MOVES ON HER. THIS IS YOUR DUTY AS A DICK OWNER.

Learn her buttons. Let go of what isn't getting results, double down on what's working, and be willing to experiment with new tactics to increase the number of effective field-proven tools in your toolkit. Keep a black-book of specific notes about what works with best for each woman in your rotation. On your phone under the contact info, write some basic notes about who the girl is, where you’ve met her, her favorite topics of conversations, her core values, and places that she likes (for date ideas).

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

26 Oct 2023 16:59

How to Network Like a Boss!

Loneliness.

It comes from not having genuine friendships with high-status men.

• You overcome loneliness by developing real win-win connections with high-status men (that involves mutual value exchanging) and sustaining frequent interaction throughout the week (or at least once a week). To take this to another level, become an active member of a flourishing community (that has perks for high-status members within that community). You don’t want to be a high-status ranking member of a cockfarm (like crypto-club). But it does make sense to be a high-ranking member of a social club such as Salsa Dancing, Yoga, Meditation classes, or positive psychology (which tend to attract beautiful talent). College social clubs often have an abundance of 9s and 10s. Be aware of specific places in your city that have good talent, and find a way to spend more time in those places to put yourself in the way of opportunity.

• Make it a goal to cultivate real genuine friendships with high-status men that have a lot of value to offer. You get bonus points if these men have businesses, and are highly successful in their fields. Do not become friends with losers because that would lead to being negatively influenced. Befriend young, ambitious, energetic people that are going places in life. Keep in mind that these friendships can last a lifetime, and can eventually lead to lucrative business partnerships. Friendships will give you a reputation that will help you build trust/social proof with women.

• Meet at least once a week. Schedule weekly meetings (virtual through GoogleMeet/Facetime video call OR real-life meetups) with these high-status men. During these calls talk about interesting stuff that happened during your day, your goals, the challenges you’ve had/how you’ve overcome them. Inquire about the other person’s wellbeing and what their goals are.

• The vibe that you put out is the vibe that you will get; your vibe creates your tribe. Go out of your way to give value (even if you don’t get any value back immediately). Be fun to be with. Express interest - without being needy. Know the hot events in your local city. Be the organizer of meetups; be the one who brings together. Cultivate your own social circle that you are the leader of. Have a genuine interest in helping others and for their wellbeing, and keep an eye out on how they can help you (taking value is just as important as giving value).

It’s critical to be the one who initiates interactions with these men, invites them to local events in your city for a hangout, and keeps up contact. Most men are bad at creating friendships, cultivating and keeping them. That’s why it’s ON YOU to be the leader in the friendship, be the one to reach out first, and make shit happen. Enter interactions with the intention of creating a long-term mutually beneficial friendship with high-status men, while having fun and enjoying the present moment.

Schedule a specific time in your day (example 10:30 PM - 11:15 PM) where you will do FB/WhatsApp video calls with a female contact/multiple female contacts. This will allow you to practice crucial conversation, flirting, and sexualizing interactions. You get good at what you do. Even if you’re in a relationship or taking a break from the game, you should still keep your skill sharp. The time will come when you will need to rely on these skills, and when that happens: you will be ready.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

24 Oct 2023 16:59

Listen up, son. I will teach you that which your father never taught you. There are different modes of conversation.

Talking: initiation

Talking: responding

Listening

Silence

Sequencing (Opening, Exiting, etc).

When you are talking, talk with intense enthusiasm and excitement about what you’re passionate about. Exude that positive energy and let it overflow. Words are a way to convey energy and emotion - influencing the emotional state of those around you. If you aren’t adding value then you’re taking up people’s time for no reason and you’re a fucking buzzkill.

If you don’t care about what you have to say then what the fuck are you doing? I’ll give you a moment to contemplate that.

Life is short and then you die; death gives meaning to life. It makes you value every moment because you know that life is short. Life is short and yet you are talking about bullshit that you don’t care about. Many of you are stuck in dead end 9 to 5 jobs instead of living life to the fullest with a hustle that you’re truly passionate about and then wonder why you don’t have anything exciting to talk to women about. Excitement should be genuine because women can sense bullshit (via a sixth sense of bullshit detection). I am telling you to be truly passionate about living life.

Talk about subjects that you’re passionate about. If you have nothing that you’re passionate about then seriously get a life. Consider pursuing a vision that gets you really excited. Don’t think small. Thinking small leads to small results. Think BIG, and you will achieve BIG RESULTS.

The way that you talk to yourself actually will come to determine the way that you talk to others. If you talk to yourself in a negative manner - constantly thinking depressing and self-sabotage thoughts then you will find talking this way to women. Conversations with yourself are contagious. Be your own best friend and talk to yourself in a way that inspires and motivates you to be your best. BE YOUR OWN COACH.

Setting goals is an extremely important subject, yet it’s not a subject that is taught formally in school. If you have no goals, no ambition, no vision, and nothing to live for then you will be incredibly boring to women. You will have nothing to talk about when dealing with. GET A FUCKING LIFE BITCH!! If you don’t lead, you will end up following. If you don’t build your empire, you will find yourself building the empire of someone else. Everyone bends over to a man with a vision. When you have a clear vision that you are going after then people will help you get there because confident aggressive action moves mountains. REMEMBER THAT SON!!

When talking to women it is important to differentiate the concept of talking into two categories: initiation and commentary. Initiation is when you bring a new subject of conversation into the current discussion. Commentary (aka responding) is when a woman brings in a new subject of conversation and you are merely responding to it.

If she’s the one who introduces a subject of conversation then that is a strong sign that she is very interested in talking about that topic. While this may seem like common sense, you would be surprised by how many men are completely oblivious to the subjects of conversation that women find fascinating. If you don’t know what she’s passionate about then how will you be interesting?

You will end up talking about topics that are not within her circle of passion.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

22 Oct 2023 16:59

The Eyes Never Lie Chico
The importance of vitality cannot be overstated. Being with you, either increases a woman’s enthusiasm for life OR decreases it.

The eyes are a window in to the soul. Sometimes I look into the eyes of a man and I see that although he may be existing, he is dead inside. On some unconscious level, he has given up on himself.

• His voice is low volume (much too quiet) and high pitched.

• He stumbles and stutters his words.

• There is no conviction in his voice.

• From his eyes, it is apparent that there is no fire in his soul.

• His head is stooped down and he is frequently looking down. This reflect his overall life-trajectory that can be defined in two words: bleak hope.

This is a man who has given up on his life. He may be going through the motions of existence but he is no truly living (a walking dead man). Perhaps he had a difficult childhood and was conditioned at an early age to play it safe. Take no risks. Be quiet. Follow the rules of society. He is a slave to the culture of the current times.

• Study really hard in school.

• Get the best grades that you can to be competitive and get into the best college programs.

• Do internships and free slave labor to boost your resume.

• Get a job to make your employer rich and work to build his dream. Put in the 9 to 5 every single day.

• Having a dream of your own? Ha! That’s for rich people.

• When you get home, relax by watching Netflix, playing on Steam, and engage in mindless YouTube videos.

He has the look of a man who has no dreams and has given up on his life. He gave up on his dreams because he tried a few times, failed miserably and then told himself “what’s the point?” Or others told him: his dreams were unrealistic, so he should be confined to a safe job in a corporation in an office. This is a man who is predictable and politically correct; because of that, he is very boring to talk to. Being politically correct is being boring.


What kills dreams?

It is undertaking he mindset of the masses:

“mindlessly work 40 hours a week then spend it all on things you don’t really need to impress people you don’t really like (even go into debt because of an addiction to buying the latest tech and to keep up with the neighbors).”


WHY DOES IT MATTER?

Other times, I look into the eyes of man and I see a raging burning fire. This is an energetic man with intense ambition. I know he is going places in life. This is the type of man who I want to have as a part of my tribe, and to an extent I feel a magnetic pull to join his tribe. This is the type of man who fucks.

Understand this right now: an attractive man is a man who is living his dreams.

In regards to a man who is living his dreams: women want to fuck him; men want to be him. By being a man who lives his dreams you will naturally have many things (that you deeply care about) to talk about to women and that passion will organically be exuded. A man who is living his dreams will naturally ooze a sexy passion for living in his converstions, will have much to talk about (simply by sharing the WINS and challenges that he is going through).

Passion is incredibly sexy to women. This is one of the key secrets to conversation: it is knowing the subjects of knowledge that you are truly passionate about and finding ways to bring them into the conversation. Connect what you care about to something that she cares about, and the conversation will span hours.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

21 Oct 2023 16:59

The man texts his lover: “So you ghosted me?”

The woman finally responds:

“No, I didn’t.

Your conversation skills were below par and I carried the conversation all the time. You are nonchalant, inexpressive, and your idea of taking an interest in me was a constant “How as your day?” Having a conversation with you was not mentally stimulating.

I didn’t ghost you. I just stopped entertaining mediocrity.”



What’s up motherfucking, fucker?

I know you want that TIGHT barely legal teenage pussy, but you can’t just go up to a woman say:

“Gimme that pussy, you little bitch!!!!”

She’ll pepper spray you right in the face. Then when you’re bending down to pick up the soap bar in prison, you will be raped faster than you can say:

“I’m innocent!! All I wanted was some bodily affection.”

Western society rewards women for playing the victim card and running a pity ploy, while framing men as aggressors before taking the time to understand the situation. Being too agressive of a pickup-artist can get you banned from places, but not approaching at all is also a loser’s gameplan. You have to show interest in women and approach them, but don’t show desperation and clinginess.

Here’s the reality of the situation, motherfucker.

A woman’s vagina is guarded by her two legs. You have to get past her psychological and physical barriers. Fuck her mind, and you will fuck her body.

Dominate a woman’s mind, and her body will be yours.2

Those legs don’t come apart unless you’ve got a valuable commodity called CONVERSATION SKILLS - aka MOTHERFUCKING GAME. Conversation is the first part of a male-to-female interaction that penetrates her mind and eventually leads to sex.3

Remember: you fuck a woman’s mind (with conversation) before you fuck her body.


“Hey wanna fuck?! I WANT TO FUCK YOU IN THE PUSSY!!!!!!!!”4 “Hey what do you mean “no”?!? Fucking bitch whore!! You try to be nice to these women and THIS IS WHAT YOU GET?!?!”5

These openers and follow-ups doesn’t work - plain and simple. At best, she’ll ignore you and walk away. At worst, you’ll get a verbal harassment charge, be banned for life, be strip-searched in prison and be called someone’s little bitch. The #MeToo movement has made it dangerous to have poor game skills.

You have to be a smooth seducer or get raped in prison in Riker’s Island. Caveman style pickup (“you hot! me fuck! pick her up and bang her) is literally criminal pickup. While having a satisfying sex life is an essential part of being a part of ALPHA MALE CHAD MASCULINITY, it is not worth selling your soul and recklessly risking everything for.

Seduce smarter, not just harder.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

20 Oct 2023 09:21

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

18 Oct 2023 16:59

Successful series entrepreneurs started out broke, but were able to go from zero to hero. They came from nothing, but were able to rise to the fucking top. Why? Because they knew that where they were now, was nothing compared to where they will be in the future - with daily, consistent, conscious massive action. The goal is to get into the daily behavioral tendency of pushing yourself far outside your comfort zone. Stories were told of how they would:

Enter a bank and write themselves a fake check for a $100,000 in order to condition their mind to believe that this lifestyle was even possible. This conditioned their mind that this reality was possible AND likely for them - enough for them to be unconsciously motivated to pursue it.

Enter a Ferrari dealership and drive around a Ferrari for a test drive (pretending to be interested in buying it) in order to condition their mind that they have the potential to actually buy it for real.

Donald Tump discussed how his friend needed to buy First Class airplane tickets because it put his mind into the right frame of mind that was conducive to success. His friended needed to cultivate the self-image of a WINNER, and that was exactly what led him to keep WINNING. Having a WINNING MINDSET leads to having WINNING BEHAVIORS leads to WINNING.

The same can be said about sexual entrepreneurs. You might not be where you want to be right now, but by putting in real work and effort then you will be. Regardless of how bad or seemingly hopeless your situation seems right now, never never never never give up hope. I forbid you from ever giving up hope on yourself. Understand this: no matter how bleak your current situation is, the future can be incredibly bright.

DO A DEEP DIVE INTO IMMERSIVE ACTION

Imagine yourself putting in a solid 4 hours of work every day of the year (and keeping track of those 4 hours with an accountability journal) - practicing the skills that you need to absolutely KILL IT in the sexual marketplace; in a year from now, would you not be absolutely savage?

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 Oct 2023 16:59

Technique #25: Have fierce eye-contact.

Evasive eye-contact is one of the defining traits of a beta male. He is too afraid to look strangers in the eye, so he pretends not to notice them. Darting eyes betray a man with a low sense of self-worth, fear, and feelings of inferiority; he’s metaphorically trying to “hide” with this defensive body-language to protect himself from “attacks”.

 

Social fear is weakness. It is not fitting for a god, such as yourself, to behave like a peasant. It is especially important to hold very strong eye-contact at the beginning of a social interaction (also known as the initial phase of a pickup).

 

Holding eye-contact makes you come across as confident, bold and it applies social pressure on the girl to acknowledge your reality. Diverting eye-contact – even for a moment – at the beginning of a pickup can be fatal. Look her in the eyes – eyeball to eyeball – for at least a solid minute for the initial phase of the interaction.

 

Sometimes you will look around and notice that someone is staring at you. Don’t divert your gaze downwards like a man who is terrified of others. Hold eye contact. Smile. And say “hello”; it may even lead to a conversation.

Pickup artists must thrive in social environments and are fearless.

Never be afraid to look someone in the eye. Used properly eye-contact can be a powerful medium for seducing a woman. She can tell if you are confident or not simply by your ability or inability to hold her gaze. Darting eyes reveal a nervous, insecure man; if you were approached by a nervous man how would you feel? Nervous! Emotions are contagious.

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THE ULTIMATE BODY-LANGUAGE HACK TO INSTANTLY BE SEXIER TO WOMEN: CREATE AN INNER-FIRE.

How you feel on the inside will directly impact the behaviors and body-language that you display on the outside. By feeling calm, confident and in-control then you will automatically convey an attractive outer-game persona.

 

Verbalize the following self-suggestions to regulate your emotional state: “I am the law. I AM THE AUTHORITY.” This is MY territory.”

 

When you feel relaxed, powerful and fucking awesome then your body-language will reflect this. Hence, one of the main keys to good body-language is emotional self-regulation. Feeling powerful leads to effortlessly displaying powerful body-language.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 Oct 2023 16:29

•   Women will have a conversation with you out of politeness but you can tell that they aren’t hooked into it, and they aren’t emotionally engaged.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

13 Oct 2023 19:29

The core of the beta male and how to overcome it

Most men are so weak that you can see in their eyes that they’ve learned helplessness. Even if they’re going through the motions of existence they have emotionally given up on themselves at some point in their life. Perhaps they too have tried to be successful at one point in their life, but they messed up and since then they haven’t tried again. This is the core of the Beta Male; a weak man who has given up on himself, and has an inferiority complex - even if he isn’t aware of this.

The way to overcome this weakness is to start the day by setting highly realistic highly practical goals for yourself. Only set goals for yourself that you really intend on completing and follow through. This often means making the goals quite small, so you’re confident that you can realistically achieve them because of how relatively easy they are. Confidence comes from being competent in a field that is valued by society.

Review these daily goals to yourself on a daily basis until their completion. Every time you complete a goal (set out to do what you’ve told yourself you were going to do) you build up credibility within yourself. By only setting goals that you know that you will succeed in, you minimize constantly letting yourself down and the awful habit of breaking promises made to yourself (which decreases self-trust and self-respect).

Secondly, internalize the mindest that power isn’t given away for free. It is seized. By assuming authority and status, it will be given to you. Walk into every room with the mantra “I own this motherfucking place.” Strive to be more dominant in every interaction that you undertake - under the guise that you’re taking care of everyone. You will notice that people will appreciate you a lot more. Women will want to fuck you, and men will want to be you.

This excerpt is from Cory Smith's "The Complete PUA Bundle." [3 books in 1].

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THE WAY OF THE ALPHA MALE: CACULATED COLDNESS

The Alpha Male doesn’t give a fuck about those that are “offended” by him approaching women with the intention of fucking them in the pussy with his penis. “FUCK HER IN THE PUSSY” and “FUCK ANYONE WHO DISAPPROVES” are the mantras that The Alpha Male lives by. The Alpha Male is too busy getting shit done to waste time hanging out with losers or women who waste his time (by taking too long to put out, or by throwing time-sinking temper tantrums).

By not giving a fuck about things that don’t matter, the Alpha Male has more energy to give towards things that do.

By not being entrapped worrying about what others think and being imprisoned for doing what he truly desires because “others will judge him negatively”, the Alpha Male is empowered to do whatever the fuck he wants to do.

THE WAY OF THE ALPHA MALE: KIND, BUT ASSERTIVE

Sometimes The Alpha Male will help others out of the kindness of his heart and because he is a good person.

•   But he sets limits to his kindness, such that he is not exploited and taken advantage of.

•   He knows how to say “no”, set clear boundaries, and he always retains the willingness to walk away if those boundaries are crossed.

THE WAY OF THE ALPHA MALE: GOAL ORIENTED

He doesn’t dedicate his entire life to pleasing a single ungrateful bitch, but rather dedicates his life to his life purpose and goals.

If you do not have the personal goals and vision that you are living for then you have already fuck yourself up. FIX THAT NOW MOTHERFUCKER!! What goals do you want to achieve? Be specific and clear about what you want out of existence. If you don’t even know what you want then how do you expect to get it. Take some time to seriously ponder what it’s important to you. Verbalize it. Write it down now. Put these goals in a visual place where you will see them frequently.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

11 Oct 2023 16:59

While this seems like common sense advice, a post-infield field report analysis is more rare than one would imagine.

Even introverts who are inclined towards deeper introspection and self-reflection can avoid thinking about their experiences in the field to avoid triggering the pain of guilty. The key is to look into the past without dwelling it, and without being self-punishing/judgemental. He who doesn’t learn from the past is doomed to repeat it. Learning from the past doesn’t mean dwealling on it. Move the fuck on, soldier. Hear me screaming in your ear “FOCUS ON THE NEXT GIRL!!!!!!!!!”

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

10 Oct 2023 19:39

Being an introvert doesn’t change what you can, or cannot do. It simply changes HOW you do it. Both introverts and extroverts are fully capable of developing themselves into A SEDUCTION-MACHINE, but they use different methods.

There are a thousand ways to skin a cat. You don’t need to know every single method. You just need to know one really good one and go deep into that method. It’s simply a waste of your time to learn every single method for seducing women that is out there. Get good at generating results with one method and double down on it. 1

Introvert game versus extrovert game is simply sniper versus

  The introvert relies more on CALCULATED SEDUCTION because of his more limited social stamina, but a greater capacity for critical thinking in solitude. The Sniper Method is doing fewer approaches and sets, but making each one count and pushing each one as far as it goes - short of incurring a verbal harassment charge. 2

  The extrovert relies more on MASS SEDUCTION because of his nearly unlimited social stamina, but a lesser capacity for critical thinking in solitude. The Shotgun Method is doing more approaches and sets but filtering each one faster - short of wasting time with an ineffective opener such as “Hey, wanna fuck (do not use this opener)?”

It’s important to note that all limitations can be overcome. An introvert who works on developing himself can emerge as having greater social energy levels and social stamina than a born-extrovert who doesn’t; likewise, an extrovert who works on developing himself can have a greater capacity for critical thinking in solitude than a born-introvert.

1 : Even if that method is meeting women through the internet (a harsh reality of the post-pandemic reality that we live in is that some women may be afraid of a man approaching them because he’s violating social distancing), a seducer should still have sharp day game skills (capacity to seduce women during the daytime) in the case that he stumbles upon a beautiful woman as he goes about his day. Sexual opportunity can come at any moment from anywhere; sometimes even when you least expect it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by taking a chance and going after a woman that you are interested in. Going after a woman who you like does not mean chasing after her. Attract her with juicy bait, but don’t chase. When done smoothly, the woman will be gleeful that you saved her from her boring day and that she met such a cool high-status exciting man.

2 : If a woman is clearly not interested, do not continue. It is simply a matter of wasting time. Your time would be better spent on leads that have greater potential. Further, plowing towards an uninterested woman who may be too shy to say “no, leave me alone” can lead to burning out, killing your vibe, or getting banned from places. You do want to be persistent but in a smart way. The goal is to run the game on “maybe girls” and “yes girls”, but it’s a waste of time to run game on “no girls”. Show interest, not desperation. Attract, don’t chase.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Oct 2023 16:29

That’s just the nature of the game. You can’t let the people who dislike you get you down and discourage you from going out to take more action to meet the people who will like you.

The guys who get rejected the most are also the guys who get laid the most. Thick skin and NOT GIVING A FUCK about what others think is an essential component of the seduction game. Understand this, my son; you must FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK. From this moment, make an IRON CLAD COMMITMENT to go out, meet women, flirt with them, and give SUBZERO FUCKS what others think. A lion doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep because he’s too busy eating the sheep for breakfast.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

31 Oct 2023 15:59

4 Green Flags that you’re living in Abundance; You find yourself saying these things:

• -> "I'm not afraid to walk away when a girl crosses my personal boundaries - despite being clearly told what my personal limits are and having received a warning prior."

• -> "I'm not afraid to walk away because I know that I can easily get other girls."

• -> “Competition is a sign of healthy marketplace and a healthy level of demand. TThe world has abundant pussy. (If you don’t believe this then move to a city and go to a nearby college campus social events during active semester hours where girls literally throw themselves at you as long you aren’t BRAIN-DEAD. Seeing is believing). And there is always room in the top for the APEX ALPHA GOD which is I.”

• -> “I give value to women but I don’t allow myself to be exploited. I don’t identify with feelings or random thoughts of oneitis. I live my life according my decisions and use my willpower to act on these decisions - despite potentially opposing emotions.”

From the moment you first see her and open you mouth, you should start the interaction on a dominant note. How the relationship starts sets the tone for the entire ensuing relationship. Start strong right off the bat.

Women may claim that they want power in a relationship, but the moment that they get it: they quickly lose respect and attraction for the man. Women desire powerful men. Hence, men play power-games and must seize social power in the situation. Play the dominant leadership role in your interactions with women and watch her attraction levels for you skyrocket.

Don’t hate women. It’s simply a matter of understanding female nature and playing accordingly.

Female nature isn't inherently bad, or good. It just is - just like a snake won't be blamed for biting an ankle. The key is to use your understanding of female nature to your seductive advantage - NOT letting female nature use you. If you aren't a player of the game, then you are being played. STOP being a bystander. START PLAYING THE FIELD.

Don’t hate the game. Don’t hate the player. Just accept them for what they are, and play the game accordingly. Hating women unconsciously impacts your game by compromising your vibe. Women can sense inner-resentment1, and will mirror it back (look up “Mirror Neurons” on Google for more info on that). It is more seductive to have a benevolent intent and leave women better than when you first found them.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

29 Oct 2023 15:59

When a woman really likes a guy, it is blatantly obvious. If she likes you, you’ll know.

This is the answer to the age old question “Does she like me?” You don't need tor read a 300 page book on how to tell if a woman is into you, if she is really into you. The signs are as clear as daylight.

A guy would have to be really insecure to miss them; an insecure guy will generally misinterpret signs of interest as somehow being signs of disinterest because he can't possibly fathom how a beautiful women could possibly be INTO HIM. All that is left is for him to capitalize on the situation, and make something out of it. ONE NEEDS TO ACT ON OPPORTUNITY.

If a woman really likes you, it would be obvious and you wouldn’t even ask the question: “Does she like me?” A woman’s body-language will reveal the truth; she can’t control the signals her body is constantly sending out.

Even if a woman really likes you, if you do nothing then the lead will die. Women have been raised to be passive (although feminists are trying hard to change that). Even if a woman likes a guy, she'll still wait for him to make the move - even if it means losing him in the process. Some women have an ego that is too sensitive, and fragile to risk handling getting rejected, so they won't even try to make a move on a guy (even a guy who they really like). This is why if you wait for sexual opportunities to come to you then you might die waiting. The responsibility for making things happen, and escalation is ON YOU. Don't wait for opportunities. CREATE THEM.

You're the man with a dick, so don't be a fucking pussy. MAKE THE MOVES ON HER. THIS IS YOUR DUTY AS A DICK OWNER.

Learn her buttons. Let go of what isn't getting results, double down on what's working, and be willing to experiment with new tactics to increase the number of effective field-proven tools in your toolkit. Keep a black-book of specific notes about what works with best for each woman in your rotation. On your phone under the contact info, write some basic notes about who the girl is, where you’ve met her, her favorite topics of conversations, her core values, and places that she likes (for date ideas).

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

27 Oct 2023 19:29

Where to Meet Hot Women!? [Pros + Cons]

1: Dating apps

Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge are online dating services where anyone can make a profile and start swiping to find a match. When two people match with each other, they're prompted to start a conversation and interact with each other. This is where the interaction begins.

Pros:

• Easiest way to find women

• High volume of opportunities for interaction

• Women that use these services are sexually available

• You can spend as much time as you want on it

Cons:

• Quality of women varies

• Some women "catfish" or alter their appearance on the app to look more attractive than they actually are

• Possibility of getting flaked



2: College

College campuses are arguably the best place to find young, hot women who are at a sexually curious time of their lives. It would be ideal to be attending the college you are searching for women in, but you can find ways around this if you are not enrolled.

Pros:

• An abundance of young, hot women to choose from

• Relatively sexually open environment; seduction is easier

• High likelihood of common interest; conversation is easier

• Many opportunities to meet sexually available girls at

Cons:

• Overall quality of women is low due to hookup culture

• Low likelihood of maintaining a serious relationship

• Exclusive culture; those who are not attending the college won’t be as attractive as someone who is attending



3: Grocery or retail stores

Grocery or retail stores provide a pressure-free and relaxed environment where striking up a conversation is easy. Could be as simple as commenting on the kind of cereal she bought to get a conversation going.

Pros:

• Easy conversation starts (comment on what she’s picking up as an ingredient for something you want to cook)

• Casual, relaxed environment; no pressure

• Easy to approach; she’s probably not focused on anything else

Cons:

• Ages of women are mixed; many old women as well as young

• Girls might reject you because they don’t want to waste any time: for something that is not your fault



4: Charity/Volunteer events

Volunteer events provide an environment for you to find highly agreeable women. Agreeableness is also known as compassion, meaning you’ll find kind and caring girls at these events. This is a trait of high-quality women.

Pros:

• Indicator of high value in a girl (high agreeableness, high industriousness)

• Common interests; starting a conversation is easier

Cons:

• Can be a chore if you don't enjoy participating in these events

• If you don’t enjoy it, and you reveal it, you’ll be seen as dishonest



5: Places of worship

Whatever your religion, you’ll find some high-quality women at places of worship. It may be hard to find her at first, but once you do,

Pros:

• Assuming you are of the same religion, very likely to have common interests, principles, and morals

• The quality of women is relatively high

Cons:

• Higher chance of girls being a prude

• Higher chance of girls being in a relationship

• The average age of women is higher



6: Libraries or bookstores

Pros:

• Quiet environment for you to be able to focus in

• Relatively high-quality girls (students, readers)

Cons:

• Girls may reject you because they want to be left alone

• Girls may give you her number as a way to get you to go away, only to flake on you later



7. Clubs and parties

Pros:

• High volume of hot young women

• More sexually relaxed environment; seduction is easier

Cons:

• Interactions with a drunk girl may be forgotten, getting you nowhere

• High amount of competition from other men

• Loud environment; can be very distracting



Practice your game skills at these places. Unsure of your approaching and conversation skills?

Click here to learn how to master them

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

25 Oct 2023 16:59

My dear dear dear son when will you begin to understand a simple fact about having conversations with women:

CONCEPT 1: BEING BORING IS THE GREATEST CARDINAL SIN OF THE SEDUCTION GAME.

CONCEPT 2: If you talk about shit then she doesn’t care about then you are boring.

CONCEPT 3: If you discuss and share insights about topics that she isn’t passionate about then you are playing a loser’s fame.

CONCEPT 4: Identity what she’s passionate about, what she is fascinated about, and what is important to her. Then talk about those things. Remember those topics!!! Write them in notes under her contact on your phone.

CONCEPT 5: Even if you aren’t discussing those topics directly then you should at the very least relate what you’re saying back to those core subjects.

The obvious subject that she is interested in is herself. She cares more about herself than anyone else in the world - no matter what she says. If she says anything else, she is a bitch ass lying motherfucker. The core truth is that she cares more about herself than anyone or anything else. This doesn’t make her evil or a narcissist. It just makes her human.

Rather than complaining like a beta male, take charge of the situation like an Alpha Male and leverage her own psychological forces to your seductive nature. Relate the conversation back to the core subjects that she is interested in. In this manner, talking to you is emotionally and/or intellectually beneficial to her.

UNDERSTAND THE NOTION OF JUICY BAIT

When she is talking you will notice that there will be slight pauses. Those slight pauses are there to allow you moments to contribute to the conversation with your own insights on what she said. A healthy conversation is a dialogue - not taking turns running monologues. Just like she is leaving moments of time for you to contribute into the conversation, you should likewise leave small silences at the end of some of your provoking points to allow her to contribute to the conversation.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

23 Oct 2023 16:59

Conversation skills are what will allow you to start interactions with women and smoothly escalate them into sex.

The conversation is what fills in the space from “hello” to BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG. Without a flowing engaging mutual conversation, the woman will leave the interaction. Conversation skills are what keep her emotionally hooked to staying in the interaction/relationship with you, instead of running off to some other cat.

Without conversation skills, interactions will go like this:

1. Seducer: “Hi!”

2. Woman: “Uhh hi?”

3. long pause and crickets

4. Woman: “Nice to meet you! Bye!”


I got you, son. I will teach you game.

I got your back motherfucking fucker!!!!!!!! I will teach you the GAME SKILLS that will get you laid like a true player.


Game skills got perks!

When you’ve got a smooth mouth piece that can delivery intoxicating words then you will find that many doors will open for you - including doors outside of the pickup-artist realm. Many of the skills that are valuable in picking up and seducing women are TRANSFERABLE to other fields. Even if you eventually end up settling down with a specific woman to raise a family, you will find that the pickup skills that you have learned in your dating days were valuable in other fields such as networking, or managing a team of employees. Pickup is a gateway to character development.

I use a lot of profanity in my writing to keep things interesting and to pattern disrupt, but character development and pickup skills are SERIOUS BUSINESS. Mystery would say “If you don’t learn how to successfully pickup women then your genes will cease to exist in the next generation.”

Having competent skills in picking up women (or networking) is the difference between:

• being alone your entire life (lone single loser) and dying alone, versus

• having beautiful women in your life, experiencing sexual adventures, having the GAME SKILLS to go out on any day and meet new beautiful women, and having the option of raising a family - if you choose to go down that route.

• being able to meet clients and close VERSUS lacking the capacity to network with high value high status influential individuals.

This book is where you will find all the answers:

Click Here to Learn the Game {Audiobook included]


HOW TO READ THIS BOOK AND GET THE MOST FROM IT:

• Highlight key lessons that resonate with you and review them frequently (even on a daily basis) until they are internalized into your personality.

• Reptition is the mother of skill. Reading a book is relatively easy. Internalizing the advice to the point that it becomes a part of your skill set and lifestyle is the hard part. To internalize the lessons within this book, verbally repeat the key lessons out-loud over and over every day to allow them to sink into the unconsious mind.

• Hit the field. Skill comes from daily review of the fundamentals and relentless conscious practice in the field.

Let's get to the work now!

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

21 Oct 2023 19:39

KEY POINT:

Sometimes you will find yourself having negative thoughts such as these:

• “I’m not good enough for people to want to be friends with me.”

• “People will see me as a loser if I try to be friends with them, so why should I even try?”

• “No one will want to be friends with me, and I will feel about the rejection.”

Catch yourself thinking these negative thoughts and reframe them.

• “I have a lot of value to offer.”

• “There are a lot of reasons why people would want to be friends with me.”

• “I’m not going to prejudge the situation. I’m going to take action and let the results speak for themselves.”

Overcome these limiting beliefs with positive affirmations, mantras, and self-suggestions.

Make a list of what you bring to the table and the reasons why people should stay in touch with you. Review this list of strengths to boost confidence.

KEY POINT: Don’t make assumptions for people. Let the results speak for themselves. A lot of times in my life, I made negative assumptions about a cute girl, and then approached her and was shocked to find that her reaction to me was overwhelmingly positive. I got laid that very night with the same girl I thought would reject me. Don’t think for her. Just make a move. And let the marketplace show you how high status you actually are.

It’s paramount to have a vision for yourself on where you want to be 1 year from now. Repeat that vision for yourself every single morning. Make progress towards that vision every single day.

In terms of cultivating friendships with high-status men and relationships with beautiful women, enter into a social organization and become one of the highest-ranking members in it. Be consistent in going to these events. Go to events early to be able to communicate with members and establish connections. When the event is over, invite a member to an event nearby. It’s paramount to be aggressive in these social clubs because time is money. Playing an indefinite indirect game will waste a lot of your time because each event takes several hours. You have to enter each event with a specific goal in mind and know who your target is. Be sure to attempt at least one close per event.

Have fun. Don’t be needy, or feel stressed out by the pressure of the goal. But keep the goal in the back of your mind, and go after it.

The last thing you want to do is be a passive member of these groups and let people approach you/make shit happen with you first. You might die waiting. Don’t fucking wait. Be the one to make shit happen. It’s important to realize that your approaches should be semi-direct in these social clubs because word will get around if you aggressively hit on every girl that is there. A good opener is “Hey, I haven’t met you yet.”

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

20 Oct 2023 16:59

When you meet a beautiful woman who is worthy of your time, you want to be fluent in Womenese to be able to:

•   Truly understand her thoughts, feelings, and actions, so that you can behave in a manner that resonates positively. Do more of what is seductively impactful, and less of what is seductively repulsive.

•   Understand what she means when she says specific things, so that you can calibrate your strategy accordingly. A key principle of this book is: a woman’s words reveal the mechanism of her psych.

•   Understand the signals that she is sending out with her body language and what they mean, so you can capitalize on “DOWN TO FUCK RIGHT NOW” signals. If you miss the DTF Signals, you won’t fuck her at the moment that she is sexually available. Be aware of the signals that a woman unconsciously (or consciously) sends out when she wants to fuck, so that you’ll be able to notice them when they occur in real time, and you’ll act on them. When opportunity meets a man who is ready, sex happens.

•   Understand the truth behind the male-to-female dynamic, so that you can leverage the variables in this dynamic to your seductive advantage. A woman wants you to play the dominant masculine role in the relationship, so she can play the submissive feminine role. Treat a woman like a woman, so she can feel sexy. Submission within a woman unleashes her sexual side.

•   Understand what you have to do specifically to solidify a physical connection. It is your responsibility as a man to physically escalate the interaction towards sex because a woman’s ego prevents her from doing this that will make her feel slutty.

Womenese boils down to these 6 mediums that give off signals:

•   #1) Thoughts

•   #2) Feelings

•   #3) Words

•   #4) Actions

•   #5) Body Language

•   #6) Social Media

The first 5 factors tend to feed off each other. For instance: thoughts lead to feelings lead to words lead to actions and vice versa.

The 6th factor is a woman’s social media lifestyle which are quite revealing about her and sometimes can reveal what her thoughts are about you.

Learn Womanese by understanding In-depth Practical Female Psychology so that you will understand why women do what they do,and then how to direct her own nature in your seductive favor and so that you can control her mind and heart.

Click Here to Learn Womanese

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

19 Oct 2023 16:59

There are two possible outcomes from approaching a woman:

OUTCOME #1) You get the girl, and you learn a lesson about what works. Your ego gets a huge boost. Your penis gets a warm massaging hole. You learn good lines that you can continue to use in the future on other girls.

OUTCOME #2) You don’t get the girl, and you learn a lesson about what doesn’t work. Your ego is bruised a bit, but you pick yourself up and move forward. You learn specific behavioral moves that you did, which you should avoid doing on other girls in the future.

Regardless of the outcome, you still have the benefit of improving your skills, increasing practical knowledge, and gaining valuable experience. Don’t you fucking get it? By approaching: you always get better at approaching - NO MATTER WHAT.

Both outcome #1 and outcome #2 are good outcomes because they are learning experiences that shape you into booming a more competent and smarter seducer.

CREATE A LIFESTYLE THAT LEADS TO SEXUAL SUCCESS BY STACKING SEDUCTIVE HABITS.

It’s human nature to get better at what you do. If you do a lot of approaches, you’ll naturally become good at approaching women. In fact, that is the biggest key to this whole puzzle: create a lifestyle that involves meeting women and taking action on a daily basis.

Create a daily routine that integrates:

• the habit of approaching women,

• the habit of calling up women and flirting with them,

• the habit of journaling what you’ve learned from your experiences, and

• the habit of reviewing KEY LESSONS that you’ve learned from your experiences approaching women, and using that information to refine your future approaches.

Supplement these daily habits with:

• the weekly habit of inviting women to events on the weekends (with the intention of fucking them),

• the lifestyle habit of always having high status powerful body-language,

• the weekly habit of going to social events where there’s a lot of beautiful women who are down to meeting new cool guys (not a cock-farm),

• the habit of inviting women to your place “for wine” on the weekend.

The day will come when you will master approaching and other related vital GAME SKILLS.

You will then be able to use these GAME SKILLS to seduce women ON COMMAND - whenever you want and anywhere you want.

• You will never be lonely or sexually deprived, because you know that on any day you can go out and create a connection with a new beautiful, young barely legal woman - with a tight hole.

• You will never be dependent on a particular pussy for life because you know that you have the capacity to meet new beautiful women whenever you want.

Seduction is a set of habits. You meet, flirt, and make moves with women on a daily basis.

Seduction is a lifestyle of implanting habits that lead to sex. Every day is training day.

Habits eventually become your nature. Before you know it, you’re a seductive machine running game on auto-pilot because you have unconscious competence. When you have competent game skills, the whole world opens up to you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

17 Oct 2023 16:59

Here's What Happens if You Don't Know The Game

Picture this: You're standing alone in the dark, watching others dance and laugh in the light of a blazing fire. You want to join them, but an invisible force holds you back. That invisible force is extreme shyness, and it's casting a sinister shadow over your life.

As dramatic as it may sound, this is the reality for those who fail to learn "The Game" – the art of approaching, connecting with, and attracting women. Failing to master this essential skill can have a chilling impact on your life, causing irreversible damage to your personal growth, psychological health, and overall well-being. Read on to discover the startling, spine-tingling effects of extreme shyness and why mastering "The Game" is crucial for young men.

1. The Poisonous Spiral of Self-Doubt: Extreme shyness can lock you in a cycle of self-doubt, where negative thoughts and low self-esteem breed like toxic bacteria. Over time, this noxious mindset can seep into every aspect of your life, poisoning your career, friendships, and mental health.

2. The Haunting Ghost of Loneliness: Avoiding interaction with women means depriving yourself of human connection, opening the door to the specter of loneliness. This sinister phantom can haunt you for a lifetime, leading to depression, anxiety, and a life devoid of warmth and companionship.

3. The Lurking Monster of Regret: By not participating in "The Game," you're letting the monster of regret grow stronger and more powerful. As years go by, it will lurk in the shadows of your mind, gnawing at your happiness and leaving you wondering, "What if?"

4. The Vicious Grip of Social Anxiety: Failing to confront shyness can entangle you in the coils of social anxiety, suffocating your ability to engage with others. This crippling fear can strangle your social life, making it nearly impossible to form meaningful connections or enjoy life's simple pleasures.

5. The Stifling Cage of Comfort Zones: The Game pushes you to break free from the chains of your comfort zone. Without it, you remain trapped in a stifling cage, never exploring new experiences, taking risks, or discovering your true potential.

6. The Crippling Weight of Inaction: Not facing your fears and stepping up to "The Game" puts you under the crushing weight of inaction. This burden can flatten your motivation, creativity, and zest for life, leaving you a shell of your former self.

These spine-chilling consequences are not to be taken lightly. Mastering "The Game" is a crucial defense against the unseen horrors of extreme shyness, and it's time to recognize the lifesaving power it holds.

Don't let shyness cast its sinister shadow over your life any longer. Embrace the challenge, conquer your fears, and step into the light. Your future self will be forever grateful.

The darkest shadows are cast by the brightest lights. It's time to face your fears and shine.

Click here to Learn The GAME

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

15 Oct 2023 16:59

Say something UNEXPECTED.

A predictable guy is a boring guy. Don't be afraid to PUSH THE FUCKING LIMITS OF WHAT IS SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE.

Rule of thumb for conversations and relationships: being predictable is being boring.

THE NOVELTY EFFECT

A woman’s brain is hardwired to ignore that which is expected, and respond to the unexpected. By presenting yourself in a manner that is radically new, and inherently different than what she is used then you will be able to captivate and sustain a woman’s attention. 

Think about movies: if you’ve seen a particular plot dozens of times in movies, then you’ll be remarkably bored, and won’t want to even finish watching the movie because you already know how it ends. However, if a movie has a unique twist and unpredictable plots then the unpredictability will keep you hooked.

Warning:

Keep in mind that in certain situations - such as when you are dealing with police, interviews for a potential lucrative position, business discussions with business partners at networking events, at your job - it is more appropriate to use a more reserved analytical, logical calculated-mode of talking. It is not appropriate to activate “crazy fun guy” (who speaks his fucking mind freely and makes radically bold situations to stir emotions at all costs) in formal situations.

 

To men who have strong social skills this should be common-sense, but it is worth putting in here - just in case. In an advanced note, one can use NLP and self-suggestions to quickly switch between “CRAZY FUN GUY” to “ BUSINESS MODE GUY.”


LAW #40: DON'T BE PREDICTABLE.

Predictability breeds boredom. Be unpredictable. Take bold risks in conversations and interactions. Throw the occasional curve-ball. A woman's brain is hardwired to give attention to novelty.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 Oct 2023 16:29

Challenges Men Face While Dating:

BEING TOO BROKE TO…

•   afford the cover charge that it takes to get into cool events within the city.

•   afford to take the girl you’re with to fun activities at the event on date night.

•   afford high-end high-status clothes and accessories (with luxury brand names).

You don’t need to be rich to have sexual success, but if you look poor then it sends negative signals about your relative social status. Women assume that broke guys don’t have their shit together. In contrast, appearing wealthy gives one a halo effect.

 

If you look like a rich man then women will assume that you have positive character traits such as being mature, having a high IQ, competent social skills, charisma, charm, and diligence.

THE MONEY FACTOR

•   Being so broke as one is forced to work 24/7, without having left over time or energy to play the seduction game.

•   Being too broke to outsource tedious tasks to virtual assistants in third-world countries (for $1.75 an hour) so that you can free up time to focus on what matters most.

The seducer lifestyle isn’t cheap, and money is the fuel that it keeps it going. If you have to think twice about ordering an Uber for a girl to meet you at your place then get a fucking job, and start a side hustle.

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PRESENTATION

•   Looking like shit and not having your shit together in general.

•   Wearing dirty, ill-fitting, uncoordinated clothes.

•   Having poor personal grooming lifestyle habits (e.g. not shaving, showering, cutting nails, etc).

•   Smelling, looking homeless or looking poor.

•   Having weak body language and beta male tonality (e.g. stuttering, nervous ticks, people-pleasing high pitched tonality, etc).

People do judge a book by its cover, and a person by his appearance. If you look like you can’t even take care of yourself, a woman assumes that you are incapable of taking care of her.


LOGISTICS

•   Not getting out of the house in general

•   Taking forever to get out of the house

•   Not having a good means of transportation (using the bus, instead of a car)

•   Living too far from the venue

•   Not having your fuck-logistics figured out (“where are you going to take the girl as an after-event”, “where are you going to fuck the girl?”).

•   Not being able to get into the venue,

•   Being able to get into the venue but not being in a logistical position that allows for easy approaching and opening of fresh meat,

•   Not spending enough time where there are beautiful women (either by simply hanging out in those locations, getting work done there, or taking a unique commute to go through them on your way to work),

It’s not the best guy who gets the girl; it’s the guy with the best logistics that gets the girl.


Internal emotional conflict

•   Having an intense fear of spending time in places where there are beautiful women

•   Being terrified to approach and start interactions with beautiful women

•   Being overly self-conscious and nervous at social events that have beautiful young women in them

•   Approaching beautiful women but being so nervous that it’s apparent, and kills the vibe

If you’re a fisherman who is afraid of fishing then you won’t be catching a lot of fish, my friend.


Poor skills in approaching women

•   Getting out of the house, but not going to where there are women.

•   Going to where there are beautiful women, but not approaching anyone and just praying that someone will approach you.

•   Going to where there are beautiful women, but only approaching the guys and not approaching any women.

To succeed in the game of seduction, you have to put yourself in the place of opportunity. Don’t wait for opportunities to come to you; bait them to come to you.


Poor skills in starting conversations with women

•   You don’t know what to say after you approach.

•   You can approach but you have difficulty in striking up a conversation that lasts for longer than 10 seconds.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

12 Oct 2023 16:59

(5) Commit to not putting yourself down

Being an introvert does tend to lead to introverted correlated behaviors. One of these is being overly self-conscious and feeding your mind with negative comments.

•   “You’re an idiot! How could you say this?”

•   “Are you retarded?! Why would you do that?”

•   “You’re a fucking loser! Everyone is laughing at what a moron you are.”

•   “You SHOULD HAVE done this and that. But you didn’t. Now you are fucked you fucking idiot fuck.”

•   “Did I say the right thing?!?!”

These comments are forms of self-torture and will simply discourage you from continuing to go out. Anchor positive emotions to going out, not negative ones! Condition yourself to enjoy the process of becoming the best version of yourself.

(6) Utilize positive emotion anchoring

Strive to have fun and a good time when you’re going out, so that you will feel like going out in the future. If that means buying a seven dollar coffee at your nearest Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks then so be it. It’s a price worth paying just so you can have a blast training your social and seductioin skills.

He who dreads dies alone. Don’t dread going out. Look forward to it!

Another aspect of this game is to learn to have fun (yes, I am fucking serious). Fun is serious business. When you have fun, then she has fun too, and your social stamina isn’t depeleted as fast. You’’ll find that when you’re having a blast you won’t even notice the time flying pass you like a speeding bullet.

My bro; you’re flirting with hotties - not in Iraq dismantling a nuclear bomb. Why so tense?

(7) Test early. Screen fast. Keep your eyes on the goals.

As mentioned, the introvert doesn’t have nearly unlimited social stamina like an extrovert does so he has to make the most of it while he still has it. He gauges the sexual potential of sets that he approaches relatively earn on, and rejects the women who are just out for attention and ego validation, so that he can focus on leads that have greater sexual potential. Likewise, he is careful to not waste his valuable talking too much to guys at venues, or even attending cockfarms (venues that are mostly just dudes; e.g. 1 girl for every 10 guys there) in the first place.

(8) Be where the beautiful women are. If you don’t know where they are then start  being a detective.

The introvert is more stressed out in being places that have beautiful women are than the extrovert is (e.g. library, college campus, cafe near a college campus, metro, etc), but he learns to become comfortable simply by spending time in those places. The key to overcoming fear is by doing what you are afraid to do.

Simply being in places where there are vaginas walking around increases your chances of meeting and fucking vaginas. “Oh but the little baby is afraid of being seen by vaginas?” FUCK YOUR FEARS AND EXCUSES. Condition your mind to be comfortable in the presence of tons of beautiful women simply by spending time there.


GET SEEN, PLAYER.

At one point of my seduction career, I intentionally took a college tutor job that exposed me to barely legal young women and I was drowning in pussy. I couldn’t stop myself from fucking. It was an addiction to easy pleasure and one of the most enjoyable times of my life. The young women saw me as an authority high-status figure in a niche community that they valued, and that gave me easy access.

You must overcome your fear of being in places and hanging out in places where beautiful women can see you. Not only should you overcome your fear of these places, but you must learn to thrive in them.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

11 Oct 2023 16:59

The question posed is “How does an introvert seduce women?”

AN OUTLINE:

•   (1) The Introvert Seducer has CLEAR SPECIFIC GOALS about what he wants to accomplish every time that he goes out.

•   (2) The Introvert Seducer has a set amount of time that he spends in the field before he goes out. He strives to make the most out of his FINITE GAME TIME.

•   (3) The Introvert Seducer takes breaks in the middle of his finite game time to psychologically recharge and take care of his mental health.

•   (4) The Introvert Seducer takes time in solitude to reflect and learn from his experiences so that he can process what has transpired and learn from them. He gains valuable relevant knowledge every day.

•   (5) The Introvert Seducer commits to being non-judgemental non-self-punishing.

•   (6) The Introvert Seducer uses the anchoring positive emotions techniques to condition his mind to enjoy going out. It’s not just about winning battles, but about winning the war.

•   (7) The Introvert Seducer places a significant emphasis on testing early, flirting fast, and not getting distracted with cocks in cockfarms. By filtering early he ensures that his vital social energy is not wasted on leads that have minimal to null potential.

•   (8) The Introvert Seducer desensitizes himself from being stressed out from working in a public area that has beautiful women in it (where he can be observed and increase seenability).

(1) The introvert is clear about his goals before he enters the venue.

•   Example: “My goal is to talk to every person in the venue” or

•   “My goal is to meet at least three women today”.

The best goals are the ones that are clear, specific, measurable, and written down. After the day-game session, the introvert can assess with a clear “yes”, or clear “no” the answer to the question

•   “Did he achieve his goals for that particular game session?”

•   “Did he achieve his goals for the day?”

•   “Did he achieve his goals for that week?”

•   “Did he achieve his goals for that month?”

Knowing what you want massively increases the chances of getting it. In contrast, fuzzy goals lead to fuzzy results. It is recommended to write out your vision every day.

If you’ve done any research at all in the field of Positive Psychology then you would know that a man becomes what he thinks about. Successful seducers spend their time thinking about what they want and how to get it, while soy loser beta bitches spend their time complaining about the unchangeable and gossip.1

(2) Calculated time in the field

Let me be frank. The introvert doesn’t have unlimited social stamina as the extrovert does. He has more finite social stamina. This is why he has to make his finite game time COUNT. If you lived in NYC and had only $1,200 a month to spend would you not make every dollar COUNT?  Likewise, if a particular introvert has 1,200 units of social energy before his stamina runs out and he needs to recharge, so it makes sense to make it COUNT.2

When entering the venue, set a timer on your Apple Watch3for how much time you will dedicate to hitting up girls and socializing at the venue. After that time is over then promise yourself that you will either take a break or head home.

Simply knowing that you will only spend a short amount of time in the field will empower you to fully capitalize on that time while you are there. This is key.

(3) Taking brief breaks to recharge

Likewise knowing that you’ve got only 15 minutes of hitting up girls before taking a break allows you to enter TERMINATOR MODE and CRUSH IT (versus knowing that you’ve got 3 hours to talk to girls which can be intimidating to introvert aspiring seducers).

(4) Reflection in solitude

After a game session, take the time to ponder:

•   what you did that got you results (so that you can double down on that),

•   what you did that you did not get you results (so you can stop doing this in the future), and

•   what you can do in the future as an experiment.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

09 Oct 2023 16:39

HOW TO GAIN POWER IN RELATIONSHIPS

IN ANY RELATIONSHIP, THE ONE WHO NEEDS THE OTHER LESS HAS MORE POWER!

What this means for you is that you want to foster independence by having a certain level of psychologically aloofness.

YOU GAIN POWER BY REALIZING THAT YOU DON'T NEED HER BECAUSE YOU CAN EASILY GET OTHER GIRLS, AND YOU ACTUALLY DO HAVE MULTIPLE GIRLS IN YOUR ROTATION.

6 Key Mindsets to REGAIN THE POWER in a Relationship

•   1 -> You don't need her to be happy. You draw state from within.

•   2 -> You don't need her for intercourse. Intercourse is easily available for those that have at least intermediate game skills.

•   3 -> You don't need her for fun. You are self-amused.

•   4 -> You don't need her for female energy because you can easily meet and fuck tons of other girls.

•   5 -> You don’t need her for self-esteem and confidence because you are internally validated.

•   6 -> You don’t need her for direction because you have your own cool shit going on and life purpose to live for.

4 Red Flags that you’re Living in Scarcity; You find yourself saying these things:

•   "I can't leave her because then it will be impossible to find another girl."

•   I can't leave her because she is the hottest girl that I can get."

•   "There isn't enough pussy. The marketplace is too saturated and competitive."

•   “I would do anything to her because I’m in love with her.”

4 Green Flags that you’re living in Abundance; You find yourself saying these things:

•   -> "I'm not afraid to walk away when a girl crosses my personal boundaries - despite being clearly told what my personal limits are and having received a warning prior."

•   -> "I'm not afraid to walk away because I know that I can easily get other girls."

•   -> “Competition is a sign of healthy marketplace and a healthy level of demand. TThe world has abundant pussy. (If you don’t believe this then move to a city and go to a nearby college campus social events during active semester hours where girls literally throw themselves at you as long you aren’t BRAIN-DEAD. Seeing is believing). And there is always room in the top for the APEX ALPHA GOD which is I.”

•   -> “I give value to women but I don’t allow myself to be exploited. I don’t identify with feelings or random thoughts of oneitis. I live my life according my decisions and use my willpower to act on these decisions - despite potentially opposing emotions.”

From the moment you first see her and open you mouth, you should start the interaction on a dominant note. How the relationship starts sets the tone for the entire ensuing relationship. Start strong right off the bat.

- How to establish a dominant frame going on early in a relationship?

- Situation Example: How to employ the "theory" into action?

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Women may claim that they want power in a relationship, but the moment that they get it: they quickly lose respect and attraction for the man. Women desire powerful men. Hence, men play power-games and must seize social power in the situation. Play the dominant leadership role in your interactions with women and watch her attraction levels for you skyrocket.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Oct 2023 16:29

UNDERSTAND THIS RIGHT HERE AND RIGHT NOW. Every approach is a success. Even if you don’t get the girl, you still learn valuable lessons about girl-getting just in the attempt itself. Your balls get bigger. Your skills and experience increase. This is why every approach is a win, regardless of the specific result.

Extroverts intuitively understand this concept. They don’t give a fuck if they are rejected or not. They keep having fun and approaching more women. As a result, their skills improve dramatically and balls develop to be SUPERSIZED. Most of the game is just balls, and confidence. He who dares wins. Sexual fortunate favors the bold.

High levels of social stamina are correlated with high levels of daring action. Action takes stamina. If you have the psychological energy for it then you too will be able to take massive amounts of action. The good news is that increased social stamina can be developed with time.

PROACTIVE

The essence of being proactive is being an initiator - or as Mystery would put it “having moxie”. The importance of being proactive cannot be overstated. One cannot simply wait for opportunities to come to him; he must go out and create them.

Extroverts are more likely to initiate interactions,  follow up on previous leads, take steps to arrange seductive logistics, make moves to escalate, and have the KILLER INSTINCT TO CLOSE. To put it simply: extroverts MAKE SHIT HAPPEN.

  They will be the first ones to approach and strike up conversations at social events.

  They tend to naturally take control of social interactions and lead.

  They will call up the girl randomly to shmooze.

  They will be the first to shamelessly flirt.

  They will invite leads to cool events in the city.

  They will touch her body in a way in the right sequence and in the right manner that eventually leads to success.

This important extrovert quality is often overlooked by dumbasses who think that showing interest in a woman is “needy”, or that expressing a sexual agenda is “creepy” and “rapey”. These men are brainwashed by blue-pill ideology and should be ignored. Approaching a woman is doing her a favor. Women WANT to be swept off their feet by cool, high-status outgoing men.

Life is too short to play waiting games. If you play waiting games, you might just end up dying while waiting.

Approaching women doesn’t mean showing desperation and neediness. It doesn’t mean coming on too strong. All the interest that you show is casual. When you see that she is attracted to you then you increase your level of interest in her, and see if she matches it. If she matches your higher level of interest with a higher level of interest of her own then you can continue to escalate. It’s only rapey or creepy when a guy ignores social cues that a woman isn’t interested and persists anyways.

Done correctly there is a MASSIVE SEXUAL ADVANTAGE to calculated smooth aggression. Do not underestimate its importance.

Even if you express interest in a woman it should come from a position of screening and curiosity. She hasn’t won over you yet.

SEENABILITY (also known as The Proximity Factor)

There’s been an entire book written about the subject of “Luck” and how those who are “Lucky” find themselves “Lucky” because they put themselves in logistically advantageous situations where opportunities are more likely to happen.

As the extrovert enjoys social interactions, he is more likely to hang out and spend time in places that have lots of people in them (beautiful women included; cockfarms excluded). Simply by going out and being in places that have beautiful women, the extrovert increases his seenability and chances of sexual success by over 1000%.

•   E.g. decide to do your work at a college campus or at a local cafe that is next to a college campus, instead of working from home.

THICK SKIN

The extrovert is more likely to have thick skin than an overly self-conscious introvert.

When you make a ton of approaches:

  some people will like you, and

  some people will dislike you.