Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

04 Feb 2024 16:01

SUB COMMUNICATION

Don’t always take what a woman says at face value. Don’t always interpret her words literally. There is more than what meets the eye. Learn to see past the shallow surface level, and uncover the deeper truths of the situation. Learn to see past her behaviors, and into the beliefs that drive her behaviors.

What a woman says, and the true meaning of the situation are often polar opposites. Be a stickler for finding the truth of the situation. Don’t be an idiot “Yes Man” agreeing with everything she says just because she has a vagina.

Learning to see the truth behind situations isn’t just relevant to dealing with women. It is relevant to how you approach life in general. Don’t be gullible and believe everything that you hear - just because it comes from someone who is well-spoken, or has a pretty face. Think for yourself.

WHAT IS SUBCOMMUNICATION?

Subcommunication is the implications behind what a woman is saying. For instance: if a woman asks “How many women have you slept with?” The subcommunication is that: she is interested enough in you to shit-test you. She is testing your composure. She is trying to set the frame that she is THE BOSS of the interaction, and it’s your responsibility to answer her directly.

The correct response to a shit test is to agree with the negative and amplify to set the frame that you’re a man who GETS IT and keeps his social power. After all, women are attracted to POWERFUL men - not men who give away their power. Hence, you respond with a cocky and funny line (instead of getting defensive and justifying yourself to her) like: “You mean only today?” OR “Only 34.5.” The key is to always communicate with extreme levels of confidence. Whatever you say, you have to own it 100%.


NOTEWORTHY MAXIM

Deaf men are the best at understanding women because they aren’t distracted by a woman’s words. A woman’s body language will betray her true feelings and intentions, but often men are too busy thinking about the bullshit that came out of her mouth to even notice the signals being sent by her body.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

02 Feb 2024 16:01

What is verbal communication? Why does it matter

Communication is the act of sending the selected ideas that are on your mind and the emotions that are in your heart, to someone else. Likewise, it is the process of receiving the ideas that are on the minds of other people, and accurately reading their emotional state.

Communication is a two-way street. You are constantly sending out and receiving signals from women. 

Womenese is the art of understanding the language of women and being able to read the language of Women. You should have the ability to send out signals (either verbally or non-verbally) in a way that TURNS HER ON and also understand the signals that she sends out to you in a manner that you are able to accurately read her emotional state, intent, and current sexual interest level in you.

The goal of Seductive Communication is to send out Sexy Signals (also known as Attraction Spikes) that amplify attraction and avoid sending out Repulsive Signals (also known as Repulsion Spikes) that decrease attraction. 

E.g. when you casually mention female friends in an entertaining story (where the punchline of the story is something other than the fact that you have female friends), then you’ll have effectively sent out Sexy Signals and spiked attraction. 

In contrast when you talk about how lonely you are, and that you haven’t been on a date in a while then you’ve effectively sent out Repulsive Signals and decreased attraction.

Effective communication is important because it is medium of which connections are formed, value is exchanged, and interpersonal goals are achieved. When you give a lot of value to someone, eventually you become valuable. After value is exchanged in a mutually beneficial connection over a long period of time, sometimes a relationship is formed. For our purposes, this relationship is of a sexual nature. She feeds on your emotions, attention, and physical pleasure. 

Fortunately for her, you’re a man of abundance and you have plenty of that which she desires. You are The Great Prize that she has been born to seek.

Women are value-consumers, and attracted to value givers. By becoming an effective communicator, you’ll be able to generate value from scratch. I repeat: when you have the right communication skills, you’ll be able to create on-command the value that women feed on.

Communication is a medium of giving value.

Fun is a form of value. You can use communication to entertain, and improve the mood of others - achieving a therapeutic effect.

Intrigue is a form of value. You can use communication to teach her fascinating facts about her (cold reading, astrology, palmistry, personality type, etc.) or her favorite subjects (yoga, meditation, spirituality, her ambitions).

DARK COMMUNICATION

Women are naturally manipulative (and are driven to achieve their personal agenda that benefits them directly - as is human nature in general), so often the ideas that are they transmitting to you do not reflect reality.

Some men have been manipulated by a shit-storm of lies for so long that they’ve started to believe these lies as reality. This manipulation tactic used by women is known as Normalization.

Another dark communication tactic used by women, Gaslighting (making a man question his ability to form accurate perspectives of reality) is a tactic that is sometimes implemented by cunning women to take the man a notch down, so he becomes more easy to manipulate.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's The Complete PUA Bundle.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

31 Jan 2024 15:59

Have a great vibe!!!

When you’ve got a game, you can open with anything and it will still start a conversation with a cute girl. It’s not the words that matter as much as the energy, vibe, and vocal tonality behind the words. You want to speak from a place of high energy, overflowing good emotions, a contagious enthusiasm for life

How you say it > what you say. 

Women care more about how you make them feel than anything else. Energize them, flame good emotions, and provide an intense emotional experience - ignore negative vibes and overly logical conversations. 

It’s not the words themselves that create the magic but the confidence from which they are said in.

For anything that comes out of your mouth, remember to OWN IT 100%. 

What kills the vibe:

complaining,

exuding sadness,

criticizing others,

bringing attention to negative emotions,

What adds value:

focusing on the positive,

exuding enthusiasm for life,

uplifting spirits and people’s self-image.

Women view the world from “emotional glasses”, so a man who can communicate in this language of emotions will resonate deeply with women. Develop your EQ (emotional intelligence) to understand your own emotional state, be able to identify the emotional state of others, and learn how to improve the mood of those who are around you through practical behavioral techniques (such as storytelling, pacing a woman’s reality, and other techniques mentioned in this book). 


When you consistently improve a woman’s emotional state to one of happiness and intense excitement, then you will become an anchor that she will use to bring herself up. Even when she’s going through a storm of negative emotions and tension, you’ll be there - a calm, relaxed unmoving mountain - to anchor her back to reality.

THE GO FIRST PRINCIPLE

You must be in the emotional state that you want to take a woman into. After all, you can’t give what you don’t have.

Be proactive - not reactive. Be at the cause - not at the effect. Let her play by the cards that you deal.

Supplement a passive mating strategy, with active tactics. Take the initiative to spike a woman's emotions. Press her emotional buttons.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

29 Jan 2024 15:59

TAKE A FEW HOURS TO ANSWER THESE CRUCIAL QUESTIONS

Do you want to just have sex or do you want to have a long-term relationship? Do you just want raw animal pleasure, or something more meaningful?

What kind of qualities do you want to have in a sexual partner or girlfriend? Do you want a party animal who frequents bars and clubs or someone who is more ambitious and career-oriented?

What kind of man do you want to be, and what specifically are you doing to get there? Do you want to be a low-key 9-to-5 corporate soldier who does everything by the book, or a ruthless businessman who runs an empire?

Which guys do you know specifically that are ultra-successful with women, and what do you need to do to hang around them - so that you can study their behavioral patterns? Do you hang around places or attend networking events that would allow you to meet charismatic Alpha Males whom you could learn from through the power of role-modeling?

Is your vision based on something that you personally want or something that society (consumerism) has brainwashed you to believe is valuable? Do you personally like the girl, or do you just like her because other guys would like her?

How much time do you need to spend every single day meeting women, practicing attraction-generating techniques, and following up on leads to achieve competent seduction skills? Do you have an accountability partner or some way of holding yourself accountable to do this?

If you don’t know where you are going, you will get nowhere. Take a moment to visualize your ideal self with girls.

What kind of man do you want to be?

What kind of high-demand skills do you want to develop?

What kind of lifestyle do you want to have?

What kind of beautiful girls do you want to have in your life?

What kind of responses do you want to elicit from women?

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. Are you interested in being a player who gets laid with a new girl every week every time his week, or do you want to have a relationship with a single beautiful woman (but have the sharp skills to get new beautiful women if you want to)?

If you could be anything with no chance of failure then what you would be?

Work towards your vision every day!

Create a vision of success with women, and make progress towards that vision every single day for a year (by taking action every day, and having a series of consciously implemented habits). Just make sure that it’s a vision that you actually want and have chosen for yourself - rather than what other people have chosen for you. It’s your fucking life, so choose something that resonates the most with you - not what others have chosen for you.

Ask yourself “Why am I in this game?”

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Conversation Casanova Mastery.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

27 Jan 2024 15:59

6 Keys to Protecting Yourself Against Getting Manipulated

Don't waste valuable psychological resources on dead-ends. Make moves relatively quickly to test and assess her potential, so you don't invest time in something that isn't an optimal lead.

Have clear boundaries and communicate them. If those are violated, walk away. Your energy is better spent on more promising leads, or generating new leads. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS retain "walk away" power. Ensure that you have leverage, and enough self-respect to keep your standards enforced. A woman can sense when a man is “bluffing” about leaving her if she violates his boundaries. If you don’t have the ability to walk away then you just gave away your balls to her on a silver platter.

Don't do the friendship first, fucking second route. Once a woman gets used to seeing you as friend, it can be hard for her to change those behavioral patterns. Create a dominant, Rated R, man-to-woman frame from the very start and sustain it throughout the interactions.

It's imperative to know what you fucking want out of the field. Life rewards the "specific ask" and punishes the "vague wish"; in other words, the concrete goals should be clear in your mind. When entering pivotal situations, understand the agenda, and optimal outcome. If you don’t know what you want out of the sexual marketplace and don’t have a conscious plan of action then, don’t expect to get it randomly. Things don’t just magically fall into place as you get older; you have to consciously work towards skill to develop it, and a vision to reach it.

Respect yourself AND your time enough to walk away from one sided "friendships" with women who you want to fuck, or being in a sexual relationship with a woman of low quality (ugly, old, lots of attitude, gold-digging tendencies, needy, non-optimal logistics etc). Your time is worth money.

Have a purpose that is more important to you than pussy. If you stand for nothing, you fall for anything. If you live for a meaningful vision then you'll naturally be immune to female manipulation, and be too busy to get sucked into female drama designed to boost her ego.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

25 Jan 2024 15:59

Law #86: Don’t fall into the Halo Effect Trap.

Don't be fooled into thinking a woman is an angel of purity.

Women have an agenda - even if that agenda is unconscious. If a beautiful woman is with a guy then you better believe that she is getting some sort of value from him. Understand this very clearly in your mind: the moment a woman stops getting value from a guy is the moment that she vanishes from the face of the earth and focuses on other guys. Women are value consumers, and will stay with you as long as you are a value-giver; fortunately for them, you are A MAN OF ABUNDANCE and have tons and tons of value to offer. You have a TON TO OFFER to any woman who enters into a sexual relationship with you. BE A GIVER OF VALUE.

It is crucial to be able to know the type of things that women value, so as to be able to give women value consistently and thus have them around in your life. It takes an understanding of Womenese to be able to provide the type of value that women find valuable; after all, what is valuable to you as a man, is not necessarily what is valuable to a woman. BURN THIS INTO YOUR BRAIN. Women value three things more than anything else in the world and these three things are: good experiences, good emotions, and happiness. As a man, you are essentially a drug dealer dispensing the chemical high of good feelings to women - over a long period of time. She is using you for good emotions.

Guys misunderstand women because they take what they say through a literal medium, instead of reading the vast number of other signals that women are constantly sending out (such as facial expressions, body language, tonality, a woman's past actions, and current actions). Womenese is ultimately understanding what a woman means to communicate, the truth of a situation, and being able to communicate effectively. To truly understand what a woman means, you have to look at the entire CONTEXT of the situation (this means being aware of where you are in the environment, the dynamics of the situation, and key signals that a woman is sending out); likewise, to speak womenese effectively, you should take the CONTEXT of the situation to account.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

23 Jan 2024 15:59

LAW #58: Conclude Based on Clusters.

Identify Clusters.

Women are constantly leaving clues (signals) on what turns them ON. They’re communicating these signals on different mediums - NOT just the words that she says on a surface level. DON'T ACCEPT HER WORDS AT FACE VALUE AS THE FINAL TRUTH. 

Look to see if what she says is aligned with the multiple channels of communication that she is sending out. A single indicator pointing towards a particular direction may not be sufficient to form a conclusive conclusion about the woman; however, multiple indicators (CLUSTER) pointing towards the same direction lead to a more decisive conclusive conclusion.

When you are looking to determine the truth about a situation, look for multiple pieces of evidence (CLUSTERS). 

11 DIFFERENT CHANNELS THAT WOMEN COMMUNICATE:

#1) What she is saying, 

#2) What she is doing,

#3) How she treats you in public,

#4) How she describes you to her friends,

#5) How she poses in photos with you,

#6) The way that she dresses when she is with you,,

#7) The implications of what she is saying, 

#8) The frame that she is trying to set, and 

#9) The signals being sent with her body language (including facial expressions, posture, tonality, etc),

#10) How she texts you, and

#11) What she posts about you on social media (if anything at all).

ACCUMULATING INDICATORS TO USE IN CLUSTERS

The digital age has completely changed the way that people communicate. Studying a woman’s digital footprint by Googling her name will be quite revealing about her character. 

For instance, if she claims that you’re in a relationship with her, but all of her Facebook photos are of her being “alone” (or even worse: you’re cropped out) then she is still fishing for a higher status man to come along. 

Another example, if you see that she has dating apps on her phone, then she is still uncertain about a long-term future with you.

If a woman rejects you just once then you don’t have enough evidence that she isn’t interested. She could have just not been in the mood at that specific point in time. Look for multiple pieces of evidence (cluster) to create a conclusion that is worth acting upon. Put simply: don’t make mating decisions based on snap judgments and insufficient evidence.

If she responds to your text messages FAST and leaves detailed responses then she is INTO YOU. However, if it takes a long time to respond to your texts and they are low-effort texts (one-word, or a canned response) then she is not that into you. In general: don’t get trapped into becoming a woman’s texting penpal. The goal is to always be moving the interaction closer to sex at a reasonable pace. Invite her to a date to an event in the city; then take her home and fuck her.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

21 Jan 2024 15:59

LAW #50: Don’t be a sponge.

Don’t believe everything she says; think for yourself. Women will say one thing, and mean another thing, and the truth itself can be something entirely different. Don’t take her words at face value; look deeper.

Sexual relationship problems are caused by miscommunication problems. 

You misread the situation, and you misread the meaning behind a woman's communication to you. She said "X" and the meaning behind what she said was "Y", but you interpreted the meaning to be “X” and behaviorally responded to "X". You failed to see the actual reality of the situation, and as a result: acted based on an inaccurate map of reality. 

HOW MEN SPEAK: X -> X

HOW WOMEN SPEAK: X -> Y

YOU UNDERSTOOD: X -> X

As a man, you will be the most successful when you operate on an accurate perception of reality - rather than believing in misleading statements, women tell you. Knowing the truth is empowering; allowing a woman to put the wool over your eyes is disempowering.

Don’t believe everything you hear. Look at the evidence including but not limited to: her past behaviors, her present behaviors, her lifestyle, her body language, who her friends are, what other people are saying about her, and micro-expressions. Do these elements confirm her statements, or do they contradict them?

Don’t take a woman’s words at face value and interpret them literally. Only a fool will trust a woman’s words as the final truth.

Use critical thinking skills to separate fact from opinion. Your mind is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal for personal advancement, yet most men would rather numb themselves with endless hours of Netflix than think about critical issues currently relevant in their lives.

Learn to be particularly skeptical about information that women give you if they have a personal stake in the matter. Ask “Does she have something to gain by bending the truth?”, “What does she have to gain?”, and “What caused her to say what she told me?” If she has a personal incentive for you to believe something in particular then take it with a serious grain of salt.

If you are horny, or emotionally invested, then the chances are that the thinking being used at that exact moment is clouded. The bias can be too high for you to make a rational logical decision. Be willing to take a walk to emotionally detach from the situation, achieve a clear state of mind, and then make a decision based on that clear state of mind.

Critical thinking skills are your most powerful weapon for filtering out bullshit from entering your mind, and only allowing the truth to enter. When a woman loses her ability to trick you into believing a set of fantasies and illusions (designed to maximize the resource extraction that she can get from you), you gain the ability to think for yourself and always take the smartest course of action in the given situation that you find yourself within.

Life is like chess. You have to be able to read the board accurately because then you’ll be in the optimal position to make the best move. In life, you always have to be making moves to advance your position.

Understand this right now and right here: the sharper and clearer your understanding of the situation that you are in, the better your decision-making will be. This is why it’s important for you to not be easily bulshitted and intake false information about the reality that you are in. Being fed false information leads to false actions.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

20 Jan 2024 15:59

BE RUTHLESS. 🦁

Life is short, and then you die. 

Your life is composed of a certain amount of TIME TOKENS (a series of moments), and when these TIME TOKENS are gone, then you cease to exist on earth. 

Your days are numbered, bitch.

You have a limited amount of this INCREDIBLY VALUABLE RESOURCE, so it’s essential that you don’t give out your TIME TOKENS for free and without much thought. Be highly selective about who you give these TIME TOKENS to. If a woman is taking up your hours, then she better be fucking worth it.

Here in New York City, a dentist will charge $120 for just a 10-minute consultation. It doesn’t matter how much pain you’re in, the dentist doesn’t have a “savior complex” and won’t give away his time to you for free because of your entitlement. The Dentist will tell freeloaders to “FUCK OFF” because his business is not a charity. Even if the Dentist doesn’t say “I don’t give a fuck about your problems if I’m not being paid,” it will be implied with his actions - e.g. not being available to freeloaders and having lots of excuses as to why he simply “can’t” be available to you (See Law #53: Action Reveals All).

Some men waste years of their lives running a Time and Psychological Energy Charity for low-quality unworthy women - instead of running a ruthlessly efficient clear GAME PLAN for GETTING SEX.

Be clear about what you want out of the sexual marketplace to make the most out of your finite time.

Be clear about what you don’t want, so you can assertively communicate clear boundaries, and have the ability to say “no.”

Be highly selective about those who you allow within your inner circle.

Learn this right now and right here: if a low-quality woman is taking up a lot of your time (without giving a substantial amount of value in return), DUMP HER, and never look back. Period. Bottom line.

Keep your walk-away power.

Having the ability to walk away from connections that don’t serve you: is a fundamentally crucial aspect of manhood. Simply knowing that you have the ability to walk away: will give you a sense of real confidence, and will come across in your interactions with women - giving you a competitive sexy edge.

You are constantly sending signals out to women - consciously and unconsciously. Some signals are seductive and lead to sex occurring (such as signals that convey that you are THE PRIZE, THE SELECTOR, and A HIGH-STATUS AMAZING CATCH). Other signals are anti-seductive because they signal that you are a LOW SOCIAL STATUS LOSER (such as putting up with bullshit, weak body language, being overly available, making her your primary Life Purpose, etc).

Beliefs are contagious.

What you believe about yourself (you hold yourself in high esteem; you have the belief that “any woman in my inner circle is fortunate to have me; I am a woman’s best option”) 

What you believe about what you have to offer women (your competitive value proposition in the sexual marketplace) is intuitively sensed by women. 

This bears repeating: what you believe about yourself and what you have to offer women will intuitively be sensed by women. A high-status self-image leads to sexy high-status behaviors.

For instance: women intuitively know that an ELITE HIGH STATUS MAN (a man who is in the top 1% of society) has REAL OPTIONS with other women and has HIGH STANDARDS. Hence, she intuitively senses that he won’t put up with bullshit (low-quality behaviors) for too long; there will come a point when he will just be fed up and walk away. If a man allows himself to be treated like a doormat, then women will start to view him as having the same worth as a doormat. Setting boundaries is essential.

In contrast, if you believe you’re gold then this will come across in how you conduct yourself and be intuitively sensed by those around you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

18 Jan 2024 15:59

Be emotionally relevant by speaking about a subject matter that a woman genuinely cares about. 

Find a way to relate that to a subject that you genuinely care about, so that your words will come from your heart and a place of effortlessly expressing passions  (and self-amusement) - not from a place of being try-hard.

6 chick crack subjects of conversation: 

spirit animal,

astrology, 

cold reading psychology,

her ambitions, values, and passions, 

relationship dynamics, 

the current news,

AN EXAMPLE OF A CONVERSATION SUBJECT THAT WOMEN LOVE:

A woman’s favorite subject in the entire universe is….. (you guessed it)…. Herself! She cares more about herself than anyone and anything in the world. Don’t be fooled by a woman’s altruistic appearance; her primary agenda is always to serve her own unconscious or conscious biological interests because she worships the god that is her name.

This is why stacking non-judgmental observations and insights about who she is will keep her hooked on your every word. If you only learn one thing from this book then let this be the one thing that you learn: tell women insights that you have noticed about them and they will love you for it.

THE POSITIVITY PRINCIPLE

Don’t share these insights in a condescending/judgmental, harsh way because this may discourage women from sharing openly about their lives. She might be reticent when speaking IF it frequently leads to her being attacked in an analytical manner. As a general rule when dealing with women, being positive and enthusiastic about life is sexier than focusing on the negative and complaining. Contrary to the behavior of certain red pill gurus, constantly complaining about how shit women are and how life “sucks because it’s so unfair”, does NOT lead to a healthy perspective on existence and a feel-good vibe.

Disclaimer: While the vast majority of women greatly appreciate cold-reads, there are anomalies of certain women who don’t appreciate it. A smart seducer starts with the same cookie-cutter strategy for every woman that he meets, but with time creates a more tailored mating strategy that is specifically designed and refined (on the spot) to meet the emotional needs of the woman he is dealing with that is based on the latest information in the field (such as her body-language reactions to his micro-moves and other clues that she leaves about the blueprint to seducing her). Hence, to an extent, he is always in calibration mode and “meeting her where she is at” - while simultaneously drawing her into his world and escalating the interaction.


How to Create a Conversational Connection

Figure out what her favorite topics of conversation are [aka Elicit Values].

Learn a lot of information about these subjects.

Speak passionately about them.

Use extremely powerful and dominant body language.

BOOM! She will hold on and cling to every word that you say.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 Jan 2024 15:59

Did you ever see a beautiful woman, only a few feet away, but you were too scared to say or do anything?

A decade ago, that was me! I felt TRAPPED like a thirsty man in a desert surrounded by water he couldn't drink. There were women all around me, but I didn’t know what to do to start an interaction and sustain it long enough to seduce her. IT WAS TORTURE to see a sexy, young woman only 6 feet away, but I did NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HER TO START THINGS OFF.

It took years of painful, heart-breaking trial and error to crack the code, but when I did figure it out the sex was as abundant as sand on a beach. WHEN I COULD FINALLY GET RESULTS IN THE FIELD CONSISTENTLY, IT MADE ALL OF THE YEARS OF EXCRUCIATING PAIN WORTH IT.

He who has game-related-skill-sets will find beautiful women as abundant and accessible as OXYGEN, but he who lacks game skills will ponder bullshit thoughts such as: 

“All the beautiful women are taken”, 

“No woman will suck my dick”,

“What’s the point of trying if I’ll fail anyway”, and

“All hope is lost. I am completely fucked.”

The lazy man always has a convenient “perfectly logical” excuse ready to justify his lethargic, cowardly behaviors. He uses these rationalizations to avoid feeling guilty for behaving like a pussy.

CREATE A POSITIVE FEEDBACK LOOP.

When you have success in the field, motivational and inspirational thoughts find you. You become invigorated by your results and find yourself hitting the field more often. You start looking forward to interacting with women. It becomes a positive feedback loop that gets stronger with time. Success breeds MORE SUCCESS. The rich get richer and the sexy get sexier.

However, when you have repeated failures in the field, your confidence and self-esteem levels take a hit. This leads to even less results and generates a vicious negative cycle that can take someone into the depths of depression. When one has repeated failure, he starts to expect failure - creating a self-fulling prophecy. If this is you, you must SNAP OUT OF IT NOW!

A woman doesn’t give a fuck about your excuses, sob story, lack of a strong male role-model, abusive childhood or victimhood. She cares about the bottom line: did you emerge as a WINNER in the game of life? Can she trust you to be a powerful leader?

HE WHO DWELLS IN THE PAST, MISSES OUT ON OPPORTUNITIES IN THE PRESENT.

LISTEN TO ME, SON. I don’t care what your past is. I don’t care how many mistakes you have made. I don’t care how much of a “loser” you think you are.

THE PAST IS DEAD.

And from the ashes, arises a NEW YOU. This moment right now is a NEW CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE. Let go of the past, and start over RIGHT NOW.
Every mistake is an opportunity to learn something new. Everyone makes mistakes. The difference between those who are successful and those who are not: is the ability to quickly gain the lessons from the experiences and move on forward - without a loss of intensity of purpose.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

15 Jan 2024 16:01

“Help! I am intimidated by beautiful woman. I just can’t get my composure around them.” Have you ever heard of a fisherman who is afraid of fish?
FUCK what a woman thinks. She can take her opinion and shove it up her ass. Her perception is of no worth to you. It is meaningless. One day she will grow so that you will be absolutely disgusted by her appearance.
Repeat this affirmation multiple times: “I don’t give a fuck!! I don’t give a fuck!! I don’t give a fuck!!” Say it out-loud.

WHAT MATTER IS WHAT YOU THINK.

Approach Anxiety or anticipatory uncomfortable tension prior to approaching or making a move on a woman is NORMAL. Even veterans who have thousands of approaches can feel approach anxiety. The main thing is to train yourself to not allow emotional resistance to hold you back from taking action. Displine is the art of taking action no matter how you feel in the moment.

There are a few keys to overcoming AA (approach anxiety):

• - disassociate your identity from that emotion; you are not defined by the feelings you experience.
• - visualize yourself succeeding; what are you going to say to her exactly? See yourself walking up to a woman and saying the initial opening lines.
• - utilize affirmations.Verbalize outloud "Every approach is a success - regardless of outcome. I either get the girl or a lesson."
• - utilize a timer. Make a deal with yourself. You only have to be in "APPROACHING MODE" for 3 minutes, and then you'll initiate a break where you focus on recovering energy. As time goes on, your social stamina will increase and the "APPROACHING MODE" time will increase, as well.
• - another affirmation that is useful to say to yourself in the field is "I don't give a fuck!" Saying this mantra with feeling can make a huge difference in mitigating anxiety prior to approaching women.
• - reframe "anxiety" as excitement. Focus on amusement and learning.

If you are in the field, and every ounce of your being is telling you to quit because you are in emotional hell with overwhelming fear and a pounding heart, approach her anyways - because you are a man of courage with GIANT BALLS.

When you are determined to WIN IN THE GAME OF LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES, NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU HAVE TO WORK, then the whole world will open up to you.

• VISUALIZE AN EXCITING VISION.
• SET DAILY, SHORT TERM, and LONG TERM GOALS.
• REVIEW THEM EVERY MORNING, PLAN and EXECUTE.

99.99% of men are dead men walking. There is no fire & passion in their eyes. They are just going through the motions. They've unconsciously given up on themselves, their ambitions and dreams. Part of being a SEXY attractive man is being a man who lives LIFE TO THE FULLEST. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN SEX AND MONEY.
If all you do is live for others then you may be exist, but you have never truly lived. LIVE ON YOUR OWN TERMS. There is an indescribable HIGH that comes from living a life of PURPOSE, MEANING, and TURNING YOUR DREAMS INTO A REALITY.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

13 Jan 2024 16:10

LAW #101: LIVE OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

MOTHERFUCKER!!!
STOP 🛑
EVERYTHING
THAT YOU ARE DOING RIGHT NOW AND LISTEN TO ME, MOTHERFUCKER.

HERE IS MAJOR RED FLAG that you aren’t where you need to be in life right now: 🚩 If you are deep inside your comfort zone then chances are that you aren’t growing that much.

Some men spend their entire lives in their comfort zone and then they wonder why their lives are so average.
Don’t you fucking get it, son? Pain is your friend.

Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Get used to the pain of pushing yourself much harder than you ever thought you could push yourself. Embrace the pain of being miles away from your comfort zone. Get into the PAIN ZONE because NO PAIN MEANS NO GAIN.
The life of a beta male is pathetic and boring. Don’t let that be your destiny.
If you keep doing what you’re doing then you’ll keep getting the results that you are getting. It’s time to LEVEL UP.
I’m going to ask you to do something that is going to make you feel uncomfortable. In fact, I’m going to tell you to do things in this book that will make you feel VERY UNCOMFORTABLE and I expect you to do them with 100% effort.

INPUT DETERMINES OUTPUT.

What you put into your development is what you will get out of it. You are worth investing in. If you put in a mediocre effort to rise to the top of the sexual marketplace, then expect mediocre results. If you go all in, then your results will reflect that level of effort. I WANT YOU GO ALL into improving your sex life.
If you do this single mental exercise properly, it will change your life right now. Turn the page and let’s get started…


PRECISE VISUALIZATION 🔪
MENTAL EXERCISE: PRECISE VISUALIZATION
Take a small step outside your comfort zone at this exact moment and ponder these potentially disturbing questions:
• "What do you truly truly truly desire with women?"
• "If you could have anything in the world with women (with no chance of rejection) then what would you like?"
• "If you could live out your wildest fantasy with a woman - without any chance of failure than what would it be?"
• “What is a secret fetish that you want to experience?”
• “[In the case of a long-term relationship], what qualities would you want to see in the woman who you’d like to see as your life partner?”
Be brutally honest with yourself. You don’t have to share the answers with anyone - except yourself. Visualize that reality coming true in your mind. Describe it in detail. Picture it CLEARLY. See it coming the image coming to life in your mind.
I’ll give you a few minutes to visualize this image of success, and to manually write down what you want on a piece of paper. 1Studies show that writing down your goals substantially increases the chances of achieving them, so write down the kind of woman that you want (even if you have to use code words to be discrete).
Take a few moments to write down the goal that you have for yourself for women.

Fill out this sentence: “I want to _____________.”

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

11 Jan 2024 16:02

Why is confidence the ultimate sex appeal?

Just like you are attracted to slim women (because slimness is an indicator of fertility), women are attracted to CONFIDENCE (because confidence is a solid indicator of competence). Generally speaking: confident men are KILLING IT IN LIFE which is why they are confident in the first place.

Women don’t have the time to give each guy a FULL CHANCE and to LEARN EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM, so they use shortcuts such as looking at a man’s level of confidence, style, and status within society, to ascertain if he is worth getting to know. These shortcuts save them a lot of time.

Confidence and status will get you in the door; conversation, escalation, and giving value will get you into the bedroom.

Just like you are attracted to slim women (because slimness is an indicator of fertility), women are attracted to
CONFIDENCE (because confidence is a solid indicator of competence). Generally speaking: confident men are KILLING IT IN LIFE which is why they are confident in the first place.

Women don’t have the time to give each guy a FULL CHANCE and to LEARN EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM, so they use shortcuts such as looking at a man’s level of confidence, style, and status within society, to ascertain if he is worth getting to know. These shortcuts save them a lot of time.

Confidence and status will get you in the door; conversation, escalation, and giving value will get you into the bedroom.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

10 Jan 2024 16:02

22 WAYS TO HOW TO UNFUCK YOUR LIFE

1. Kill time-sinks.

2. Utilize the mornings and evenings.

3. Habit stack. A habit stack is a series of positive habits that you do every morning and evening.

4. Capitalize on the commute. Fully utilize traveling time.

5. Avoid toxic people. These are people who take up a lot of your psychological energy but give little in return.

6. MENTOR UP. Find someone who is already successful in what you want to do, and learn from them.

7. Reflect daily.

8. Review your goals, and principles frequently.

9. Take daily, substantial action toward your vision. 

10. Continue to learn high-ROI (high return on investment) subjects.

11. Sharpen your marketable skills.

12. Take good care of your body.

13. Don't neglect your spirit and mental health.

14. Cultivate social alliances with powerful and useful contacts.

15. Let go of excuses, limiting beliefs, and the past. 

16. Utilize the power of affirmations, mantras, and self-suggestion to condition the unconscious mind.

17. Invest in improvement of thy self. Invest in yourself by getting better every day.

18. Keep a learning journal.

19. Don't waste time in dead-end relationships.

20. Approach. 

21. Develop your willpower. Have the ability to take action - even when you don't feel like it and your emotions tell you to do nothing.

22. When willpower fails, you will fall to the level of your system of habits. Develop a set of good lifestyle habits ("automated success").

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

03 Feb 2024 16:01

This concept forms the basis of The Fast Girlfriend Method. The more quality time a woman spends with you, the more emotionally attached she will become. In the field of psychology, psychologists refer to this phenomenon as The Mere Exposure Effect. To capitalize on The Mere Exposure Effect: the smart seducer will create a Lifestyle Habit for a woman to spend that time with them.

Set a time for each day that you will talk to her on the phone. Create a reason for this such as reading 3 pages of a specific book together. Or talking about how your day went.

Set a specific day during the week that you will see her. The reason for this could be to be Gym Buddies, or to catch local events in the city.

The key is to be consistent and not miss any days - without coming across as needy. If for whatever reason, something comes up and you/her can’t make the weekly meetup then be relaxed about it - with a simple “Next week”. 

• Assume the sale and it will happen. 

• Assume that she doesn’t like you, and it will often be a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

Your assumptions about the degree of your worth, and the degree that she will comply to your requests often become true because ideas are highly contagious.

QT -> Quality Time

Remember: one of the primary goals of communications is to have both parties feel good in the end. When you ensure that the time spent together is of quality - where both of you end up feeling good and both of you have uplifted spirits as a result of the meetup - then a pleasure habit will eventually be formed through enough repetitions. 

Pleasure habits eventually form into addictions. One day when she’s expecting you to do your usual meetup, you’ll suddenly disappear for a few hours - without explanation - and it will be at that moment that she’ll realize that she can’t live without you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

01 Feb 2024 16:01

The Pattern Disrupt Technique

Letting a woman steer the reigns of a conversation and social interaction is just plain STUPID because I assure you that women often do not have sexuality on their agenda. You must take control and lead things to seduction or nothing may occur but wasted time. DOMINATE THE CONVERSATION. 

Not to mention, that answering boring interview questions creates BOREDOM FOR HER. She starts a boring topic of conversation, you respond with a boring answer, she gets bored and then she leaves. Instead of playing along, answer the question that you WISH SHE WOULD HAVE ASKED. 

One of the principles of female psychology is that when women talk to men, they often don't have a sexual agenda in mind and if you let her control the conversation then it usually won't lead to sex. This is why you cannot let her lead; YOU MUST SEIZE THE REIGNS OF CONTROL.

Don't let her control the reigns of the conversation. YOU take CONTROL. Lead the conversation towards a place of mutual seduction. Don't let girls trap you into boring, logical conversations that lead to NOWHERE. 

Pattern disrupt her self-sabotage narratives. Alphas interrupt boring conversations or other threads that they don't want to engage in. If she starts talking about boring things and boring herself OR if she talks about sad things then INTERRUPT HER and CHANGE THE SUBJECT. 

Don't answer her boring questions with logical boring answers. Respond sarcastically or with humor. This is far more entertaining than giving dull facts. Nice conversation is BORING.

Do not allow yourself to be associated with boredom or negative emotions. Be associated with excitement & positive emotions. 

You'll get more out of life if you stopped being a pussy, beta male, and started developing courage and TAKING CHARGE.  Beta males are passive. Alpha males TAKE CHARGE OF SOCIAL AND SEXUALLY CHARGED SITUATIONS.

Don't live constantly reacting to things and to women. Live proactively. Don't play the game by her rules. HIJACK CONTROL. You deal the cards that she plays by. SHE ENTERS YOUR WORLD ON YOUR TERMS.

START CONVERSATIONS WITH DOMINANCE.

In NYC, if you try to start a conversation from a nervous, shy and submissive frame of mind then girls will often just ignore you entirely or pretend they didn’t notice. Don’t believe me? Try it. Let the lack of results speak for themselves.

Ideally, you should start a conversation with a girl with:

SUPREME BULLETPROOF CONFIDENCE,

powerful body-language,

unshakeable frame,

dominant frame of mind that assumes authority,

coming from a feel-good place inside. 

approach with a full cup - not from a needy, approval-seeking and reaction-seeking position.

Lonely women are lonely because of strong self-sabotage mechanisms. As a seducer who may encounter virgins, feminists, or these types of women, instead of falling into a woman’s frame and doing what she wants: have the stronger frame and lead. Instead of playing by her self-sabotage rules and reacting to her, you set the seductive rules and have her react to you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

30 Jan 2024 15:59

THE GOALS OF SPEAKING, SIGNALING, UNDERSTANDING, AND OBSERVING THE SECRET LANGUAGE KNOWN AS WOMENESE.

When you meet a beautiful woman who is worthy of your time, you want to be fluent in Womenese to be able to:

Truly understand her thoughts, feelings, and actions, so that you can behave in a manner that resonates positively. Do more of what is seductively impactful, and less of what is seductively repulsive.

Understand what she means when she says specific things, so that you can calibrate your strategy accordingly. A key principle of this book is: a woman’s words reveal the mechanism of her psych.

Understand the signals that she is sending out with her body language and what they mean, so you can capitalize on “DOWN TO FUCK RIGHT NOW” signals. If you miss the DTF Signals, you won’t fuck her at the moment that she is sexually available. Be aware of the signals that a woman unconsciously (or consciously) sends out when she wants to fuck, so that you’ll be able to notice them when they occur in real time, and you’ll act on them. When opportunity meets a man who is ready, sex happens.

Understand the truth behind the male-to-female dynamic, so that you can leverage the variables in this dynamic to your seductive advantage. A woman wants you to play the dominant masculine role in the relationship, so she can play the submissive feminine role. Treat a woman like a woman, so she can feel sexy. Submission within a woman unleashes her sexual side.

Understand what you have to do specifically to solidify a physical connection. It is your responsibility as a man to physically escalate the interaction towards sex because a woman’s ego prevents her from doing something that will make her feel slutty.

Womenese boils down to these 6 mediums that give off signals:

#1) Thoughts

#2) Feelings

#3) Words

#4) Actions

#5) Body Language

#6) Social Media

The first 5 factors tend to feed off each other. For instance: thoughts lead to feelings lead to words lead to actions and vice versa. 

The 6th factor is a woman’s social media lifestyle which are quite revealing about her and sometimes can reveal what her thoughts are about you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

28 Jan 2024 15:59

WHY SHE DOESN’T ALWAYS MEAN WHAT SHE SAYS, AND SAY WHAT SHE MEANS


Memes like these depict women as “impossible” to understand and perpetuate the problem. LET GO OF THIS LIMITING BELIEF. While it’s not possible to understand a woman 100%, using maxims and general principles depicted in this book: you’ll understand enough about women to radically increase your effectiveness in banging pussy.

Why doesn’t a woman just say what she means?

A man’s thoughts and intentions are aligned with his words. A man will communicate DIRECTLY. He means what he says, and says what he means. If he has an issue with you, he will confront you directly. A man who communicates indirectly and uses passive aggressiveness is a feminized soy boy.

In contrast, a woman often communicates indirectly. They will say one thing, but mean something entirely different. They will mean to say one thing, but actually say something entirely different. If a woman has an issue with you, she will often be passive-aggressive instead of blurting out what the core of the problem is.

MASCULINE STYLE OF COMMUNICATION: Meaning = words.

FEMININE STYLE OF COMMUNICATION: Meaning =/= words.

A woman is often NOT able to accurately represent her thoughts, perspective, intentions, and feelings with the words that she uses. What a woman says to you can be COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than the true meaning behind the words. This is due to multiple Distortion Factors such as ego, conformity, peer pressure, anti-slut-defense, fear of confrontation, fear of social discomfort, etc. These Distortion Factors will lead to her bending (distorting) the truth

Her words (if taken literally) actually grossly misrepresent her inner world.  

She’ll tell you the truth is “A” but by using your female-decoding intel (because you speak fluently in Womanese) you will see that the truth is NOT “A” but rather: “B”. 

She’ll tell you the truth is “A, B, and C” but by using your female decoding intel, you’ll recognize the truth is NOT “A”, or “C”, but rather a harder version of “B”.

To the untrained eye, a woman’s words are quite misleading. Hence, it’s vital to take a woman’s words through a decoding filter to cut out the bullshit, untangle the misleading statements, and find the truth. A woman’s words are more clues about reality  (mixed in with a lot of misleading statements) rather than reality itself.

KEY:🔑 Train yourself to NOT be bullshitted by a smooth-talker, and to see the RAW REALITY/TRUE MEANING of the SITUATION. This is a general principle of communication that goes beyond just dealing with women, and extends to dealing with people in general. Don’t believe everything you hear. Nor should you believe everything you read.

By swallowing the metaphorical Red Pill and being determined the truth - no matter how painful - you will be in the best position to succeed. Learning to understand the language women speak - Womanese - will enable you to decipher the situation and accurately read the beautiful women in your life. This way you won’t get hit with curve balls, and unexpected surprises; for everything a woman does, you would have already anticipated it. Always be a few steps ahead.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

26 Jan 2024 15:59

Here's How You Become Interesting to Others [And Make Your Life Interesting As Well!]

Immerse yourself. Build your arsenal.

Read interesting things to learn interesting things to be able to say interesting things in a conversation to become AN INTERESTING PERSON. Live an exciting lifestyle doing things worth talking about and enjoying intriguing hobbies that women are curious about - that don’t involve reading comic books, jerking off, Netflix binge-watching, or playing video games.

If you don't know what to talk about then chances are that there isn't much happening in your life, you don't have that many things going for you, and you aren't reading enough. In that case, you have to quite literally GET A LIFE.

Reading is one of the fastest ways to accumulate interesting knowledge to share with beautiful women. Take on an exciting challenge. Get a cool hobby. Embark on adventure. Do daring shit. The more remarkable things that you have the balls to do, the more EPIC STORIES you will have to tell women.


When you have cool hobbies and cool things going on in your life then your conversations will be much better with women because you will have exciting things to talk about, and that gives them the ability to live vicariously through you - gaining your happiness and life passion. When you have cool shit going on in your life then you will naturally be excited to share it with everyone - women included - making them a part of your life in the process. If there’s nothing going on in your life then women will be turned off by a lack of ambition, purpose, and valuing the finite nature of existence.


Take experiences from your personal life and turn them into stories. Practice saying these stories (both the short version, and long versions) a few times to get the delivery down. Go as far as even recording yourself on video to then watch yourself afterward to assess the entertainment quality. The litmus test: if you’re bored by yourself then chances are that she is bored too.

Chances are that there are a lot of cool things about you; you just have to learn how to convey them to women in an interesting way. You have to learn how to talk about yourself in a way (fun, interesting, emotionally engaging, entertaining) that draws women into your world and encourages them to reciprocate by sharing about their personal life. You can even go as far as starting a YouTube channel and shooting daily vlogs for practice.

One of the key concepts is that you have to have ready material (stuff to talk about) just in case your brain goes blank during a conversation with a woman, and that material is gained through research - either by reading or by throwing yourself into interesting experiences. Men with big balls succeed with women far more than men who are afraid of living a life worth sharing.

There is always something more to talk about because the world is interesting and fascinating subjects have near-infinite depth. You need to start building material that you can talk to beautiful women about. Create a stack that can be used - because it has been field-tested to create an enjoyable experience for women, sparks attraction, and fosters connections.

ARE YOU REALLY LIVING OR JUST GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS?

On your death bed, it will usually be the things that you did NOT do that, will be cause of regret. Figure out the answer to this question:

“What is my dream?”

“What do I want to accomplish before I die?”

“Where do I see myself a decade from now?”

“What meaningful and higher purpose do I live for?”

“What is the purpose of my existence?”

Then attack that dream with FULL FORCE. Part of being a man of high status is being a man on a mission - chasing his dreams and living for a purpose.


This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Conversation Casanova Mastery.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

24 Jan 2024 15:59

LAW #82: In her mind: if it feels true, it is true.

Women think with their emotions.

Don’t take anything a woman says personally. If a woman says something insulting to you: don’t take it to heart, because she is just expressing how she feels at the moment, and her feelings are subject to change. Change her mood to easily change her mind. Women “think” with their emotions; feeling something to be true is enough to make it true.

Don’t accept a woman’s first response to you to be set in stone. As she gets to know you more, her attraction levels can spike, her mood will change, and her behavioral response can shift radically in a positive direction.

Men care about the truth. They have an open mind to accept the truth - as long as sufficient evidence and a strong argument is presented. Women care about believing in what feels good. They see what they want to see, and believe what they want to believe.

Men process the world based on facts. Women process the world based on how they feel.

Miscommunication happens when a man uses his information-based perspective of understanding the world to interpret and attempt to understand a woman’s emotional way of communication. Miscommunication happens when men use their manese language to understand womanese.

Men make their decisions based on what they want and cold logic (which stays the same). Women make their decisions based on what they desire and how they feel at the moment (which can change).

WOMANESE IN RELATIONSHIPS

Masculine men have a stronger frame (perception) and lead a woman - mentally, logistically, and physically. Submissive women have a weaker frame and submit to a man’s view of the world - following his lead. Even if a woman’s frame is very strong, your frame must be STRONGER. A confident man has a bullet-proof frame. He inspires women to follow his lead. A submissive woman is a sexual woman.

When expressing a problem, men want solutions. When expressing a problem, women want empathy.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

22 Jan 2024 15:59

How to Test Your Woman & Know If She’s Lying or Not?

 LAW #55: Test her.

Testing a woman lets you quickly ascertain the truth, without having to put in tons of effort making educated guesses and looking at empirical evidence. This way you won’t be wasting time on sexual duds, and won’t have to wait for the truth to spill out on its own. 

When it comes to compatibility, it’s better to find out earlier than letting things drag out. Further, in the context of men seeking a long term sexual partner: it’s important to find out if a woman is low quality, or high quality BEFORE you develop any sort of feelings for her and BEFORE you invest a significant amount of time into her.

There are specific things that you can do to test a woman that are mentioned here, such as making a specific move on her. She can either go along with your physical advance/accept your date to an invite (which is HARD EVIDENCE) that she is interested in you, or deny it (also which is HARD EVIDENCE). Her actions are binary: it’s either a “yes” or a “no”, so you’ll know exactly how she feels about you through her actions.

Don’t fall for the bullshit of a woman saying that she “doesn’t have the time” or other excuses that she gives. Busy people make time for things that are important to them. That’s why they are busy in the first place. The extent to which a woman goes out of her way to make time for you shows you the extent that you’re important to her (psychologically and emotionally).

If Brad Pitt wanted to see her, I assure you that she would suddenly have a lot of time available.

It’s worth mentioning that even if a woman is legitimately busy, if she is interested in you then she will respond by telling you a time that she is available. If she doesn’t, inquire about her schedule and create a time based on that. 

Understand this: women find time for men that matter to them. If she doesn’t make time for you then you are not a priority in her life - to the extent of the high priority that other tasks have. It’s time to move on to a woman who values you enough to go out of her way to find time.

On a different note, touching is a key test. If a woman is responsive to intimate touches then she likes you - even if she appears to be verbally dismissive. Learn to trust the touching and her actions above all else.

Women lie, so men test. When it comes to compatibility, it’s better to find out earlier than letting things drag out - wasting your valuable psychological energy in the process.


This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Womanese 101.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

20 Jan 2024 15:59

If you believed you were GOLD and what you have to offer is GOLD, then you wouldn’t stay in a situation where other people were treating you like shit, because you would know that it would be easy for you to find new relationships with new people (after all, you are offering GOLD). You would naturally have higher standards, and convey a willingness to walk away - which ironically will make women like you even more. Women intuitively expect a high-status man to have high standards and they expect a high-status man to leave them if his high standards aren’t met.

A key fundamental in learning to speak Womense is to condition your mind that you are GOLD, what you have to offer is metaphorical GOLD, and your time is GOLD; when you truly believe this then you’ll unconsciously communicate this through your body language, actions, and words. 

• For instance: simply feeling powerful leads to exuding powerful body language. Beliefs and feelings create behaviors.

It’s also worth noting that beliefs are contagious. By changing your beliefs about yourself,  you’ll change women’s beliefs about you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

19 Jan 2024 15:59

THE COMPLIANCE LADDER

If you throw a frog into a boiling teapot, it will jump off. But if you gently put a frog into a warm tea pot and slowly increase the temperature then it will eventually burn to death. Women are similar in this regard; don’t come on too strong and get blown out. Test the waters. Gauge her eagerness. If you see highly receptive body language, then start escalating at a reasonable pace at high points in the interaction, and with time you will eventually get everything.

Even if a woman rejected you initially, you can still approach her at a later date - so don’t take any rejection as final. In this game, rejection is very common - even among veteran seducers - so having thick skin is paramount. Just like there is a large % of women who you wouldn’t want to fuck, so too women view a large % of men as un-fuckable.

Keep in mind that even if 99 women rejected you, but the final 100th turned out to be a fuck buddy then it was all worth it in the end - and you had 99 opportunities to sharpen your skills to be ready for the worthy woman. Approaching is simply a matter of finding out if a woman has good taste. Regardless if you get the girl or not, you still benefit by having some time to practice your conversation skills with her.

Advanced note: What is interesting to you may be boring to others. Further, what is interesting to one woman may be boring to another. This is why taking in real-time social feedback and calibrating accordingly is of paramount importance. Without reading body language, you are essentially playing chess blindfolded and hoping that a cookie-cutter plan will work for everyone in all situations.

Let’s apply the same concept to the business field…

Gauging is relevant to the business field as well.

It does not matter what your opinion is about a product. It does not matter what your dad says about it. The only thing that matters is how the marketplace responds. Let the numbers do the talking.

Sometimes you’ll see a product that you think is complete shit. You wonder to yourself “Why the fuck would I bother listing this on eBay (to dropship from Amazon, Sears, Kmart, HomeDepot, or Walmart) if it’s worse than human feces? I would NEVER buy this in a million years?” Yet, eBay Sold Listings reveal that it’s selling like hotcakes.

Something that is boring to you may be wildly entertaining to women, and vice-versa.


This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Womanese 101.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

17 Jan 2024 15:59

Attraction is a Learned Skill

Attraction is not a choice. Attempting to negotiate desire logically is silly. Sexual attraction is merely a primal response to certain external stimuli such as: 

dominance,

leadership,

powerful body-language,

impeccable high-status style and elegant fashion,

leading (display of leadership), 

strong frame (display of leadership),

flashing elite status,

flashing wealth,

vibing, 

touching,

emotional spiking,

arousing (a horny woman will lose control),

“I am the prize to be won” frame,

social proofing,

sparking jealousy, and

general escalation.

In between these tactics is a glue that keeps the interaction alive. Without this glue, the mutual engagement will die and there will be no “time” to implement the aforementioned seduction tactics.

Conversation is the glue that keeps interactions together. It is what fills the space between the tactics. Conversation is the ultimate meta-skill that makes everything else in the human mating ritual possible. It’s what keeps her around so that you can play your game.

In contrast, if the conversation dies then the interaction dies. So it’s important to be emotionally engaging enough in conversation to keep women hooked in to interacting with you, and thus “buying you time” to win over mind, heart, and physically escalate on her body. Hence, conversation skills are imperative to learn.

Escalation happens through different mediums:

Logistics,

Physicality,

Mental, and

Emotional.

These same conversation skills will be useful to help one:

network with influential millionaires,

to create mutually beneficial friendships with men (who have access to things that you don’t, or are experts in fields that you are not knowledgeable in), 

keep you entertained every time you leave your home and encounter people along your commute, or they can be used to 

create ENDLESS sexual opportunities with very young women (18+) despite the fact that you are a guy in your 30-50s+. 

They create a foundation for a successful life. Pickup-related skill sets are transferable skills that give will you benefits that exceed merely sticking your penis into a woman’s lubricated hole for the purpose of temporal pleasure. Women inspire you to be the best version of yourself, and build your empire.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 Jan 2024 06:53

If you are a LITTLE BITCH then you will have NO women in your life.

Remember this.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 Jan 2024 16:10

The Eight Key Maxims for BulletProof Frame Control:

• Stupid questions get sarcastic answers.
• Answer questions with questions.
• Stupid games win stupid prizes.
• No pussy is worth losing your peace of mind over.
• The first rule of frame control: not every question a woman asks deserves a straight answer.
• The second rule of frame control: not everything a woman says, merits a logical response.
• Use silence to your advantage. A lack of verbal response is a response.
• If you have a strong enough frame and say it without enough confidence, you can “get away with anything”.

If a man took everything a woman said seriously and attributed importance to it then he might lose his sanity. Women stir-up time-wasting drama about stuff they don’t understand ALL THE TIME. Learn to disregard and ignore many of the random things that she says.
If a woman gives you some shit, and you lose your shit, then you also lose the shit test. The best way to handle being given shit is to either ignore, deflect with humor and misdirection.

Don’t reinforce negative behavior by rewarding with more of your attention and emotional reactions. Don’t give it credibility by taking it seriously. Your attention is your time. Your time is worth more than money. Time is life itself.
Don’t give away all of your attention for free.

If a woman misbehaves, withdraw the amount of attention you give her.

Going on a rant is actually chasing her harder - which is the exact opposite of the optimal path.
• Woman misbehaves.
• Guy chases harder.
• She notices that misbehaving gets your attention, so she continues to misbehave.
• Guy chases even harder.

A negative cycle is created.
You have to resist the temptation to chase her harder the moment she pulls away. This would only reinforce negative behavior.
The more disrespect you put up with initially, the more disrespect you will have to put up with in the in the future. It always start subtly.

Rule of thumb: the more disrespect you put up with, the more disrespect you will have to put up with.
It starts with a shit test and if you fail, it ends with her shitting on you because she sees your value as shit. The intuitive response to a shit-test for a lot of men is to get defensive and to logically justify their behaviors.
"I did X because of reasons A, B, and C."
Justifying yourself to her only creates a precedence for more justification and giving away your social power.

Here's a better frame:
"I did X because I want to do X."
and an overall implied meta-frame:
"I don't need to answer your questions, or explain myself to you, because you're not the boss of me."

This is Frame Control 101, gentlemen. There's a difference between explicitly stating the reasons why she should be with you, and simply implying these reasons through your lack of words.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

12 Jan 2024 16:02

POWER IS THE ULTIMATE SEX APPEAL🔪.

Have powerful body language when communicating with women. Often how you say something is more important than what you are saying; hence, your delivery skills are crucial. You can have the best pickup lines in the world, but if the delivery is off then the pickup lines won’t hit. If your body language is weak then women won’t take you seriously. Here is a checklist for good body language when communicating with women. Each one of these is incredibly important.

• ✅ #1) Be LOUD.
• ✅ #2) Have a DEEP TONALITY.
• ✅ #3) Hold STRONG EYE-CONTACT.
• ✅ #4) Take your time when talking. Talk slower at times to emphasize key points. GOOD PACING is vital. 🔑
• ✅ #5) Use PAUSES to build anticipation.
• ✅ #6) TOUCH to emphasize key points.
• ✅ #7) Use GESTURES to emphasize key points.
• ✅ #8) TAKE UP SPACE when talking to women. Keep your feet apart. Have a Power Posture.
• ✅ #9) HAVE VARIETY in your tonality, temp and volume.
• ✅ #10) Communicate with NON-VERBAL body language such as your posture, and practice FACIAL EXPRESSIONS.
• ✅ #11) Practice emotional regulation techniques and meditation skills to communicate from a position of having a RESOURCEFUL EMOTIONAL STATE, and peace of mind. Being relaxed will help you avoid nervous ticks, facial flinches, or signaling stress.
• ✅ #12) Keep your head up, and chest out. Keep your back straight. Lean back. OWN THE SPACE.
• ✅ #12) Feel good. Enjoy the experience in the present moment. Flash a GENUINE SMILE.
• ✅ #13) Amplify your volume and SPEAK CLEARLY. Articulate yourself well.
• ✅ #14) Sit down, lean against the wall, or get into a comfortable position. This is known as LOCKING IN. Confident men don’t position themselves in an uncomfortable position when communicating.
• ✅ #15) Command the environment. Move things around. Control and adjust things in the environment. Behave like THE PLACE YOU ARE IN IS YOUR HOME.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

10 Jan 2024 16:10

EXUDE EXTREME CONFIDENCE. YOU ARE THE GREAT PRIZE TO BE WON.
“The Being Afraid-to-Make-a-Move Trap”

MAKING MOVES ON A WOMAN AND GETTING REJECTED IS INFINITELY BETTER than not making moves on a woman and not getting rejected. In Pook’s words, “Rejection is better than regret.”
Every time you advance (do something specific on a particular woman in order to lead the interaction to sex), you learn something in the process. This is true - even if you are met with a harsh blowout. He who keeps advancing will eventually learn enough to be a master.
In contrast, someone who has a fragile ego won’t escalate (and won’t even try) because he is too terrified of getting blown-out: and will learn NOTHING. Someone who doesn’t even attempt to make moves on women sends a signal to his unconscious mind that he is UNWORTHY. He rejected himself because he allowed his limiting beliefs of his self-worth to win over.
Old belief:
• “I am too unattractive for any woman to like me, so I won’t even try because it won’t work anyways.”
• “I don’t want to approach because it will be cringe, and I’ll feel like shit.”
Reframe:
• “I have a lot to offer women. Being with me is one of THE BEST CHOICES SHE CAN MAKE.”
• “Regardless of the output of this particular approach, I am going to have fun and learn something from it. Even the worst rejections, make the best stories.”
Be acutely aware of your strengths and talents. Write them down. By being aware of what you’re good at then you have it ready-at-hand to be used to help you in life. Women find excellence in almost any particular field to be incredibly attractive. Know what you’re exceptional in, and then go to venues that where people gather (women included) who value that which you’re exceptional in. A key 🔑 in speaking Womenese is to show the best parts of yourself.
MY DEAR SON, I ASK OF YOU ONLY ONE THING THAT YOU SHOULD REMEMBER. REMEMBER THAT: HE WHO HESITATES IS LOST.

EXUDE EXTREME CONFIDENCE. YOU ARE THE GREAT PRIZE TO BE WON.

“The Being Afraid-to-Make-a-Move Trap”

MAKING MOVES ON A WOMAN AND GETTING REJECTED IS INFINITELY BETTER than not making moves on a woman and not getting rejected. In Pook’s words, “Rejection is better than regret.”

Every time you advance (do something specific on a particular woman in order to lead the interaction to sex), you learn something in the process. This is true - even if you are met with a harsh blowout. He who keeps advancing will eventually learn enough to be a master.

In contrast, someone who has a fragile ego won’t escalate (and won’t even try) because he is too terrified of getting blown-out: and will learn NOTHING. Someone who doesn’t even attempt to make moves on women sends a signal to his unconscious mind that he is UNWORTHY. He rejected himself because he allowed his limiting beliefs of his self-worth to win over.

Old belief:
•“I am too unattractive for any woman to like me, so I won’t even try because it won’t work anyways.”
•“I don’t want to approach because it will be cringe, and I’ll feel like shit.”

Reframe:
•“I have a lot to offer women. Being with me is one of THE BEST CHOICES SHE CAN MAKE.”
•“Regardless of the output of this particular approach, I am going to have fun and learn something from it. Even the worst rejections, make the best stories.”

Be acutely aware of your strengths and talents. Write them down. By being aware of what you’re good at then you have it ready-at-hand to be used to help you in life. Women find excellence in almost any particular field to be incredibly attractive. Know what you’re exceptional in, and then go to venues that where people gather (women included) who value that which you’re exceptional in. A key 🔑 in speaking Womenese is to show the best parts of yourself.

MY DEAR SON, I ASK OF YOU ONLY ONE THING THAT YOU SHOULD REMEMBER. REMEMBER THAT: HE WHO HESITATES IS LOST.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

09 Jan 2024 16:02

HOW TO PASS SHIT TESTS

Often the best response to a shit test is to ignore it. Don’t reinforce the low value frame that she is projecting by giving it creditability with a logical response or show of emotion. Instead disacknowledge the frame with silence.

If you do respond,
•then use misdirection by abruptly changing the subject, or humor (sarcastic agree and amplify to absurdity).
•“Do you say this to all the women?” “You are number 1,027.”
•“How many women have you been in a relationship with?” “3 and a half.”
There are different kinds of shit tests.

Power Play
A woman asks questions about stuff she doesn’t care about to (get you to qualify yourself or defend yourself) for a quick ego boost. A Power Play can also come in the form of a woman telling you to do something for her. If a man gives up his power, she quickly loses respect and attraction for him.

Verbal Abuse
A woman says something that puts you in a negative light. If a man accepts this frame, she quickly loses respect and attraction for him.
It’s good practice for a man’s SMV to get into the habit of keeping social power to himself.

By behaving like a high status man - even around other men (friends, family or coworkers) - you create dominant attitudes and behaviors that lead to victory with women. If you spend all day being a beta male at work, don’t expect to suddenly turn Alpha when there’s a beautiful woman in front of you.