Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 May 2024 16:59

How to tell if a woman is not interested in a particular subject matter, and it’s time to alternate:
• She will look away - diminishing eye-contact.
• She will glance at the door.
• She will give one worded responses like “cool” or her responses will be shorter than what she is used to.
• Her tonality and volume will go down (lower than her normal Baseline).
• She will take a step back.
• Her feet will start to be pointed in a different direction.
• She will make a slight turn in the opposite direction.
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Figure out what things in life she is most passionate about. By knowing a lot about these subjects and talking about them, you will come across as far more interesting. Talking about shit she cares about is a fundamental rule towards being a good conversationalist. RELEVANCY IS KEY. After all, you bought this book because it was RELEVANT to an issue that has deep meaning to you; did you not?

It is also recommended to mention a subject briefly before going too deeply into it. For example: if she responds positively to a brief comment about cats then you know that it will be safe to go into a longer monologue about pets.

You don’t want to take this too far where you start ending statements as if they are questions, and constantly seeking out her approval while saying anything. Do not end statements in a high pitched voice like a little bitch. Talk about a subject that you are passionate about and enjoy – without seeming like you give a fuck if she approves. If you see that she is responding positively to that then keep going. If she isn’t, then alternate subjects.

If you launch immediately into a lengthy dialogue about a subject that she doesn’t care about, and keep talking about it extensively (despite her body-language signals) then don’t be surprised if the interaction ends. Forcing women into a conversation about a subject that they don’t care about and having a dull delivery style will kill interactions.

If a woman isn’t receptive to a particular escalation move, she may choose to send subtle signals rather than outright tell you “DO NOT DO THAT!” because she wants to avoid the uncomfortable, awkward tension with direct verbal confrontation. She may be scared to deliver a direct rejection, so she’ll send out subtle signals, imply a frame of “being busy”, or come up with a silly excuse. A smart seducer can read these subtle indicators and adjust his game strategy - on the spot - before the situation reaches a point of “no return”.

If you slip up and make a mistake and say/do something silly, don’t let it dwindle your confidence levels. It’s normal to make mistakes, and women intuitively sense that. A confident man shrugs it off playfully (as if barely noticed it), and moves forward. The key is to retain calm, in-control composure at all times - even during common flinch points.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 May 2024 17:09

String Theory of Flirting & Seduction

Women value what they work to acquire much more than what comes free. Create a Vacuum.

Technique #4: Utilize Calculated Pauses.

Use the “pregnant pause”. When story-telling or sharing your opinion on a matter PAUSE at the right moments (as soon as you say something particularly edgy) to allow her to contribute back to the conversation. Create opportunities for the girl to contribute to the conversation. Use eye-contact to reinforce the expectation that it’s her turn to talk.

If you are the only person who is talking then it can come across as try-hard. A woman has to invest in a guy in order to value him. Women value what they work for. Hence, it's necessary for her attraction levels to jump through hoops on your behalf.

7 Conversation Sins:

taking too long to explain something,

using filler and boring fluff content,

repeating yourself,

taking too long to hit the punch line,

not having a punch line at the end of a small ramble,

not pausing at interaction points to let her talk,

not having an obvious ending to what you’re saying, so a woman picks up on the cue that it is HER TURN to speak in the conversation,

 

In the initial phase of the conversation, talk in short-bursts that all have punch lines in the end. Going on a lengthy monologue, without receiving conversational feedback from her is weird and you may lose her attention span. Be self-amused. Talk about things that you enjoy. 

Anticipate times when she is most likely to respond and pause during those moments to allow her invest into the conversation because (1) her investment in you is more important than you generating attraction, and, (2) a conversation should be a two-way street.

 

Advanced notes:

Time in the field will tell you proper ratios. An ideal conversation is roughly a 50/50% divide – albeit at the start of pickup it will be around 80/20% where you are doing the majority of the talking. The reason why you are doing most of the talking initially is because you approached her (hence, the burden of carrying the conversation is on you) and she may not be in a social mode yet. 

THE SEQUENCE:

- The seducer says something and then ends at a provoking moment to allow a woman to contribute to the conversation.
- He holds eye-contact.
- He then waits for the woman to say something back.
- Often at this point the woman will respond (giving into the social pressure) but if she doesn’t seem likely to contribute on her own initiative at this point of the interaction (providing a body-language cue such as averting her gaze) then the seducer will either move on to his next conversational point, or ask a question.

If all you do is chase a woman then you don’t structure an opportunity for a woman to chase you. By creating space, you allow a woman to invest in you! The more she invests in you, the more she rationalize that you are worth investing in. When one creates a vacuum then women will fill it with their efforts.


This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Conversation Casanova Mastery.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

05 May 2024 16:59

HOW TO LEARN WHAT SUBJECTS OF CONVERSATION WOMEN ARE INTERESTED IN:
When you notice that she brings a subject up on her own then take mental note of this. This is an indicator that it’s a conversational topic that she is passionate about. If you notice that her eyes light up and she becomes animated as soon as a specific subject of conversation is brought up then take note of that too! Women constantly leave clues on how they desire to be seduced. Ignore what she says “she wants”, and look at what she behaviorally responds to (in terms of her actions, body-language, and micro-expressions).

Conversation is not a blind man’s game; to succeed pay attention to the ongoing dynamic between you and her, and tailor your strategies based on the current social feedback you are getting.

Make a list of topics that you have a lot of knowledge in, you are passionate about, enjoy talking about, and what women will generally find interesting. When you are in a conversation bring these subjects into the conversation. For example if you care about travel then no matter what she says then you can bring it up with a simple “That reminds me of the time I was in Florida, […]”.

A smooth transition depends on relating what she just said to what you have just said; albeit, you don’t always need to have a smooth transition. You can just can bring up a random subject and as long as you have the confidence and a strong frame, it will work too. General rule of thumb: with a strong frame, you can get away with almost anything.

What you don’t want to do is to talk about subjects that women don’t find interesting. If upon talking about a particular subject, you see that a woman is expressing disinterested body-language then that’s a sign that you should switch the subject. In contrast, if you see a woman’s eyes light up (and emotional state spike) as soon as you mention a particular topic or buzzword, then that’s your cue that this subject is worth talking about with her. Make a mental note in your mind to learn more about that subject, so that the next you see her: you’ll be able to better engage.

The optimal path is when you are interested in the same subject as she is interested in. Then when you share enthusiastic insights about that subject, then you create a mutually beneficial and mutually enjoyable experience that is shared between the both of you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

03 May 2024 16:59

THE KEY TO SOLVING THE PARADOX

Always focus on the primary goal of understanding and speaking Womenese; the primary goal is to efficiently and effectively have sex with a beautiful woman - which leads to a long term mutually beneficial sexual relationship that includes countless additional nights of sex. You want to accomplish this primary goal with Bullshit Encountered Counter at null (or as close to null as possible), and not getting sucked into time-wasting drama.

The secondary goal is to develop GAME SKILLS, so that you can go out, meet and seduce a new woman - if the necessity arrives. Don’t wait for a breakup to start developing GAME SKILLS. Develop GAME SKILLS SHARP and KEEP THEM SHARP - even if you currently are in a relationship right now.6In the event of the relationship ending, you want to still have the essential skills necessary to meet women  and generate the value that women feed on, ON-THE-READY.

It’s important to keep this always keep the primary and secondary goals in mind at all times when dealing with women, so you don’t lose the forest for the trees and you don’t waste psychological energy on a lot of the stupid petty bullshit that women talk about. You want to enter The Womanverse so you can get practical knowledge that leads you to FUCK HER IN THE PUSSY - not so you can get lost in an endless blackhole of abstract theory.

I will be guide on this educational journey and hit you with various game-changing epiphanies. Let’s get started with this introduction by talking:

•   about common traps in the sexual marketplace,

•   the overall mindset that you should have when dealing with women,

•   the goals of speaking Womenese,

•   the cardinal rules of seduction,

•   how to be a badass Alpha Who FUCKS, and

•   how to communicate the sexy irresistible trait of confidence.

🛑No more being stuck in interactions-to-nowhere (e.g. a time-wasting woman is just thirsty for attention and free entertainment)! This was an excerpt from Womanese 101, from which you’ll learn how to use the Womanese language to assess if a woman is a waste of time, or if you can pull her in with specific techniques.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

01 May 2024 16:59

Actions and results follow self-belief, which is why making physical escalation with BULLETPROOF CONFIDENCE IS PARAMOUNT.

Touch a woman’s body like a you touch a cup of coffee - with full belief that it will work and zero hesitation/anxiety. If you touch with confidence, a woman will fall into that frame and believe that it’s acceptable - just like she knows 1 + 1 = 2; she won’t be held back by her anti-slut defense.

As you’ll see later in this book, I explain that when you touch a woman’s body you should do it from a firm belief that it will work. Your expectation and intense self-beliefs:

“I am going to touch your body in the erogenous zones, and you’re going to enjoy it.”

“Touching is no big deal, and a very normal aspect of interaction.”

“We both have beautiful bodies. And we want to enjoy each other with those bodies because it feels good, and deepens our connection.”

“My touch is a reward for good behavior.”

is conveyed to the woman through subtle nuances, and she falls into the frame. If your perceptions have high conviction, a woman will simply adopt them as their own because he mind is highly suggestible. A woman’s mind is not as strong as a High Status Alpha Male’s mind, and can be overtaken.

Contrary to the #MeToo movement’s erroneous conclusions, don’t ask a woman permission to touch her body (asking for permission is giving away social power, conveys self-doubt and puts her in the leaderhip role). Asking a woman what to do is handing away your balls on a silver platter. A woman is already giving you permission based on the way that she conducts herself around you; if you see multiple indicators that she is attracted to you then those are green lights for you to act upon the sexual opportunity that has presented itself to you. Saying something like: “Do you like me?” conveys self-doubt in your high worth.

Assume permission is already given:

based on the situation,

her prior actions,

the frames that were set, and

body-language

Then smoothly escalate incrementally.

Condition a woman to follow your lead through small hoops, submit to you mentally, and hold the frame that YOU ARE THE PRIZE; then you’ll have the best conditions to train her to be metaphorical sexual slave - hooked on the value that you provide. Confidence is conveyed by simply acting - not by asking for permission to act. JUST TOUCH HER BODY - don’t ask her if you can. ASSUME THE SALE - rather than asking for the sale.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

29 Apr 2024 16:59

“Help! I am intimidated by beautiful woman. I just can’t get my composure around them.” Have you ever heard of a fisherman who is afraid of fish?

FUCK what a woman thinks. She can take her opinion and shove it up her ass. Her perception is of no worth to you. It is meaningless. One day she will grow so that you will be absolutely disgusted by her appearance.

Repeat this affirmation multiple times: “I don’t give a fuck!! I don’t give a fuck!! I don’t give a fuck!!” Say it out-loud. WHAT MATTER IS WHAT YOU THINK. 

Approach Anxiety or anticipatory uncomfortable tension prior to approaching or making a move on a woman is NORMAL. Even veterans who have thousands of approaches can feel approach anxiety. The main thing is to train yourself to not allow emotional resistance to hold you back from taking action. Displine is the art of taking action no matter how you feel in the moment.

There are a few keys to overcoming AA (approach anxiety):

disassociate your identity from that emotion; you are not defined by the feelings you experience. 

visualize yourself succeeding; what are you going to say to her exactly? See yourself walking up to a woman and saying the initial opening lines.

utilize affirmations.Verbalize outloud "Every approach is a success - regardless of outcome. I either get the girl or a lesson." 

utilize a timer. Make a deal with yourself. You only have to be in "APPROACHING MODE" for 3 minutes, and then you'll initiate a break where you focus on recovering energy. As time goes on, your social stamina will increase and the "APPROACHING MODE" time will increase, as well. 

another affirmation that is useful to say to yourself in the field is "I don't give a fuck!" Saying this mantra with feeling can make a huge difference in mitigating anxiety prior to approaching women.

reframe "anxiety" as excitement. Focus on amusement and learning. 

If you are in the field, and every ounce of your being is telling you to quit because you are in emotional hell with overwhelming fear and a pounding heart, approach her anyways - because you are a man of courage with GIANT BALLS. 

When you are determined to WIN IN THE GAME OF LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES, NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU HAVE TO WORK, then the whole world will open up to you.

VISUALIZE AN EXCITING VISION.

SET DAILY, SHORT TERM, and LONG TERM GOALS.

REVIEW THEM EVERY MORNING, PLAN and EXECUTE. 

99.99% of men are dead men walking. There is no fire & passion in their eyes. They are just going through the motions. They've unconsciously given up on themselves, their ambitions and dreams. Part of being a SEXY attractive man is being a man who lives LIFE TO THE FULLEST. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN SEX AND MONEY.

If all you do is live for others then you may be exist, but you have never truly lived. LIVE ON YOUR OWN TERMS. There is an indescribable HIGH that comes from living a life of PURPOSE, MEANING, and TURNING YOUR DREAMS INTO A REALITY.


This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's "The Complete PUA Bundle." [3 books in 1]

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

27 Apr 2024 16:59

The Eight Key Maxims for BulletProof Frame Control:

Stupid questions get sarcastic answers.

Answer questions with questions.

Stupid games win stupid prizes.

No pussy is worth losing your peace of mind over.

The first rule of frame control: not every question a woman asks deserves a straight answer.

The second rule of frame control: not everything a woman says, merits a logical response.

Use silence to your advantage. A lack of verbal response is a response.

If you have a strong enough frame and say it without enough confidence, you can “get away with anything”.

If a man took everything a woman said seriously and attributed importance to it then he might lose his sanity. Women stir up time-wasting drama about stuff they don’t understand ALL THE TIME. Learn to disregard and ignore many of the random things that she says.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

25 Apr 2024 16:59

LAW #101: LIVE OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

MOTHERFUCKER!!!

STOP 🛑 

EVERYTHING

THAT YOU ARE DOING RIGHT NOW AND LISTEN TO ME, MOTHERFUCKER.

HERE IS MAJOR RED FLAG that you aren’t where you need to be in life right now: 🚩 If you are deep inside your comfort zone then chances are that you aren’t growing that much. 

Some men spend their entire lives in their comfort zone and then they wonder why their lives are so average. 

Don’t you fucking get it, son? Pain is your friend.

Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Get used to the pain of pushing yourself much harder than you ever thought you could push yourself. Embrace the pain of being miles away from your comfort zone. Get into the PAIN ZONE because NO PAIN MEANS NO GAIN.

The life of a beta male is pathetic and boring. Don’t let that be your destiny.

If you keep doing what you’re doing then you’ll keep getting the results that you are getting. It’s time to LEVEL UP.

I’m going to ask you to do something that is going to make you feel uncomfortable. In fact, I’m going to tell you to do things in this book that will make you feel VERY UNCOMFORTABLE and I expect you to do them with 100% effort.

INPUT DETERMINES OUTPUT.

What you put into your development is what you will get out of it. You are worth investing in. If you put in a mediocre effort to rise to the top of the sexual marketplace, then expect mediocre results.  If you go all in, then your results will reflect that level of effort. I WANT YOU GO ALL into improving your sex life.

If you do this single mental exercise properly, it will change your life right now. Turn the page and let’s get started…


PRECISE VISUALIZATION 🔪

MENTAL EXERCISE: PRECISE VISUALIZATION

Take a small step outside your comfort zone at this exact moment and ponder these potentially disturbing questions: 

"What do you truly truly truly desire with women?"

"If you could have anything in the world with women (with no chance of rejection) then what would you like?"

"If you could live out your wildest fantasy with a woman - without any chance of failure than what would it be?"

“What is a secret fetish that you want to experience?”

“[In the case of a long-term relationship], what qualities would you want to see in the woman who you’d like to see as your life partner?”

Be brutally honest with yourself. You don’t have to share the answers with anyone - except yourself. Visualize that reality coming true in your mind. Describe it in detail. Picture it CLEARLY. See it coming the image coming to life in your mind.

I’ll give you a few minutes to visualize this image of success, and to manually write down what you want on a piece of paper. 1Studies show that writing down your goals substantially increases the chances of achieving them, so write down the kind of woman that you want (even if you have to use code words to be discrete).

Take a few moments to write down the goal that you have for yourself for women.

Fill out this sentence: “I want to _____________.”

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

22 Apr 2024 16:59

• 1. Kill time-sinks.

• 2. Utilize the mornings and evenings.

• 3. Habit stack. A habit stack is a series of positive habits that you do every morning and evening.

• 4. Capitalize on the commute. Fully utilize traveling time.

• 5. Avoid toxic people. These are people who take up a lot of your psychological energy but give little in return.

• 6. MENTOR UP. Find someone who is already successful in what you want to do, and learn from them.

• 7. Reflect daily.

• 8. Review your goals, and principles frequently.

• 9. Take daily, substantial action toward your vision. 

• 10. Continue to learn high-ROI (high return on investment) subjects.

• 11. Sharpen your marketable skills.

• 12. Take good care of your body.

• 13. Don't neglect your spirit and mental health.

• 14. Cultivate social alliances with powerful and useful contacts.

• 15. Let go of excuses, limiting beliefs, and the past. 

• 16. Utilize the power of affirmations, mantras, and self-suggestion to condition the unconscious mind.

• 17. Invest in improvement of thy self. Invest in yourself by getting better every day.

• 18. Keep a learning journal.

• 19. Don't waste time in dead-end relationships.

• 20. Approach. 

• 21. Develop your willpower. Have the ability to take action - even when you don't feel like it and your emotions tell you to do nothing.

•22. When willpower fails, you will fall to the level of your system of habits. Develop a set of good lifestyle habits ("automated success").

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

20 Apr 2024 16:59

HOW TO PASS SHIT TESTS

Often the best response to a shit test is to ignore it. Don’t reinforce the low value frame that she is projecting by giving it creditability with a logical response or show of emotion. Instead, disacknowledge the frame with silence.

If you do respond,

then use misdirection by abruptly changing the subject, or

humor (sarcastic agree and amplify to absurdity).

“Do you say this to all the women?” “You are number 1,027.”

“How many women have you been in a relationship with?” “3 and a half.”

There are different kinds of shit tests.

Power Play

A woman asks questions about stuff she doesn’t care about to (get you to qualify yourself or defend yourself) for a quick ego boost. A Power Play can also come in the form of a woman telling you to do something for her. If a man gives up his power, she quickly loses respect and attraction for him.

Verbal Abuse

A woman says something that puts you in a negative light. If a man accepts this frame, she quickly loses respect and attraction for him.

It’s good practice for a man’s SMV to get into the habit of keeping social power to himself.

By behaving like a high status man - even around other men (friends, family or coworkers) - you create dominant attitudes and behaviors that lead to victory with women. If you spend all day being a beta male at work, don’t expect to suddenly turn Alpha when there’s a beautiful woman in front of you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

18 Apr 2024 16:59

Minimize extra, unnecessary words that take up space but communicate nothing. This is similar to the productivity tip of removing unnecessary actions from your life.

• Get rid of filler words such as "umm..." and “uhh”. These words just take up space, but don’t contribute any value. If anything, they remove the impact of what you are saying because they reveal the insecurity that the person you are dealing with will leave you if you pause for too long.

• Kill self-doubt words such as "maybe, probably, I think" that make you sound less confident. You don’t need to say things like “In my opinion” because that’s already apparent. You would be better served by having a dosage of cockiness and speaking as if you are 100% certain that what you are saying is the FINAL TRUTH. This is far sexier to women than a nerd who utilizes words like “in the vast majority of cases, the probability of X occurring is high enough for the notion to be taken seriously. ”Aim for maximum emotional impact; “X is REAL!!!”

• Achieve maximum impact by embellishing the message and dialing it up to be polarizing. A man who is controversial will get far more attention and verbal engagement than a man who is too terrified to break social norms.

• Speak loudly, holding eye contact, with a deep tonality, taking pauses when necessary, and touching the person on the shoulder to emphasize points. If you don’t have strong body language, women won’t take you seriously.

• Develop a confident, loud, dominant, deep tonality. Study politicians who speak with absolute certainty. Women can tell if you are confident just by the way that you talk; a man’s tonality reveals a lot about him.

• Be articulate. Don’t stutter, suddenly drop the ball, or ramble incoherent gibberish. Speak clearly. If people ever have to ask you “What?” Then that’s a strong sign that you aren’t speaking clearly enough (which communicates low self-confidence) and it’s killing the dominant frame that you should be establishing from the very start.

Confident men believe that what they have to say holds tremendous value and therefore they say it in a manner that can be easily heard by others

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 Apr 2024 16:59

Overcome Her "Stranger Danger" Signals & Become Familiar

HOW TO OVERCOME STRANGER DANGER, AND MAKE A WOMAN FEEL COMPLETELY COMFORTABLE WHEN YOU APPROACH HER - SO THAT YOU’VE ALREADY WON THE GIRL BEFORE YOU EVEN SAY ANYTHING:

The cold approach is a way to meet women but its disadvantage is that you start from scratch when you walk up to a woman. She doesn’t know anything about you, and you have a limited amount of time to convey highly attractive traits/features about yourself - enough for her to want to give out her personal information for a Day Two.

This is assuming that:

• you have the game skills to overcome the initial uncomfortable experience that women feel when a strange man approaches them on these the street (with a rapid-fire series of brilliantly cunning techniques),
• the balls to disregard social norms in the first place,
• the smoothness to be seen as relatively normal,
• the charm to spark attraction, and
• the brazenness to have DOMINANT, POWERFUL BODY-LANGUAGE throughout the process.

Yes, one could get laid this way and learn a fuck ton about the game along the way, but it’s not a beginner friendly method. One doesn’t get a gold medal for making things harder than they have to be - especially if there are far easier ways (and more time efficient ways) of meeting women such as joining a dance, yoga, meditation, or spiritual social club. Do you want ego validation points from random dudes, or do you want to get sexual ecstasy?

If you say “yeah, but I don’t have the time for that” then GO FUCK YOURSELF BECAUSE YOUR HAND IS ALL THAT YOU WILL HAVE. This isn’t your “press a button and pussy falls from the sky” kind of book. Yes, it takes WORK to have beautiful women in your life. It takes HUSTLE. So man the FUCK UP, and EMBRACE THE GRIND LIFESTYLE.

Compare street pickup to building a strong social circle in a college campus social club, or starting your own social club in a college campus.
You infiltrate the group, bring a ton of value, and eventually become the highest ranking member in that group. When a cute 18 year old freshman comes in for the first time to a party that the social club is throwing, you already have built-in social proof, perceived high status, and a massive logistical advantage. You get the girl before you even say anything - as long as you don’t have any kind of weird quirks or blind spots that are fucking you up (consult with peer network of successful men who get laid by showing them hidden camera footage of your interactions with women (where legal)). The point is this: create the conditions where an approach is the most likely to succeed because sexual mating strategy is a long term play even more than it is a series of short term plays. Being the forum’s most successful pickup artist is not the end goal.

In the game of seduction, the end goal is to create a set of conditions where you are considered to be so attractive that women will approach you. Or at the very least, when you approach a beautiful women then she will be highly receptive because your positive reputation preceded you. These conditions are created by becoming a high ranking member in a niche that women value - such as spirituality, yoga, meditation, travel. Don’t be a fucking idiot starting from scratch every day; utilize prior successes to build better approach conditions for the future.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 Apr 2024 16:59

FOUR DEADLY MISTAKES TO AVOID AT ALL COSTS.

I.

Your first mistake was thinking that she was an angel of moral purity - without an agenda of her own.

II.

Secondly, allowing for minor behaviors of disrespect lead to major behaviors of disrespect - which ultimately killed her attraction and appreciation of your high worth.

III.

Thirdly, you didn't know what you wanted out of the connection. You entered into a frame of friendship - instead of establishing a Rated R flirtatious frame from the start. You waited too long to make a move - playing perpetual indirect game and wasting time in the process. Women don’t respect men that don’t go after what they want - in a sexual medium; be physically aggressive in bed. Whip it out and fuck her HARD.

IV.

Your fourth mistake was not keeping a rotation of other beautiful women or maintaining an active social life. She was the only source of sex, and female energy in your life - which led to oneitis, and an imbalance of power. You lost "walkaway power" and she had you by the balls.



Women desire POWERFUL MEN.

When you yield power to her, you ironically self-sabotage the connection in the long-term. She might get an immediate ego-boost, but sexual attraction is compromised in the long term. Further, by developing the habits of a simp soy-boy (even for the sake of a particular woman), you compromise your general sexual market value for women in general.

When you don't allow a woman's pussy turn you into a beta male, you'll stop pedestalizing her, and start valuing yourself. Ironically, putting yourself FIRST attracts more women than putting a woman FIRST. Why? Because: WOMEN VALUE MEN THAT VALUE THEMSELVES.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

12 Apr 2024 16:59

Women live in the emotions of the moment. They do what feels good. Create a desire within a woman. Do this by leaving her wanting more. Utilize push-away, open loops, negation, mixed signals, and power vacuums.

THE PLEASURE PRINCIPLE

Above all, women care about doing what feels good. They live for these pleasurable emotions. A man who can be a provider of these enjoyable intense emotional experiences will have his fill of women.

Technique: The Push-Away

The Push-Away is the first one to end interactions. This makes women desire you more. Keep in mind that you can’t play hard to get if you’re hard to want. So first you have to give value and spark attraction; then you can pull back and watch her chase you.

Technique: Open Loops

Open loops is teasing women by mentioning an interesting subject but not explaining the full information right away. This will keep women hooked on the interaction because they want to know the full story and get closure.

Technique: Negation

Negation is by teasing women with an interesting piece of information about yourself but refusing to give full disclosure. Simply saying “No, I can’t tell you” is very powerful to women because it creates an intense level of intrigue that makes women wonder about you.

Technique: Mixed Signals

Mixed signals are switching between signs of interest and disinterest. This drives women WILD in a good way. She won’t be able to stop thinking about you - wondering if you like her or not. The more a woman thinks about you, the more invested she becomes in you.

Technique: Power Vacuum

Power vacuums are seizing social power in the interaction. Women then become baited into staying in the interaction so they can get their social power back. Little do they know that in the process of interacting with you, they become more and more attracted and you’re too competent to give up that social power. It’s the social power that you have that makes them attracted to you in the first place. Remember: women are attracted to powerful men, so taking social power from them is imperative. Push her off the pedestal, put yourself on the pedestal, and sustain the frame that YOU ARE THE PRIZE throughout the interaction.

🛑No more being stuck in interactions-to-nowhere (e.g. a time-wasting woman is just thirsty for attention and free entertainment)! You’ll know how to use the Womanese language to assess if a woman is a waste of time.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

10 Apr 2024 10:39

This concept forms the basis of The Fast Girlfriend Method. The more quality time a woman spends with you, the more emotionally attached she will become. In the field of psychology, psychologists refer to this phenomenon as The Mere Exposure Effect. To capitalize on The Mere Exposure Effect: the smart seducer will create a Lifestyle Habit for a woman to spend that time with them.

• Set a time for each day that you will talk to her on the phone. Create a reason for this such as reading 3 pages of a specific book together. Or talking about how your day went.

• Set a specific day during the week that you will see her. The reason for this could be to be Gym Buddies, or to catch local events in the city.

The key is to be consistent and not miss any days - without coming across as needy. If for whatever reason, something comes up and you/her can’t make the weekly meetup then be relaxed about it - with a simple “Next week”. 

• Assume the sale and it will happen. 

• Assume that she doesn’t like you, and it will often be a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

Your assumptions about the degree of your worth, and the degree that she will comply to your requests often become true because ideas are highly contagious.

QT -> Quality Time

Remember: one of the primary goals of communications is to have both parties feel good in the end. When you ensure that the time spent together is of quality - where both of you end up feeling good and both of you have uplifted spirits as a result of the meetup - then a pleasure habit will eventually be formed through enough repetitions. 

Pleasure habits eventually form into addictions. One day when she’s expecting you to do your usual meetup, you’ll suddenly disappear for a few hours - without explanation - and it will be at that moment that she’ll realize that she can’t live without you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

15 May 2024 16:59

Technique #12: The Field-Tested Line, Transitions and Routines

Have a few memorized lines that you can use at any moment just in case your brain can’t think of anything to say to keep a conversation going. Have a default memorized line to use to start the conversation in case your brain freezes and you are lost for words.

CREATE A CHEAT-SHEET.
Be willing to write down a few topics to talk about into iOS Notes (use bulletpoints - not word-for-word scripts) and glance at them while you are in the midst of the interaction (she will think that you are just checking texts).

HAVE A GAMEPLAN.
To become more success with women, develop a conscious gameplan. Don’t just leave it to chance. Figure out a step-by-step plan of action on what specifically you are going to do in order to have more beautiful women in your life.

BE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR GOOD LINES.
Every time you leave your home, you have multiple opportunities to initiate conversations with female strangers as you go about your daily life and sharpen your skills. The optimal path is to practice your social and seduction skills on a daily basis as you do simple seemingly mundane things such as shopping for groceries, or even taking out the trash. Remember: you get good at what you do frequently. Often the best lines come from spontaneous conversations.

The best routines come from natural spontaneous conversations. If you have noticed that a specific line has generated results for you then remember it and add it to your pocket of lines; chances are that it will work again! Continuously refine your arsenal of battle-tested, field-proven, non-cheesy lines.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

13 May 2024 16:59

Be willing to learn about subject matters that women find highly interesting, and to become competent in areas that women really appreciate. It is preferable for these to be based on the type of woman that you are interested in.

At the same time, don’t lose your identity in the seduction game; draw women into your own world by flashing elite status, having a fiery purpose, and having your own personally meaningful hobbies that you genuinely care about and are a master of.

One of the girlfriends that I had in college was obsessed about being a vegetarian, PETA, anime, fitness, and (ironically) video-games. I recall knowing close to nothing about most of these subjects and researching them by watching documentaries and reading articles on the web, so that I would be able to engage in conversation with my own unique perspective on these “hot topics” that she adored. While I did this in my formative years, I would not necessarily recommend this mating strategy unless you are already in a sexual relationship with the woman (or you are trying to break into a particular niche of women who ascribe to a certain micro culture) because researching a subject can be time consuming.

Further, it is preferable for a woman to be sucked into your world more than you are sucked into her world. Focus on her becoming interested in your favorite subjects of conversation MORE than you becoming interested in what she is interested in. This is simply more time efficient. Further, it allows you to play the sexy role of an authority figure who guides her path (as a salsa dance instructor, college “tutor”, or even a spiritual leader in some religious niches) rather than a low status follower of her world. Don’t lose your personal identity in pursuit of sexual access to a specific woman, but be willing to recreate yourself and become the best version of yourself for the sake of achieving your life purpose.

A woman is attracted to a man of higher social status than her. Create this perception of status by teaching her new things about life. After all, a teacher is of higher social status than his student. This is more effective to do if she gets sucked into your world, and into subjects that you are a master of - rather than vice-versa.

Women fuck up - not down. Women fuck men that are leaders - not followers. You want to constantly be leading her physically, mentally and logistically. By playing the role of a leader in the dynamic between you and her, attraction levels will spike. Even a “feminist” woman, wants to be submit to a more dominant, and more competent man.

If you want to get a woman to be sexually aroused by you then you have to frame yourself as the PRIZE and the ONE WHO IS MORE VALUABLE than her. One way of asserting yourself as the being that is of higher worth than her is by leading. A leader is naturally given the position of being higher in relative social status than those that follow him.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

04 May 2024 16:59

LAW #1: Be emotionally relevant.

Technique #1: Find something that she is passionate about AND that you’re passionate about; then talk about that! Look for topics of mutual interest and utilize them as “bait” for conversation.

Ask yourself three questions:

•   -> What does she like to talk about?

•   -> What do you like to talk about?

•   -> Where do these overlap?

Then share insights about her favorite subjects that you actually give a fuck about. BOOM!!

 

This works like magic. For example: women LOVE talking about relationships. If you want to turn a boring conversation around, bring up the subject of relationship dynamics and request her opinion on a hot-button issue in the subject. It is important to talk about her areas of interest, and it preferable for her areas of interest to overlap your areas of interest.

 

THE SWEET SPOT IS WHEN YOU FIND A SUBJECT MATTER OF MUTUAL INTEREST THAT CAN BE MILKED FOR CONVERSATION TO SUSTAIN THE INTERACTION AND BUY YOU TIME TO PHYSICALLY ESCALATE ON HER BODY.

 

When you talk about what you genuinely care about, you will feel a visceral motivating pull to keep talking. When you talk about what that particular woman enjoys, she will inspire you to keep talking by giving you positive body-language and providing juicy pieces of information for you to work with.

LAW #1

Be emotionally relevant by speaking about a subject matter that a woman genuinely cares about.

LAW #1 Clause 1

Find a way to relate that to a subject that you genuinely care about, so that your words will come from your heart and a place of effortlessly expressing passions  (and self-amusement) - not from a place of being try-hard.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

02 May 2024 16:59

FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK.

Let them think what they want. Don't let it stop you from aggressively pursuing your goals in the game of life.  The next time you see a beautiful woman and want to approach her, do it. Don't let the fear of "What would people say about me? What if she doesn't like it?" stop you.

FUCK what they say. FUCK her opinion. FUCK society's rules. Don't worry what she will think of you if you approach, say something, or make a move. It's not what she thinks that matters, but what you think that matters.

Alphas run the world because they take decisive action. They aren't frozen by social fears, or analysis paralysis.  Instead of living your life to please the perspective of others, realize that their thoughts hold little weight. In a century, they will all be dead.

Live your life to pursue your own goals, vision and purpose - not for the sake of getting external approval from random strangers, or praise from people in your life. Don’t be easily manipulated by dosages of approval or disapproval from women.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

30 Apr 2024 16:59

PRACTICE MAKES BETTER.

EXERCIZE #1

Take a dictionary and a camera. Open up to a random page and with your eyes closed choose a random word. Record yourself speaking about that subject for 5 minutes straight. The goal is to be able to prove to yourself that you can talk about anything for as long as you want to because the ability to have a conversation is based on a state of mind and a state of emotions. The brain wants proof – not promises.

 

EXERCIZE #2

Imagine spotting a beautiful woman waiting for the bus - as you are walking home from work. Imagine saying something to that woman to strike up a conversation; then think to yourself “how would she respond? How would I respond to her response?” Then “How would she respond to my response of her response?” And so on. This is similar to playing chess against yourself. The goal is to slow things down enough to understand the general dynamics of conversation, and realize that any given point you have multiple moves to play (with some moves being more conducive to the probability of sexual success than others) - rather than a linear path.

EXERCIZE #3

Make a list of topics that you are enjoy talking about, and have a lot of knowledge in. You can get addicted to a certain kind of misery. That is misery of the excuse of “not knowing what to say to women”, so that you would have the ability to sidestep the potential pain of rejection, and having your ego attacked by the opinion of random female strangers. When you accept the possibility of rejection then women lose their power over you.

EXERCIZE #4

Make a list of at LEAST 3 affirmations to repeat every morning. Here are some really powerful ones to choose from:

•   “I will speak my mind freely with women.”

•   “When I am with women, I will express my opinions and share my thoughts openly with extreme confidence.”

•   “When it comes to interacting with others, I will say WHATEVER THE FUCK I FEEL LIKE SAYING. What I have to say is valuable just because it came from me.”

•   “I have lots of things to talk about because the world is an interesting and exciting place. There is NO FUCKING LIMIT to how much there is to talk about.”

•   “I don’t give a fuck if people disagree with my perceptions. I am an expander of consciousness and gain a lot just by talking about things that are personally meaningful to me.”

•   “I don’t give a fuck what people think!”

•   “Meeting new people is FUN and engaging in conversations has a lot of personal benefits to me!! I can gain insights about female psychology, have a good time, talk about what I love, and sharpen my social/seduction skills all at the same time! If someone doesn’t like what I am doing, FUCK THEM. I DON’T GIVE A FUCK BECAUSE I AM TOO BUSY HAVING FUN!!!”

EXERCIZE #5

Set a specific time during the day when you call up some of your contacts - just to practice your conversation skills, strengthen the connections in your rotation, and follow up on potential leads. For instance this could be from 10:30PM to 11:00PM. Just call people up and schmooze. Afterwards, make notes of valuable insights that you have learned about how to interact with women successfully (also known as writing a Field Report). There is always a higher level of knowledge and skill in game. Don’t settle for less just because you’re the smoothest lion in your social circle. KEEP YOUR SKILLS SHARP.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

28 Apr 2024 17:09

If a woman gives you some shit, and you lose your shit, then you also lose the shit test. The best way to handle being given shit is to either ignore, deflect with humor and misdirection.

Don’t reinforce negative behavior by rewarding with more of your attention and emotional reactions.  Don’t give it credibility by taking it seriously. Your attention is your time. Your time is worth more than money. Time is life itself. Don’t give away all of your attention for free.

If a woman misbehaves, withdraw the amount of attention you give her.

Going on a rant is actually chasing her harder - which is the exact opposite of the optimal path. 

Woman misbehaves.

Guy chases harder. 

She notices that misbehaving gets your attention, so she continues to misbehave. 

Guy chases even harder.

A negative cycle is created.

You have to resist the temptation to chase her harder the moment she pulls away. This would only reinforce negative behavior.

The more disrespect you put up with initially, the more disrespect you will have to put up with in the in the future. It always starts subtly.

Rule of thumb: the more disrespect you put up with, the more disrespect you will have to put up with.

It starts with a shit test and if you fail, it ends with her shitting on you because she sees your value as shit. The intuitive response to a shit-test for a lot of men is to get defensive and to logically justify their behaviors.

"I did X because of reasons A, B, and C."

Justifying yourself to her only creates a precedence for more justification and giving away your social power. 

Here's a better frame:

"I did X because I want to do X."

and an overall implied meta-frame:

"I don't need to answer your questions, or explain myself to you, because you're not the boss of me."

This is Frame Control 101, gentlemen. There's a difference between explicitly stating the reasons why she should be with you, and simply implying these reasons through your lack of words.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

26 Apr 2024 16:59

POWER IS THE ULTIMATE SEX APPEAL🔪.

Have powerful body language when communicating with women. Often how you say something is more important than what you are saying; hence, your delivery skills are crucial. You can have the best pickup lines in the world, but if the delivery is off then the pickup lines won’t hit. If your body language is weak then women won’t take you seriously. Here is a checklist for good body language when communicating with women. Each one of these is incredibly important.

• ✅ #1) Be LOUD.

• ✅ #2) Have a DEEP TONALITY.

• ✅ #3) Hold STRONG EYE-CONTACT.

• ✅ #4) Take your time when talking. Talk slower at times to emphasize key points. GOOD PACING is vital. 🔑 

• ✅ #5) Use PAUSES to build anticipation.

• ✅ #6) TOUCH to emphasize key points.

• ✅ #7) Use GESTURES to emphasize key points.

• ✅ #8) TAKE UP SPACE when talking to women. Keep your feet apart. Have a Power Posture.

• ✅ #9) HAVE VARIETY in your tonality, temp and volume. 

• ✅ #10) Communicate with NON-VERBAL body language such as your posture, and practice FACIAL EXPRESSIONS.

• ✅ #11) Practice emotional regulation techniques and meditation skills to communicate from a position of having a RESOURCEFUL EMOTIONAL STATE, and peace of mind. Being relaxed will help you avoid nervous ticks, facial flinches, or signaling stress.

• ✅ #12) Keep your head up, and chest out. Keep your back straight. Lean back. OWN THE SPACE.

• ✅ #12) Feel good. Enjoy the experience in the present moment. Flash a GENUINE SMILE.

• ✅ #13) Amplify your volume and SPEAK CLEARLY. Articulate yourself well.

• ✅ #14) Sit down, lean against the wall, or get into a comfortable position. This is known as LOCKING IN. Confident men don’t position themselves in an uncomfortable position when communicating.

•✅ #15) Command the environment. Move things around. Control and adjust things in the environment. Behave like THE PLACE YOU ARE IN IS YOUR HOME.

How to Control a Woman’s Mind to get her to believe what you want her to believe and think what you want her to think, so that she will metaphorically be a sexual puppet in your hands.

Learn the Forbidden Techniques of Frame Control

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

23 Apr 2024 16:59

EXUDE EXTREME CONFIDENCE. YOU ARE THE GREAT PRIZE TO BE WON.

“The Being Afraid-to-Make-a-Move Trap”


MAKING MOVES ON A WOMAN AND GETTING REJECTED IS INFINITELY BETTER than not making moves on a woman and not getting rejected. In Pook’s words, “Rejection is better than regret.”

Every time you advance (do something specific on a particular woman in order to lead the interaction to sex), you learn something in the process. This is true - even if you are met with a harsh blowout. He who keeps advancing will eventually learn enough to be a master.

In contrast, someone who has a fragile ego won’t escalate (and won’t even try) because he is too terrified of getting blown-out: and will learn NOTHING. Someone who doesn’t even attempt to make moves on women sends a signal to his unconscious mind that he is UNWORTHY. He rejected himself because he allowed his limiting beliefs of his self-worth to win over.

Old belief:

• “I am too unattractive for any woman to like me, so I won’t even try because it won’t work anyways.”

• “I don’t want to approach because it will be cringe, and I’ll feel like shit.”

Reframe:

• “I have a lot to offer women. Being with me is one of THE BEST CHOICES SHE CAN MAKE.” 

• “Regardless of the output of this particular approach, I am going to have fun and learn something from it. Even the worst rejections, make the best stories.”

Be acutely aware of your strengths and talents. Write them down. By being aware of what you’re good at then you have it ready-at-hand to be used to help you in life. Women find excellence in almost any particular field to be incredibly attractive. Know what you’re exceptional in, and then go to venues that where people gather (women included) who value that which you’re exceptional in. A key 🔑 in speaking Womenese is to show the best parts of yourself.

MY DEAR SON, I ASK OF YOU ONLY ONE THING THAT YOU SHOULD REMEMBER. REMEMBER THAT: HE WHO HESITATES IS LOST.

Why is confidence the ultimate sex appeal?

Just like you are attracted to slim women (because slimness is an indicator of fertility), women are attracted to CONFIDENCE (because confidence is a solid indicator of competence). Generally speaking: confident men are KILLING IT IN LIFE which is why they are confident in the first place. 

Women don’t have the time to give each guy a FULL CHANCE and to LEARN EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM, so they use shortcuts such as looking at a man’s level of confidence, style, and status within society, to ascertain if he is worth getting to know. These shortcuts save them a lot of time.

Confidence and status will get you in the door; conversation, escalation, and giving value will get you into the bedroom.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

21 Apr 2024 16:59

When you are in a talkative state of mind, the right things to say will naturally come to you. This is a mental state that is conducive to being a talker. One can enter into this mental state through warming up by engaging in brief interactions with other people.

THE RECENCY PRINCIPLE

One of the important principles to master in starting conversations is the principle of RECENCY. This is where you mention that the subject of conversation just happened to you so that it doesn't appear like you are trying too hard to start a conversation. Using recency makes the seducer appear spontaneous.

For example, ask yourself which one of these remarks sounds smoother: 

“Last night, I binge-watched an entire season of The Game of Thrones” or 

“I binge-watched an entire season of The Game of Thrones.” 

The former appears more natural because it implements the regency principle. Cool, social guys like to talk about things that just happened to them; it’s an extroverted behavior. They talk because they want to “get something off their chest”, share a recent experience with someone and enjoy the present moment. 

In contrast, the latter is someone who appears to be putting in a conscious effort to start up a conversation. 

It’s better to appear natural, spontaneous, and in the moment. Something so awesome just happened to you that you JUST HAVE TO share it with someone! More examples: 

“You wouldn’t believe what just happened to me…” 

“On my way here, I had the strangest realization…”

“Did you see the fight outside?”

“Last night the craziest thing happened to me.”

Why is Recency Important?

It’s normal to want to talk about the current exciting events in your life. You’re so excited about what you’re going through that you can’t help but share it with the world! Further, describing your situation to others has a therapeutic effect, and helps one gain perspective on his life. On the other hand, starting conversations about events that have transpired years ago creates the impression that you are trying hard to entertain her. Women might be entertained by pathetic, eager-to-please clowns, but they don’t fuck them.

He who tries hard, dies hard.

Appear effortless.

Don’t reveal knowledge of the game. Reveal red pill concepts, to brainwash blue-pilled people at your own peril.

Don’t make it seem like you prepared a lot for her. Appear natural and unplanned. 

Don’t seem like you have an intense agenda. Appear like you’re just having fun. This is very disarming for women.

Don’t seem like you’re trying too hard to gain rapport because it comes across as needy, and desperate and implies negative social proof. A high-status man who has many options with women is used to beauty and doesn’t need to bend over backward to attract one into his life; beautiful women intuitively grasp this concept and expect a high-status man to have standards, have healthy expectations, and a certain extent be psychologically aloof.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

19 Apr 2024 16:59

If you don’t know who the sucker is, it’s probably you. Here are 11 Iron Clad Rules to navigate the sexual marketplace without being fucked over like a soy boy. Remember you want to fuck - not be fucked over:

Don’t reveal knowledge of game. Don’t appear like you planned to approach her (even if you are a professional pickup-artist). Create the impression that the approach was almost an “accident” or a “spur of the moment” action while you were doing something else. Good approaches seem like natural organic conversations that “just happened” - not premeditated. Appearing to go with the flow and being completely natural has a highly disarming effect on women and makes them open up.

Don’t attach your sense of self-worth to your level of success with women. 

Don’t chase. Attract.

Don’t depend on her approval. FUCK HER APPROVAL. Focus on your goals.

Don’t show neediness. If she’s worth it, show interest.

Don’t be emotionally explosive around her. Remain composed. A woman instantly loses respect for a guy if she senses that she has impacted his emotional state.

Don’t give away your social power. Frame yourself as the prize. 

Don’t compromise your sexual market value for the sake of a particular woman running a “tame the Alpha” game on you.

Don’t be afraid to lose her. Always retain “walk away power” and have multiple women in your rotation.

Don’t neglect your own development the moment you get a girlfriend. Keep your skills sharp with daily practice - so if the time comes and opportunities occur, you’ll be ready. 

Don’t be a pushover. Be assertive. Compromising your own values may result in decrease of self-respect and is detrimental to your sexual market value. Women come and go. PUT YOURSELF AND YOUR GOALS FIRST. Women don’t value men that put women first. 

Don’t game for validation. Game to get laid (or the specific end result that you want to achieve). Draw validation from within. Know what you want. Define success for yourself - without being influenced of what men view as “success”.

Have clear boundaries. If you are not assertive then women will exploit you.

🛑No more being stuck in interactions-to-nowhere (e.g. a time-wasting woman is just thirsty for attention and free entertainment)! You’ll know how to use the Womanese language to assess if a woman is a waste of time.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

17 Apr 2024 16:59

Minimize extra, unnecessary words that take up space but communicate nothing. This is similar to the productivity tip of removing unnecessary actions from your life.
• Get rid of filler words such as "umm..." and “uhh”. These words just take up space, but don’t contribute any value. If anything, they remove the impact of what you are saying because they reveal the insecurity that the person you are dealing with will leave you if you pause for too long.
• Kill self-doubt words such as "maybe, probably, I think" that make you sound less confident. You don’t need to say things like “In my opinion” because that’s already apparent. You would be better served by having a dosage of cockiness and speaking as if you are 100% certain that what you are saying is the FINAL TRUTH. This is far sexier to women than a nerd who utilizes words like “in the vast majority of cases, the probability of X occurring is high enough for the notion to be taken seriously. ”Aim for maximum emotional impact; “X is REAL!!!”
• Achieve maximum impact by embellishing the message and dialing it up to be polarizing. A man who is controversial will get far more attention and verbal engagement than a man who is too terrified to break social norms.
• Speak loudly, holding eye contact, with a deep tonality, taking pauses when necessary, and touching the person on the shoulder to emphasize points. If you don’t have strong body language, women won’t take you seriously.
• Develop a confident, loud, dominant, deep tonality. Study politicians who speak with absolute certainty. Women can tell if you are confident just by the way that you talk; a man’s tonality reveals a lot about him.
• Be articulate. Don’t stutter, suddenly drop the ball, or ramble incoherent gibberish. Speak clearly. If people ever have to ask you “What?” Then that’s a strong sign that you aren’t speaking clearly enough (which communicates low self-confidence) and it’s killing the dominant frame that you should be establishing from the very start.
Confident men believe that what they have to say holds tremendous value and therefore they say it in a manner that can be easily heard by others

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

15 Apr 2024 16:59

One way of doing this is to occasionally break social norms (such as screaming, talking to random people who are nearby you, running a prank, or putting on a funny hat like Mystery’s cowboy hat). Breaking social norms (doing something controversial that is anti-conforming) will instantly spike a woman’s emotions. 

Keep in mind that when utilizing this technique of breaking conformity, it’s important to be aware of a woman’s comfort levels. Take her slightly out of her comfort zone to the point where she feels the excitement of being alive, but not the point where she feels so overwhelmed and has panic attacks - ejecting from the situation as a result. Outgoing women have a higher level of endurance than shy women. If you sense that a woman is very anxious then it would be prudent to focus on building her comfort levels (through pacing reality “I know that this is rather odd, and I don’t usually do this, but YOLO (pace, pace, lead)” or basic “nice guy game”) rather than continuing to spike excitement through the roof.

THE PSYCHOPATHIC EDGE

FUCK being a sheep brainwashed by the culture of the times. Think for yourself. While you may look like a sheep to blend in with other sheep, deep down you are a predatory wolf who is extremely aggressive in going after what he wants in life and FUCKS ANYONE WHO GETS IN THE WAY.

BE POLARIZING.

Stating strong polarizing opinions will instantly make you more interesting. To some extent, it doesn't even matter if you speak the truth or not. What matters is that you evoked an emotional response within her, and provoked conversational investment.

Don’t play it safe when you are in conversations with women. Playing it safe is playing it boring. 99/100 of guys say the same safe things that every guy says and that’s what makes them boring. Playing it safe is taking the greatest risk of all: being boring. Instead of playing it safe, take calculated risks in conversation. One way of doing this is to take on a polarizing identity.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's "The Complete PUA Bundle." [3 books in 1]

Click here to get the bundle now [Audiobooks included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

13 Apr 2024 16:59

USE PSYCHOLOGICAL FORCE WHEN NECESSARY

Sometimes a woman will do things for you simply for the sake of of making you happy and giving value; however, if this is not the case then request it.

This is a book about conversation so I’ll use conversation as a metaphor but the same principles that are relevant in conversation skills, also apply to general relationship skills. Here is the principle:

Give value. And then wait for a woman to give value back to you. If she doesn’t then request it - by asking a question.

In conversation, this would manifest itself in the following manner:

A seducer says something that is interesting, entertaining, relevant to the situation, and provides emotional value that uplifts the woman’s spirit.

The woman says something back that also contributes value back because of the principle of reciprocity.

The seducer continues to say something else that is interesting and provides emotional value - thus reinforcing the behavioral pattern of conversation.

The woman says nothing in response creating a brief silence and drops the balls. As the conversation dies, the interaction may also die.

The seducer (sensing that the interaction may die because the woman has nothing of value to say back in response to his response) asks a question and in a way “forces” a woman to respond back. He metaphorically picks up the ball and holds it next to her hands - making it easy to pick it up. A question applies social pressure (or psychological force) for the woman to invest back in to the conversation. After all, in most cultures it is considered rude to ignore a question. In this case, a question was the best possible move for the seducer to play because if he would have continued to make statements then the interaction would turn into a one-sided monologue instead of an interactive dialogue. At the risk of stating the obvious, I’ll mention here that long monologues (that lack positive social feedback from those listening-in) kill interactions because they come off as try-hard. Hence, the goal is to have a woman engaged in a conversation with you and a conversation is a two-way street (dialogue).

The woman responds to the question in an enthusiastic matter (because it’s not a boring question that she has answered a thousand times before).

The seducer responds to her answer by commenting on it in a manner that is interesting, entertaining and provides emotional value. He keeps things fun by spiking her emotions with a bold statement.

The woman returns value by also saying something that is interesting, entertaining and uplifting (implying that she is enjoying the conversation and is happy with the value-exchanges being done).

the cycle repeats itself through numerous rounds

The man makes a higher tier close by stating “Hey, it’s a bit chilly here. Lets grab a coffee down the block” pointing in the distance This is a bit forceful because the man is taking the initiative and leading the interaction towards a greater level of intimacy - instead of waiting for the woman to take charge and make the initiatives.

The woman concurs - thus buying into the behavioral pattern of following the man’s lead

The compliance cycle repeats itself across multiple mediums until a fuck close is achieved, and a sexual relationship is initiated. Even then, game skills are relevant in a 20 year relationship, just like it’s relevant in a 20 second interaction.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

11 Apr 2024 16:59

SUB COMMUNICATION
Don’t always take what a woman says at face value. Don’t always interpret her words literally. There is more than what meets the eye. Learn to see past the shallow surface level, and uncover the deeper truths of the situation. Learn to see past her behaviors, and into the beliefs that drive her behaviors.
What a woman says, and the true meaning of the situation are often polar opposites. Be a stickler for finding the truth of the situation. Don’t be an idiot “Yes Man” agreeing with everything she says just because she has a vagina.
Learning to see the truth behind situations isn’t just relevant to dealing with women. It is relevant to how you approach life in general. Don’t be gullible and believe everything that you hear - just because it comes from someone who is well-spoken, or has a pretty face. Think for yourself.

WHAT IS SUBCOMMUNICATION?
Subcommunication is the implications behind what a woman is saying. For instance: if a woman asks “How many women have you slept with?” The subcommunication is that: she is interested enough in you to shit-test you. She is testing your composure. She is trying to set the frame that she is THE BOSS of the interaction, and it’s your responsibility to answer her directly.
The correct response to a shit test is to agree with the negative and amplify to set the frame that you’re a man who GETS IT and keeps his social power. After all, women are attracted to POWERFUL men - not men who give away their power. Hence, you respond with a cocky and funny line (instead of getting defensive and justifying yourself to her) like: “You mean only today?” OR “Only 34.5.” The key is to always communicate with extreme levels of confidence. Whatever you say, you have to own it 100%.

NOTEWORTHY MAXIM
Deaf men are the best at understanding women because they aren’t distracted by a woman’s words. A woman’s body language will betray her true feelings and intentions, but often men are too busy thinking about the bullshit that came out of her mouth to even notice the signals being sent by her body.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Apr 2024 17:01

What is verbal communication? Why does it matter

Communication is the act of sending the selected ideas that are on your mind and the emotions that are in your heart, to someone else. Likewise, it is the process of receiving the ideas that are on the minds of other people, and accurately reading their emotional state.

Communication is a two-way street. You are constantly sending out and receiving signals from women. 

Womenese is the art of understanding the language of women and being able to read the language of Women. You should have the ability to send out signals (either verbally or non-verbally) in a way that TURNS HER ON and also understand the signals that she sends out to you in a manner that you are able to accurately read her emotional state, intent, and current sexual interest level in you.

The goal of Seductive Communication is to send out Sexy Signals (also known as Attraction Spikes) that amplify attraction and avoid sending out Repulsive Signals (also known as Repulsion Spikes) that decrease attraction. 

E.g. when you casually mention female friends in an entertaining story (where the punchline of the story is something other than the fact that you have female friends), then you’ll have effectively sent out Sexy Signals and spiked attraction. 

In contrast when you talk about how lonely you are, and that you haven’t been on a date in a while then you’ve effectively sent out Repulsive Signals and decreased attraction.

Effective communication is important because it is medium of which connections are formed, value is exchanged, and interpersonal goals are achieved. When you give a lot of value to someone, eventually you become valuable. After value is exchanged in a mutually beneficial connection over a long period of time, sometimes a relationship is formed. For our purposes, this relationship is of a sexual nature. She feeds on your emotions, attention, and physical pleasure. 

Fortunately for her, you’re a man of abundance and you have plenty of that which she desires. You are The Great Prize that she has been born to seek.

Women are value-consumers, and attracted to value givers. By becoming an effective communicator, you’ll be able to generate value from scratch. I repeat: when you have the right communication skills, you’ll be able to create on-command the value that women feed on.

Communication is a medium of giving value.

Fun is a form of value. You can use communication to entertain, and improve the mood of others - achieving a therapeutic effect.

Intrigue is a form of value. You can use communication to teach her fascinating facts about her (cold reading, astrology, palmistry, personality type, etc.) or her favorite subjects (yoga, meditation, spirituality, her ambitions).

DARK COMMUNICATION

Women are naturally manipulative (and are driven to achieve their personal agenda that benefits them directly - as is human nature in general), so often the ideas that are they transmitting to you do not reflect reality.

Some men have been manipulated by a shit-storm of lies for so long that they’ve started to believe these lies as reality. This manipulation tactic used by women is known as Normalization.

Another dark communication tactic used by women, Gaslighting (making a man question his ability to form accurate perspectives of reality) is a tactic that is sometimes implemented by cunning women to take the man a notch down, so he becomes more easy to manipulate.