Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Dec 2023 16:02

Women are disgusted by lost-souls who are going nowhere, have nothing going on, and have a “I don’t give a fuck about anything at all” perspective. You should give a fuck about your personal goals in life and where you are heading in the next 6 months, 1 year and 5 years. If there is nothing that excites you in life then something is terribly wrong and you need to set bigger vision! Set daily, weekly and monthly goals to be aligned with that vision. Remember: you are worth fighting for!!!

Women are like talent scouts. They’re looking to emotionally support a man who has legit potential for greatness. They want to support a man on his life’s journey towards greatness.

Speaking with enthusiasm is part of the larger point of being a man who loves life. If you hate getting out of bed in the morning then this is a sign that you have given up on life, your dreams and living to the fullest. Create a vision that excites you, and then take action everyday to turn that dream into a reality.

LAW #5: DOMINATE COMPLETELY

Bring a woman into your world, more than you are drawn into hers. Even a feminist has an innate desire to submit to a more powerful, dominant man on his life's fiery purpose.

Pussy is not the end goal. Focus on your life’s purpose. Create the conditions where a woman is a help to your life’s purpose - not the purpose of life itself.

Change her mood, and you’ll change her mind.

CHANGE HER MOOD, AND YOU'LL CHANGE HER MIND. WHAT YOU FEEL IS WHAT SHE WILL FEEL. Be in the emotional state that you want a woman to be in; speak from the heart to let the inner positive emotions overflow outwards.

Women act on emotion and then use logic to rationalize everything in post-action analysis. Women act based on how they feel, so a man who can change how a woman feels will change how she acts and views the world.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Conversation Casanova Mastery.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

06 Dec 2023 16:01

How you're killing your chances with women
How you're killing your chances with women...

• You WANT to talk to her like a smooth professional.

• You WANT to be able to seduce her.

But you just don’t know how. The truth is you’re probably making this key “psychological” mistake that 99% of other men make. This key mistake is the difference between having women lining up to sleep with you OR being a desperate virgin until the day you die.

The mistake is assuming that men and women think the same way.

Here are the FACTS:

• A man naturally thinks and talks logically.

• But a woman thinks emotionally.

Here's what that means:

• In a woman's mind, if something "feels just right" then it must be true. A woman's perception of reality is based on feelings. Hence, if you change her mood you'll also change her mind.

• Her behaviors are DRIVEN by her emotions. In fact, a woman will even make life altering mating decisions simply based on how she feels like at the moment.

Being boring is the cardinal sin of dealing with women.

• For example,’’ Do you really think that asking her: ‘’Hey, what are you doing’’ Is exciting in the slightest? Is it interesting? Simple small talk leaves her bored out of her mind.

Logical conversations bore women to death. You’ve failed to get her emotions going and to get her excited to talk to you. You have to learn how to TRIGGER a woman's emotions, so that she becomes emotionally invested in the interaction and ultimately being with you.

See women as they actually are, not as you wish they were.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

04 Dec 2023 16:00

How to Keep Long Term Attraction Ignited?

Do not drop below the standard that attracted her to you in the first place.

Betaization

Many men tend to let themselves go and become less ambitious after they get the girl. They begin to prioritise the girl over everything in their life, even their own purpose. This repels her because women do not want to be your priority, they want the same ambitious, hard working man who they once knew. This is a process called "betaization.”

Betaization is when a man turns into a beta male in a relationship. This happens when he does not understand relationship dynamics and he does not know how to maintain a highly masculine presence and a burning sense of desire in a woman.

This is destroying your chances with women.

Complacency will completely kill your chances with any woman. Even if she is head over heels for you at first, if you stop gaming her and you stop striving to be a top tier man, she will eventually lose attraction to you because you are no longer the man who attracted her in the first place.

THE COLD HARD TRUTH:

MEN are only truly fully admired on the premise that they bring something to the table. Many men stop providing the woman with value like an emotional thrill for example and thus, she loses attraction to the man. You can not afford to let go of your masculinity and game, letting yourself slip, this is why it is key to know how to maintain your masculine presence and game, and know the truth about relationship dynamics so that you never have to face becoming a beta male and losing a woman.

Avoid this mistake at all costs.

Do not drop below the standard that attracted her to you in the first place. Here's why: many men tend to let themselves go and become less ambitious after they get the girl. They also stop flirting with and gaming the girl. This makes the relationship extremely dry because you no longer show attractive traits in her eyes.

Many men also begin to prioritise the girl over everything in their life, even their own purpose. This repels her because women do not want to be your top priority in life. They want the same ambitious, hard working man who they once knew.

Why do these things happen? This is a process called " betaization''. Betaization is when a man turns into a beta male in a relationship. This happens when he does not understand relationship dynamics and he does not know how to maintain a highly masculine presence and a burning sense of desire in a woman.

BE THE SAME TYPE OF ATTRACTIVE MAN THAT SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH IN THE FIRST PLACE. DON’T SUDDENLY STOP GAMING HER THE MOMENT YOU GET HER. GENERATING ATTRACTION IS JUST AS IMPORTANT IN THE FIRST DATE AS IT IS IN THE FIRST DECADE OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

30 Nov 2023 16:02

TRUE DESIRE:
TRUE DESIRE:

A woman who truly desires you will do as you say, whenever you say so. However, women who do not have a burning desire for you will be combative and defiant (they will have an issue with your requests and things you want). Therefore, if you do not have the authority where she wants to please you and serve you then she is not highly attracted to you. You are not even her first choice.

This is the truth, because ultimately, a woman will always try to please the man who she wants the most out of admiration, respect and desire. If your girl is not doing this, dump her.

You may think: ‘’ this is misogynistic’' or, ‘’women are not your slaves’’ And the truth is that these are irrelevant comments because the nature of a female is that when she loves a man, she willingly wants to serve him. She wants to care of him and be a nurturing presence, it’s almost like a warrior going to war and coming back home to his wife to look after him and do things for him. This is called an act of submission. In a relationship, there is a dominant figure who leads it ( ‘’The man’’ ) and a submissive figure , the woman.

The submissive figure listens to the words of the dominant figure as they trust in their leadership and would like to serve them in every way possible, so, I say again: A woman who truly desires you will do as you say, whenever you say so.

If you are with a combative defiant woman, you are with a low value woman or you are low value yourself and aren’t worth being submitted to by a high-value woman yet and therefore you still have work to do.

Knowing how to awaken true desire in women is a skill, that needs mastering.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

28 Nov 2023 16:01

Your woman reflects your own value.


At the end of the day, you attract what you are. 🔑

• If you are with an unattractive woman, or

• you can only get low value women,

it is because you are a low value man. Work on yourself and as you become a better man, you will start to attract better women.

The only reason behind why there are men who complain about:

“there aren't any good women left”, is because there are good women, but they are just not worthy of them.1

There are many good women. They just DON’T become available to you because you’re a fucking loser, so that creates the impression that there are no good women left. Man up! Become a man of success!! And watch yourself drowning in more pussy than you can possibly imagine.

Moral of the story:

• increase your value as a man,

• become a high-value man,

and you will attract good women. They still exist, but only for high-value guys.

For example, how can you complain about ‘“there are no high-value women‘’ when you are: Broke, unfit, living with your parents, you have bad interaction skills with women or you are jobless?

And even worse, many men are all of these things. How can you attract a high-value woman when you yourself are not a high-value man? You must develop a sense of self awareness. This is the first step to becoming a great man with women.

Many of you men need to be taught accountability instead of finger pointing. Gotta slap them with the truth, the hand of Wisdom 👋🏼😂. Also this is a valuable skill in approaching women too. Because when a guy takes accountability he thinks: "What did I do wrong and how can I improve" and often without even professional help, that mindset alone gives him the answer.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

26 Nov 2023 16:01

Should you ignore red flags?

You will never find a perfect woman but there are plenty of women who will completely destroy your life if you ignore their major red flags.

Many men are even aware of a woman's red flags but still ignore them. This is what happens when you are desperate, you settle for less. This is why you need to learn female nature and see through their act. Many women can hide their true selves and you will be oblivious until it's too late!

Stop getting played.

If you are reading this, you are likely familiar with rejection, heart break or disappointment. You have been played, a woman told you that she loved you and that she'd always be there for you, but still she left or even cheated on you, or disappointed you in some Way. This is what happens when you ignore the red flags!

When you see a danger sign, only an ignorant fool proceeds and then, his downfall is inevitable.

This is why you must learn The cryptic language of women, Womanese, so that you never get played again and can see the true meaning behind her words and actions!

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result!"

WARNING: ignoring red flags will result in severe heart break, disappointment and sorrow.

If you see a danger sign, do you carry on Walking? No. So why do you carry on with a woman who has major red flags? You are putting yourself in danger!

This will continue to happen until you can learn to identify the true meaning behind a woman's words and actions in order to never be fooled again.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

24 Nov 2023 16:02

Women often end up wanting the men who are hard to get. This is because those men do not flood them with validation and approval without it being earned. This is why simps never win. Attach value to your attention and show her that she must earn your approval, she will appreciate you more & be less likely to ditch you as you are not desperate.

Masculine men make women prove themselves to be worthy of their time

⚠️Your power lies in your attention ⚠️

If you attach value to your attention, YOU no longer have to endure stressful interactions wondering whether she's really into you again, YOU never have to worry about not getting women ever again. YOU never have to worry about having women who are not head over heels for you ever again. This is because the tables are turned, she is now wondering and worrying, she is the one chasing because she wants YOUR attention.

These are some good ways on how you put value on your attention:

Do not be available 24/7

Do not talk to her 24/7

Do not give her compliments all the time, make her earn it through her actions.

Do not comment on her posts

Do not like her posts more often than you do so. Sometimes not at all.

Do not follow her if she is not following you.

Be a genuinely busy guy working on your life goals. Have priorities above her and your attention will also be more valuable this way.

Have an abundance of options, when a woman knows that you can replace her, she respects your attention more.

Make it clear that you will walk away if she crosses your boundaries, women love men with principles that are strong. This will make her respect your attention more too because simps do not have boundaries , let alone be willing to cut people off who cross them.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Womanese 101.

Click here to read the full book. [Audiobook included]

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

22 Nov 2023 15:00

A common mistake that men with bad game make:

Too many men think they need to put on their ‘’Amazing game" when talking to attractive women.

They do this because they would like to impress them, little do they know that every male is trying so hard to impress those attractive women, subconsciously putting himself at a disadvantage. He is trying to prove his value to her.

You should not care about such things. Talk to attractive women the same way you would to others who you're comfortable with.

They will have a better time with you because too many men walk on eggshells trying to not offend the girl or trying to show her their achievements.

If you are someone who tries extra hard to talk to attractive women, you are putting yourself in a Submissive and inferior position because you are communicating that they are higher value than you and so you need to CHASE and IMPRESS them.. You are chasing her.

Never chase women.

Attractive women have enough men chasing after them already. Just be yourself, joke as you please, don't hide your hobbies. Be authentic.

Women love men who don't try to suck up to them to impress them.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

17 Nov 2023 15:59

Learn how to learn. The most powerful ability a man can develop is the ability to learn new skills FAST.

Further, how you handle yourself in socially and sexually charged situations has implications far beyond just pickup and if you can stick your long stick into a living hole.

• Fundamental game skills (such as approaching, conversation, flirting, closing),

• bold charisma,

• enticing charm,

• fierce courage,

• humble patience,

• passion for a meaningful purpose in life,

• being a visionary,

• possessing self-control,

• emotional state regulation skills (EQ),

• self-inititiave and being proactive (not reactive),

• dominant leadership,

• being a calculated risk-taker and adventurer,

will get you laid with women, but more importantly will get you far in life.

GAME SKILLS aren’t just about getting laid. They are about building your life. Women should be a supplement to your already amazing life - not the purpose of life itself.



FUNAMENTAL V

Pickup artists are able to walk up to anyone, at anyplace, at anytime and strike up a conversation. They are very good at quickly forming social connections. This is a valuable ability to have that has multiple benefits including sex, money, and power.

And starting now: embrace the identity of being a pickup artist. Verbalize these words:

“I am a man who takes what he wants out of life. If I see a twenty dollar bill on the sidewalk, I’ll pick it up because I TAKE WHAT I WANT. If I see a beautiful woman, or anyone that I want to be more intimate with, then I’ll approach and strike up a conversation because I TAKE WHAT I WANT. I am a pickup artist!”



Great! Now that you have verbalized it and know what you want, it is time to learn all of the above skills. It's going to take lots of reading, practice and action, but I promise you, you'll be a changed man after mastering all of it.


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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

15 Nov 2023 15:59

Attraction is not a choice. Attempting to logically negotiate desire is silly. Sexual attraction is merely a primal response to certain external stimulus such as:

• dominance,

• leadership,

• powerful body-language,

• impeccable high status style and elegant fashion,

• leading (display of leadership),

• strong frame (display of leadership),

• flashing elite status,

• flashing wealth,

• vibing,

• touching,

• emotional spiking,

• arousing (a horny woman will lose control),

• “I am the prize to be won” frame,

• social proofing,

• sparking jealousy, and

• general escalation.

In between these tactics is a glue that keeps the interaction alive. Without this glue, the mutual engagement will die and there will be no “time” to implement the aforementioned seduction-tactics.

Conversation is the glue that keeps interactions together. It is what fills the space between the tactics. Conversation is the ultimate meta-skill that makes everything else in the human mating ritual possible. It’s what keeps her around, so that you can play your game.

In contrast, if the conversation dies then the interaction dies. So it’s important to be emotionally engaging enough in conversation to keep women hooked in to interacting with you, and thus “buying you time” to win over mind, heart, and physically escalate on her body. Hence, conversation skills are imperative to learn.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

13 Nov 2023 15:59

You could be dealing with a female narcissist and not even know it!

Awareness is absolutely essential to protecting yourself from common exploitations used by aggressive women. If you thought women were stupid, think again; they often have a cunning agenda. This agenda can be so covert that even the manipulator may not be consciously aware of it. Even a woman's submission is a ruse to make you feel relaxed, let your guard down, and to gain your trust.

Men conquer worlds; women conquer men. Don't underestimate a woman's capacity for bullshitting you, and utilizing covert manipulation tactics for you to do her bidding.

How can you protect yourself from something that you don't even see!!?

Simply being aware of common female manipulation tactics will give you greater levels of immunity against them.

Acute self-awareness = improvement.

When you become acutely conscious of covert manipulation tactics used by women then you'll be able to identify them in real-time when they occur, and STOP BEING AN EASY TARGET SUCKERED INTO THEIR TRAPS.

Here's the truth: Female narcissists use people in the same manner that men use tools. She'll use the tool for all that it's worth and then discard it; cancel culture encourages women in hitting the "NEXT!!!" button and jumping on to a new dick the moment there is some conflict over a silly, petty issue.

When a psychopath is finished milking the cow until it bleeds, she will discard the target into the trash. She doesn't "love you" per se; she only "loves" what she gets out of you, and the idealization that you represent in her mind. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, understand that they are with you for as long as they keep getting something out of you. The moment the value ceases to be available then they will disappear. Their "affection" is conditional.

Female narcissists brainwash men into being servants, and these guys fall for it because:

• (1) they are desperate for some pussy,

• (2) they lack other options,

• (3) they don't have the game to generate new options,

• (4) they fail to recognize their tremendous potential, and

• (5) they have been brainwashed by society to pedestalize women with "the woman is always right" bullshit.

Getting into a sexual relationship with a beautiful woman at all costs - including selling out your soul - is not a "win". Don't sell out your life purpose and life goals just because you want some sex, and want the empty-ego-validation status of "lay+1" or "in a relationship". Making important life decisions with emotions and thinking with a dick has ruined the lives of many men.

BE A MAN ON YOUR LIFE PURPOSE. Have an amazing life. A woman is just a supplement to that. PUT YOURSELF FIRST. Never compromise your life purpose or peace of mind for the sake of pussy; you'll lose self-respect, and she'll (unconsciously or consciously) lose respect for you too.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's "The Complete PUA Bundle." [3 books in 1]

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

11 Nov 2023 15:32

When talking to a woman, make what you are saying RELEVANT to the core values that she believes in, and the core topics that she is interested in. Always relate it back to these things.

Talking from a position of situational relevance will ensure that your communications are SMOOTH and not weird. Be a wolf dressed in sheep clothing. Whatever you say to a woman, relate it back to what is emotionally valuable to her because a woman is always listening to the “What’s in it for me?” Channel.

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"Why do I need to learn to speak Womanese in order to understand Women? Why don't women just say what they mean and what they say? Why don't women just articulate clearly in their mind - instead of playing games?"

Reason #1: Women can very inarticulate. Even if a woman WANTS to accurately explain her perspectives she may be unable to do so because she is not good at putting her thoughts into words. Put simply: women suck at communicating effectively and instead just leave hints about what's on their mind.

Reason #2: Women will go to far lengths to avoid feeling socially awkward - even blatantly lying to your face. Women are physically more fragile than men and thus, since the caveman era: have used their social skills (instead of direct aggression) to gain power and exert influence. In other words, women will prefer to avoid awkward social confrontation if possible, and will use white lies to bend the truth to help them avoid these social confrontations. To a narcissistic female liar, lying is a way of life; the truth is simply a matter of how she feels like at that exact moment in time. A narcissistic female liar doesn't even feel guilty for lying because how desensitized she is to it; nor, would she even admit that her white lies are lies in the first place.

Reason #3: Women are not good at deciphering the truth themselves. A woman's strong emotions makes her susceptible to self-denial and self-deception. A woman is not in touch with the deeper side of her nature, and thus she can't say the truth even to herself. This is why asking women for dating advice is not prudent; her own intense emotional bias prevents her from assessing the situation in a clear light.

Reason #4: Certain dark truths are too ego-damaging, stigmatized and humiliating for a woman to confess to, so she'll lie to cover it up. The classic example of this is a woman's desire for sex. Women really do enjoy sex and crave it; however, they can't verbalize this explicitly because society (and religious men will judge them for it). If a woman is 18 and comes from a traditional family with spiritual values, she might be shamed by her social circle for engaging in "sinful lust". She doesn't want to feel slutty because the guilt is painful. So a woman with a traditional background will either deny her lust for men (even from herself and even if she engages in sex), or she will admit this lust for men for herself but will hide it from others - even as going as far saying that she is a "virgin". Women will easily bend the truth intentionally if they think it makes them look better; this is a woman's words can't be trusted and a man is forced to use tests/look for other indicators to ascertain the truth of the situation.

Understand that ultimately it doesn't matter what a woman really meant to say. What matters is TRUTH OF THE SITUATION. A woman meant to say something that would only have shed light to the truth of the situation, but not explained it entirely; its up to your detection skills to be able to use to clues to put together a puzzle piece that shows an accurate map of the reality.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

09 Nov 2023 15:59

If you don’t believe that what you have to say is important and valuable then that idea (that your words are worthless) will spread like wildfire to others. Other people can read your mentalities through subtle cues in your body language, behaviors, and speech patterns because the truth always shines through. They will likewise think that what you have to say holds no value and you will be ignored. Take a brick and metaphorically smash your head against it because you might as well be doing that if you hold the belief that what you have to say is not valuable. This is one of the greatest sins of conversation.

Your beliefs about yourself and what you have to say are sent through subtle cues in your body language and transferred over to a woman’s unconsious mind, impacting her behavior and feedback towards you. A man with low self-esteem often gets treated poorly by women (who friendzone him and/or refuse to take him seriously). This serves to simply reinforce his low self-esteem and reinforces women’s negative reaction towards him (which only further reinforces his low self-esteem). What may look like a simple conversation between two people is actually two different unconsious minds communicating with each other. You are signaling information about yourself, without even being aware of it.

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it that matters most.

LISTEN TO MY DEAR SON WHO I CARE ABOUT DEEPLY. If you learn anything from me, then let it be this. It’s not what you say, but how you say it. Always speak with intense conviction and confidence in your words. For every word that comes out of your mouth, own it 100%. Have intense belief in yourself. When dealing with women, always exude extreme extreme extreme confidence, NEVER self-doubt or insecurities. Women are very unforgiving when it comes to seeing weakness in men. You must be a symbol of strength. You are an unmoving mountain in the face of shit-tests. Conversation is a simply a way to convey personality.


KEY CONCEPT #1: Always speak with extreme confidence. Always speak with intense conviction that what you have to say holds tremendous value.

KEY CONCEPT #2: Don’t talk like a dying old man in a nursing home. Add some fucking energy to your words!!!! Show some vitality. Some of you need to be punched in the face with my bloody fist, so you will WAKE THE FUCK UP SON!!!!!

KEY CONCEPT #3: Don’t talk like you’re an RTX-3090 TI RGB Terminator ai robot from the future. You are a human being talking to other human beings. human beings are emotional creatures. add some fucking emotion to words, you cunt!!

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Nov 2023 15:59

When entering into conversations with women, know what it is that you want?

Is it information?

Do you want to fuck her?

Do you want a long term relationship?

Do you want to use her to meet her friends?

Are you bored and just want to entertain yourself?

The best way to get what you want is to be clear about what it is in the first place. Goal setting is not a subject that is taught in college but it is paramount. You get what you want out of women based on what you believe you deserve and based on what you articulate. If you think that you’re unworthy of a particular pussy then that pussy will be locked to you - like the vault of a bank. She will sense that you don’t believe in yourself and she will be massively turned off. Her pussy will dry up and legs will be sealed shut. In contrast, if you believe that you’re worthy then she will also sense that (ideas are contagious - especially the idea of who you are - aka self-identity). You have to believe that you are worthy of her, and visualize a successful interaction before it even occurs.

Likewise in conversations with women, you have to know what you are trying to achieve, and visualize it clearly in your mind. See it in your mind’s motherfucker. Then think about how you’re going to accomplish that vision. Execute. After executing, think back “What could I learn from that experience? How can I take what I learn form that experience, build upon it, and use that knowledge to further improve as a person?”

Conversation is a skill. Like any other skill in this world, the way that you get better is through mindful practice that is goal oriented. Know what you are aiming to accomplish with a specific conversation and keep that intention in mind. It can be as mundane as “I aim to accomplish shifting her emotional state to one that is intense and euphoric”or as more dramatic as “I am to solidify my relationship with her by discussing exclusivity”.

Conversation is a skill that necessitates mindfulness to improve upon. The correct term is “small chunking”. Work on a specific aspect of conversation at a time - rather than focusing on several aspects of conversation at a time. The human mind is wired to be more efficient and effective when it is focusing on a single mission - rather than juggling several missions at the same time.

Be willing to get the fuck outside of your comfort zone in conversations with women. Playing it safe is being average and being average is being boring. It is better to take calculated risks with women and be daringly bold. A man with little courage is a man with tiny balls.

Conversation is a give and take between two people. You say something. She says something. You respond to what she said. She responds to your response. You respond to her response of your response. She responds to your response of her response to your initial response. And so on…There is a constant back and forth that is happening.

This is where calibration comes into play. It is unwise to play the game with a blindfold on, and utilize the same cookie-cutter strategy when dealing with everyone. Always be reading a woman’s feedback to your moves and calibrate accordingly. No, this isn’t called being emotionally reactive; it’s called common-sense.

To read a woman’s feedback to you then you have to be psychologically present in the moment. This means that you aren’t pondering about the past, or contemplating the future. Nor, are you thinking abstract thoughts in your mind. When in conversations with women, focus on what is happening right in front of you. Take your mind out from deep inside your head and bring it to what is happening in there here and now. Mentally speaking, be with her now. This will give you incredible charisma.

Summary:

Conversation is a medium to an end - not an end into itself.

One end that conversation accomplishes is to generate attraction by displaying your attractive personality.

Be very clear and specific about what you want.

Visualize what you want coming true.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

06 Nov 2023 15:59

Attraction is NOT a choice.

Attraction is a biological uncontrollable response women feel towards men that know how to trigger it by playing on a woman’s emotions.

I see that many guys are lost when it comes to meeting women for the first time. They don't know what to say to break the ice when approaching a girl, let alone flirt in a way that sparks mutual attraction. So today, I wanted to talk about a certain flirting technique that, when done correctly, TRIGGERS a woman’s PRIMAL ATTRACTION MECHANISMS and yields massive results.

This flirting technique is called "push and pull" (also known as “push her away and then pull her in”). Push/pull drives women WILD because it target’s a woman’s ego, and takes her through an intense emotional journey.

Push/pull works based on these fundamental truisms about women:

KEY CONCEPT #1: Women desire what they can’t have.

KEY CONCEPT #2: Sometimes pushing her away will make her want you twice as much.

KEY CONCEPT #3: You can’t play hard to get if you’re hard to want. First build rapport; then break rapport. Attraction happens when you break rapport.

Push/pull is when you express both interest and disinterest in the target at relatively the same time. It’s the cycle between building rapport and then breaking rapport with playful teasing.

Let's say you were hanging out with this girl you were interested in, and she says something that you could object to. An example of using "push and pull" could be to say this in a playful tone:

“You’re trouble.”

"Wow, I really liked you until you said that."

“You’re too much of a nice girl for me.”

“I can already tell. You and I are never going to get along.”

If you never push her away at all (aka you never show disinterest in her) then you’re a guy who is too easy. Women question the status of men that are too easy.

Women appreciate challenge; they want to earn a man’s approval - not have it handed to them on a silver platter. It’s within her nature to desire to win you over, so be hard to get. Hence, challenging a woman baits her to work hard to win you over. The more she fights and invests to win your approval, the more she will value you once she gets it.

Women question the worth of a man who is:

immediately always available,

always says “yes”,

gives away full validation immediately,

has no personal boundaries,

has no standards, and

gives away his heart too quickly.

On the other side of the extreme, if you push a woman too much then her ego might kick in and she might start verbally attacking you before finally leaving. That’s where push/pull comes into play. You can push a woman harder, if you know you’re going to pull her in immediately afterwards - before her ego kicks in. Further, the delivery is done in a playful manner, so she intuitively grasps that you’re flirting with her and doesn’t take it too seriously.

Likewise, if you pull her in too much (by showing too much interest with tons of specific compliments and statements of intent) then the woman may question your worth and feel uncomfortable. Desperation and neediness are incredibly unattractive to women; in fact, they are repulsive. Balance out high levels of interest by showing disinterest by following up with a push-away “too bad you’re such a dork”.

Click Here to Learn THE GAME of Approaching, Flirting & Dating Women

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

07 Dec 2023 16:01

THE PLEASURE PRINCIPLE: Create Desire and Leave women wanting more.
THE PLEASURE PRINCIPLE: Create Desire and Leave women wanting more.

LAW #2: Women do what feels good. Create desire by leaving a woman wanting more.

Technique #2: End on a high note.

When you sense a conversation is coming to an end, you be the one to end it properly first. Say something to spike her excitement and then end the interaction abruptly. This will leave her wanting you more and create artificial scarcity. This is vastly preferable to letting conversations fizzle out, die and then you eject the interaction as a result.

TV shows do this all time; they end the episode on a cliff-hanger (especially on the most interesting part of the story/plot climax) to keep you hooked on waiting for the next episode to find out more.

All conversations will come to their natural conclusion. This is the way of the world; nothing is permanent. Take control of this. YOU be the one to end it first (subtly rejecting her) and end it on a high point. When you sense that the conversation is coming to its organic end, be the one to end it before she does. Ironically rejecting her a bit (sometimes playfully, and sometimes seriously) makes her want you even more!

Pushing a woman away, at the right moment, makes her want you TWICE AS MUCH. This is one of those times. By being the one to end the interaction, instead of having her end the interaction - you create this “push away” that leaves her wanting more.

Women think that they want social power, but the moment they get it: they lose respect and attraction for the man that they are dealing with. Hence, as an Alpha Male it is imperative that you seize social power for yourself by framing yourself as the prize and sustaining that frame throughout the interaction.

An Alpha Male has important life goals to attend to and a dream to chase; he has places to be, things to do, and people to meet. Hence, he increases his perceived worth through a perception of scarcity by limiting the time that women have with him. A woman will value a man who is busy (yet still makes time for her) than a man who is always instantly available without limitations. Create perceived scarcity.

Women expect a man of high status have standards, to have things going on his life, and to be unavailable at times. It is not “weird” to hang up on a beautiful woman because you have more important shit to handle.

YOU ARE A PRIZE TO BE WON. YOU ARE A 10, SO FUCKING ACT LIKE IT. YOU ARE THE MAN THAT SHE HAS BEEN DREAMING ABOUT SINCE HER CHILDHOOD.

Further, keeping control of the social interaction in general is paramount. If you allow a woman to control the interaction, it may not lead to sex because she may not have sex on the agenda. She may even self-sabotage the interaction and lead you to the friend zone. Hence, ending on a high note is part of the general theme of leading a woman towards sex and being an Alpha Male who takes control of situations. By taking control of the interaction and guiding it towards sex then you use skill to get laid - rather than relying on luck or hope.

FUCK relying on chance. FUCK waiting for opportunity. CREATE opportunity by taking charge of life and leading people towards mutually beneficial connections.

• YOU be the one to end the conversation first.

• END the conversation on a high-note - not when it fizzles out to death

• Be in control of the interaction from the start.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

05 Dec 2023 16:02

Alternate between cycles of pushing her away AND pulling her in to drive her wild with attraction for you. This method of flirting will help you exude the confidence and mannerisms of an alpha male.

Why does it work?

REASON #1: The “push” factor of this technique works very well in preventing the aura of desperation or neediness from ever rearing its ugly head. This shows the girl that you’re not afraid of possibly losing her or offending her, which both takes her down from the pedestal she may think she’s on as well as molding the frame around you as the alpha that isn’t afraid to speak his mind.

REASON #2: As well as this, it also shows her that you can afford to lose her because YOU HAVE OPTIONS. If you “push” her away, you run the risk of offending her, but this will cause her to think: “Why is this guy not afraid of offending me when all the other guys are? He must have other girls he can get with because he’s not afraid of losing me!” She’ll see that you have options, and will be much more attracted to you as a result.

REASON #3: You’ll become distinctly different from the dozens of other guys that are trying to get her attention through gifts, treats or free meals or any monetary form of transaction. These guys worship women because they fail to understand a key concept in female psychology: if you treat her like she’s superior, she’ll view you as inferior.

REASON #4: While the “push” part of this method is important, it’s also important that you do not push her so far away that she no longer feels like she has any chance with you. This is the beauty of this method. By following up with a pull-in, it allows you to exude that strong, bold aura of a guy with options while also not repulsing her with complete disinterest. It is the best of both worlds.

REASON #5: It taps into her ego. By teasing her about her eccentric dorky tendencies, she becomes emotionally engaged in interacting with you.

This flirting method can be hard to pull off for men who are used to only communicating with women on a logical level, and without practice, you can end up completely butchering its execution whenever you try to use it. To get good with it, treat it like a martial art. Practice it religiously, even if you don’t want to.

• Be willing to go outside your comfort zone and get uncomfortable implementing new flirting techniques so that you improve in your skills of attracting women.

• When you fall, you must get back up and figure out why you fell down in the first place.

This method of “push and pull” should not be your crutch, rather an important tool among many other tools that you should be using. You should diversify the methods that you use to create more authentic and genuine social interactions with women, which will then create massive returns for you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

02 Dec 2023 16:01

Abundance is key. Women want men who other women want.

This is because it is a sign of social proof as only high-value men have options open to them. It shows that she is not fighting for a place that nobody else wants and that you are indeed a capable man. If nobody wants you, it is a warning sign that you are low value. This is why men take offence when other men say: ‘“you have no hoes’’, because on an instinctual level, men know that having options is vital to your dating success. This is because women want the best man possible for provisioning purposes and to take care of them, and the best man is being chased by other women.

This is actually a psychological trait in humans. Everyone knows that the guy who has NO options is a low value man. Therefore having women is a symbol of being high-value because: what is in high demand is often valuable.

For example, who would a woman rather date?

• A guy who is broke, skinny/fat, and is lazy or…

• A guy who is financially independent, has amazing social skills, he is in good shape and he has other women chasing after him?

Obviously the second one because anyone knows that he is more desirable because of his possessions and characteristics. On Top of that, The very fact that he is chased by other women is proof that there is a good reason behind why that is happening. In this case that good reason is his amazing character, his masculine strong physique and his wealth.

Women want men that other women want.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

29 Nov 2023 16:02

There are two types of men.

Men who accept reality for what it is (redpill) and,

Men who reject it to believe in a false or comforting ideology (bluepill).

The very fact that you are reading this indicates to me that you are of the red pill type, which is the type of man who acknowledges reality for what it is. But what is the blue pill?

The blue pill is a belief system where men believe in a false and comforting ideology, for example, instead of believing that women do indeed prefer a man with resources they would rather believe that money does not matter because they are too lazy to become a top tier man and accept reality. Blue pill men are therefore cowards as they turn a blind eye to reality.

Blue pilled men often tend to be bitter, because it is easy to blame women for your shortcomings instead of becoming a high-value man.

The blue pill man:

You will find him believing that women are evil and that they aren't worthwhile. He denies female nature and thinks there is no hope. Whilst the man who accepts reality (the red pill) will always win. He does not get bitter at how women truly are but instead he accepts true female nature and learns how to use it to benefit from it.

Why are there Bitter men?...... 💭

The truth is, it's hard to accept female nature. It's hard to accept the fact that unconditional love is a lie. It's hard to accept the fact that there are high standards to be with high-value women.This is why most men would rather shame women and say women are trash and that there's no good women.

It's easier to blame women than it is to become a high-value man who is worthy of high-value women and to accept the harsh realities of female nature.

This is why bitter men exist. Do you understand?

Are you red pill, or blue pill?

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

27 Nov 2023 16:02

You have 0 excuses to be unattractive.

Unattractive men do not truly exist. All that exists is men with excuses to not better themselves.

You’re fat? Lose weight

You’re skinny? Lift weights

You can’t afford it? Make more money.

Being lucky is a choice. Being average is a choice.

Anyone who denies this, is someone making excuses to be a lazy human being to avoid putting the work in. If you really wanted change, you wouldn't be able to sleep properly being average.

The amazing thing about being a man is that you don't have to be beautiful or handsome to be a high-value man but it does help, do not neglect it, but my point is this:

As a woman, your value is highly dependent on how you look because men are very visually stimulated. They love beautiful women. I'm sure you know the feeling.

But as a man, you can be average looking or even unattractive, but if you have good social skills, and you are powerful, and you are scary and you have good status, and you have resources, then, women will find you attractive because you are a hard worker, you are a man of status, this is key to understand because men and women aren't looking for the same things in a relationship.

This is why unattractive yet rich and well known men who have good social skills can be with women who are models, it's because their attraction does not lie in their looks. This is a harsh red pill to accept. But this is how reality works. You must understand that women, primarily, are driven by

#1. emotions…. and

#2. what you can do for them, because they are the weaker sex, and so they are reliant on us.

This is why you have no excuse to be unattractive, because as a man, your attraction is based LARGELY on things that you CAN control, such as how much money you make, how you talk to women and seduce them, your persona and your status.

On Top of this, you have the ability to physically transform yourself by hitting the gym, by doing a combat sport, you have the ability to craft a beautiful physique. You have the ability to level up your style.

There is no reason to ever be unattractive as a man, it is all a choice. Only lazy men with no self awareness are unattractive.

Bonus Tip, quick hacks on How to be more attractive:

Strong eye contact (dominance)

Square up and face her when talking to her.

Walk with a smooth controlled rhythm,

Chest out, shoulders back.

Don't over compliment her. Make her work for it. Use her name more often when talking to her.

How you carry yourself is key. Remember it

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

25 Nov 2023 16:01

The mouse dies a slow and painful death in the trap because it doesn't understand why the cheese is free….

This Message isn't about cheese...

Stop watching porn, it heavily messes up your perception of women. It makes you appreciate them less, you start to develop approach anxiety because you're so used to watching naked women have sex. You can no longer act like a normal human being when you consume porn.

Important notice :

PORN IS ARTIFICIAL HAPPINESS.

PORN ISN'T REAL SEX.

JUST LIKE DRUGS, IT TRICKS THE BRAIN. IT MAKES IT THINK THAT IT'S GETTING SEX WHICH STOPS YOU FROM GOING AND BECOMING A MAN WORTHY OF IT WHILE YOU WATCH OTHER MEN DO WHAT YOU WISH TO DO.

IT'S THE EASY ROUTE TO A DOPAMINE SPIKE. IT'S FREE FOR A REASON.

CONSUME IT AND IT WILL DESTROY YOU!

Understand this:

You watch porn. You're so addicted that you even have your favourite actresses. Little do you know that you pay for this with your soul.

Degenerates defend porn because they're addicted to watching random people have sex. They think it's harmless, but nothing good ever came for free. Imagine watching yourself from above, beating it away alone, in a dark room to strangers whilst being Unable to attract beautiful women in reality, Pathetic.

Furthermore, cross-sectional surveys have found that pornography use is related to reports of more negative effects, poor mental health and lower quality of life among adults as well as lower life-satisfaction and selfesteem, and more symptoms of depression among adolescents. Think about it.

Don't get caught in the trap of PORNOGRAPHY. Do you think high-value men are sitting around watching porn? Why would they? They can attract beautiful women in real life. PORNOGRAPHY is for Losers and bottom of the barrel men and so is masturbation. Slaves to their urges ENDULGE in this behavior.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

23 Nov 2023 16:01

The best women to date are not sitting around waiting to go 50/50 with broke boys in living expenses. They are seeking high-value men who can provide for them and in return, they submit to you entirely. And so if you are broke, don't expect to attract extremely beautiful and the "Wife material" type of women. These women are worthy of and seek high-value men who strive for greatness, not broke boys.

You can Either be a b**ch & complain about women not wanting you as they're gold diggers for wanting a man who can provide for them, OR, you can stop making excuses and find ways to become successful so that you too can attract high-value women into your life and fulfil your role as a provider as a man,because ultimately, only low value men make excuses.

But always remember, money alone isn't enough, but it is crucial. Always work on all pillars of your life.

These are the 5 main key pillars to work on:

Your finances

Your physique

Your game with women

Your knowledge on female nature

Your social skills

This is for the guys feeling unfulfilled:

You complain and you feel unhappy with where you are in life and with the women who you get, if any, yet you "Chill" and party on weekends and often mindlessly scroll through social media.

You reject relentless self development and putting in the work. You deserve to be where you are.

A man who truly wishes for change will not continue with life destructive habits, otherwise, he doesn't truly wish for Change. But the fact that you are reading this is good, because it shows that you have identified the need to change and put the hard work in to prosper. That is the first step in the right direction. This book is a good tool to guide you and bring you closer to conquering two of the five pillars: ‘’Your game and knowledge about women and female nature. ’’

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

21 Nov 2023 16:01

When in conversation with a woman, reveal the FULL FORCE OF YOUR PERSONALITY. Enter interactions with fierce boldness, and this alone will captivate women.

Basic Conversation Level 1 Formula:

STEP 1: Make an observation, provoking statement, or ask a question.

STEP 2: Listen to her response, where she reveals personal information about herself.

STEP 3: Self-disclose personal information about yourself that is relatable to what she has just said, and is relatable to subjects that she values.

STEP 4: Repeat.

Basic Conversation Level 2 Formula:

Listen.

Identify her emotional state and understand what is being said.

Paraphrase what said in your own words; reveal empathy to her emotions.

Add insight.

Relate something from your own life that is relevant to what was just discussed.

What to talk about after the opener:

An observation about her,

Commentary about the situation (aka mutually shared reality),

Commentary about the conversation (aka going meta),

Something “crazy” that just happened to you that you can’t wait to share with someone

5 Mindsets to not run out of things to say:

Free association,

Say whatever POPS into your mind,

Talk about what you're PASSIONATE about,

Talk about what you have a lot of KNOWLEDGE in,

Comment about the situation, conversation, her, what she is saying, or the people around you (people watching),

When she talks, listen attentively and when she finishes then share your opinion on it without any social inhibitions. Don’t be afraid to disagree with her perspective; in fact, this alone can spark an interesting conversation.

The practical application of these formulas is discussed in Conversation Casanova Mastery.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

16 Nov 2023 18:59

Most guys however violate the cardinal sin of being a conversationalist and that is being a boring ass motherfucker. The cardinal sin of the seduction game is being boring. Newsflash: if you’re a basic ass bitch then you’re boring. Develop aspects of yourself that are unique, different and help you stand out from the hordes of other men.

You become boring by three different ways:

• You talk about shit that no one cares about - you mundane motherfucker!

• You talk about shit people care about, but you don’t have anything new to offer that they don’t already know. You lack the crucial quality called INSIGHT.

• You talk about shit people care about, but you don’t inject emotion and energy into your words so it comes across as incredibly boring. You’re too low energy and too robotic, fucking cunt.


Don’t mistakenly assume that just because you’re really interested in a particular subject matter then others will be interested in that subject matter, as well. People think differently than you, and are inherently different than you. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. One man’s gold-digging bitch is another man’s wife. One man’s fascination is another man’s painful-to-listen-to spew of boredom.

The monotone delivery style is something that is painful to women as positioning your hand against a chalkboard and pulling down your nails against that chalkboard.1 Use variety when you speak. Vary your energy level, pitch, pace, and volume. This variety keeps people on their toes. Listen, son; would you watch a predictable TV show for seasons on end? Nope! What keeps a show interesting is its unpredictable nature and sense of variety.

Further, inject emotion into your words. Mean what you say, and say what you mean. By bringing in a lot of emotion into your sentences, you’re allowing others to live vicariously through you. Their lives may be boring as fuck, but your personal narrative is what allows them to escape into your world and feel that sense of relaxing escapism. Be that escape. Have interesting and exciting stories from your life that are ready-to-share in your toolkit. Don’t underestimate the power of story-telling to captivate.

Ideally the best narratives and stories to tell women are ones that have just recently happened to you. However, even if something has happened to you a while ago then you can still use that as conversational material. In fact, whenever you use a line, series of lines, or story in the field that has actually worked in getting women to be interested in you/engaged then remember that cocaine shit. Keep that cocaine shit as ammunition for your conversation rocket launcher.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

14 Nov 2023 15:59

Always be a few steps ahead.

Womenese is the ability to understand female communication on a deep level, and being able to effectively communicate in a manner that is understood by females. Put simply: Womense is the art of being able to decode, and encode Female OS. When you can speak Womense fluently then you'll have ample insight into how a woman operates, and you'll able to predict her moves several moves in advance; when you know ahead of time how a woman will behave, you'll be able to have calculated moves ahead of time that preemptively disarm her. ALWAYS BE AT LEAST ONE STEP AHEAD OF HER.

And if you're really skilled at the game, you're several moves ahead of her - yet you come across as unscripted and in the present moment. No matter what a woman says, or does, you would have already anticipated it and have a prepared a counter-response.

One of the key strategies to effective game is to create a system designed to get you laid and sticking to that system every single day. By doing the same key behaviors over and over, you’ll eventually get mastery over them. After all, repetition is the mother of skill.

• For instance, if you just have one opening line to start conversations with women and you focus on one area of meeting women then eventually you’ll master both of them. You’ll know the natural follow-ups that occur from that opening line. You’ll know the nooks and crannies of that specific location (including the best specific times that women come out).

• In contrast, if you do something new each time then you won’t actually master any thing. It’s like someone who “trains” by trying 1 new instrument every week; the jack of all trades is the master of none, and it is mastery that gets you sexual results. Stick to one game-plan until it succeeds.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

12 Nov 2023 15:59

Law #93: Fuck or bounce.

Change her mind, change her experience.

HOW SHE SEES THE WORLD IS HOW SHE WILL EXPERIENCE IT. A positive outlook leads to a positive emotional experience. Hence, it is helpful to be positive when dealing with women to encourage them to focus on what’s about good in life, and to experience the good emotions that comes from gratitude.

FUCK, OR BOUNCE. Don’t be the friend.

NEWSFLASH: If you are knee-deep in the friend-zone with a particular woman then you're giving away the relationship benefits of being with you for free. You are giving away the best parts of yourself FOR FREE. It's much smarter to have a "cost" of being with you, and that "cost" is that women within your inner-circle need to "pay" is sexual access to their bodies - as well as an acceptance of specific frames that are conducive to that sex continuing to occur. These frames include accepting you as "THE AUTHORITY" in the dynamic between you and her, accepting your role as the leader who makes decisions for the both of you, and accepting you as THE PRIZE.

She "takes one for the team" by submitting to overtly sexual frames that you set up, and blatant physical advances - even if she isn't in the mood for sex right now. That being said, if you're good at touching a woman's body in specific areas (and using a correct sequence of motions), then she will WANT to have sex with you; she will become physically addicted to you, hooked on the chemicals released in her brain that come with your physical touch, and the pleasurable habits will overtake her. Women WANT TO HAVE SEX - just not with fucking socially-inept losers living in their mom's basement playing video-games all day long lacking in any cool hobbies/passions. BE THE APEX ALPHA WARRIOR.

It's essential for you to understand that YOUR TIME IS WORTH REAL MONEY. Your psychological energy is WORTH REAL MONEY. Are you giving it away FOR FREE to a woman who won't even reciprocate by allowing sexual advances to occur, and to allow the interaction progress at a reasonable pace towards sex? Well STOP.

A high status man wouldn't waste his time on bullshit, and women intuitively know this. They quickly lose respect for a man who puts up with bullshit.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

10 Nov 2023 15:59

Communicate more with less words.

Appear to be effortless and "mindless" - even if you're executing a well thought-out plan. Being spontaneous is disarming to women and puts them at ease. Women will often discuss sex as occurring in a manner that "just happened". A woman wants to "be swept in the moment" and fall into an enjoyable experience where "one thing led to another" ending in sexual pleasure. MEN JUST WANT THE END RESULT; women enjoy the process. While you're ready to fuck within minutes, a woman will want to be taken through an emotional rollercoaster ride that accumulates in sexual intimacy. Foreplay isn't just physical, but emotional, logistical and verbal.

He who tries hard, dies hard. Even if you’re putting in a lot of effort into the interaction, appear to be effortless - like you’re just going with the flow and riding the emotional waves.

Womenese is an art form. Take a moment to think about how you talk to girls.

• Do you always say what is expected of you?

• Are you speech patterns predictable?

• Do you say that which is safe?

• Are your conversations nice?

• Are you overly concerned with making women feel comfortable?

If you answered yes to 4/6+ more of these questions then you have a fucking problem, and that is that you're boring as fuck. If you learn anything from this book then let it be this incredibly important Womense concept: say more with less words.

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Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

08 Nov 2023 15:59

Verbalize that goal before entering into interactions and keep that intention in mind throughout the interaction.

When dealing with women, EXUDE EXTREME CONFIDENCE and take calculated risks. Playing it safe is playing it boring.

Don’t play the game blindly and use cookie-cutter strategies for all the women you meet. Be present in the moment and read a woman’s responses to your game; then calibrate accordingly.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

07 Nov 2023 15:59

Alternate between cycles of pushing her away AND pulling her in to drive her wild with attraction for you. This method of flirting will help you exude the confidence and mannerisms of an alpha male.

Why does it work?

REASON #1: The “push” factor of this technique works very well in preventing the aura of desperation or neediness from ever rearing its ugly head. This shows the girl that you’re not afraid of possibly losing her or offending her, which both takes her down from the pedestal she may think she’s on as well as molding the frame around you as the alpha that isn’t afraid to speak his mind.

REASON #2: As well as this, it also shows her that you can afford to lose her because YOU HAVE OPTIONS. If you “push” her away, you run the risk of offending her, but this will cause her to think: “Why is this guy not afraid of offending me when all the other guys are? He must have other girls he can get with because he’s not afraid of losing me!” She’ll see that you have options, and will be much more attracted to you as a result.

REASON #3: You’ll become distinctly different from the dozens of other guys that are trying to get her attention through gifts, treats or free meals or any monetary form of transaction. These guys worship women because they fail to understand a key concept in female psychology: if you treat her like she’s superior, she’ll view you as inferior.

REASON #4: While the “push” part of this method is important, it’s also important that you do not push her so far away that she no longer feels like she has any chance with you. This is the beauty of this method. By following up with a pull-in, it allows you to exude that strong, bold aura of a guy with options while also not repulsing her with complete disinterest. It is the best of both worlds.

REASON #5: It taps into her ego. By teasing her about her eccentric dorky tendencies, she becomes emotionally engaged in interacting with you.


This flirting method can be hard to pull off for men who are used to only communicating with women on a logical level, and without practice, you can end up completely butchering its execution whenever you try to use it. To get good with it, treat it like a martial art. Practice it religiously, even if you don’t want to.

• Be willing to go outside your comfort zone and get uncomfortable implementing new flirting techniques so that you improve in your skills of attracting women.

• When you fall, you must get back up and figure out why you fell down in the first place.

This method of “push and pull” should not be your crutch, rather an important tool among many other tools that you should be using. You should diversify the methods that you use to create more authentic and genuine social interactions with women, which will then create massive returns for you.

Wingman Daily by Cory Smith

04 Nov 2023 15:59

If a woman gives you bullshit like:

#1) one worded text replies,

#2) significant long delays when texting you back (even when you text her back right away),

#3) doesn't put in significant effort in conversation with you,

#4) glances away when talking with you,

#5) doesn’t hold eye-contact while talking with you,

#6) seems easily distracted when interacting with you,

#7) has a much higher tonality pitch when talking to others,

#8) spends excessive time on her phone when she is with you,

#9) is in a relationship with you, but also posts semi-clad photos on IG, texts a lot of male “friends”, and has Tinder on her phone,

#10) is using you as a texting penpal but won’t get on a video-call and won’t meet up in real life,

#11) is only interested in spending time with you when you go on fancy expensive dates and doesn’t enjoy basic one-on-one time with you in a simple “free date” (like a date at Washington Square Park)

#12) keeps digging for info in regards to how wealthy you are (by asking things like “Do you live in a house?”)

then she is NOT that into you.

Time spent with you is based on what she can get from you, but not because she is actually into your personalty per se. She views you as “he is only good for his money” or “he is only goof for that one thing I can get from him”.

Don't take it personally. Just cut your losses and move on to another lead; don’t throw more good money after bad money. Don’t fall into the Sunk Cost Fallacy of continuing to invest into a losing hand, and continuing to dig a deeper hole. JUST WALK AWAY.

The best way to get over a former lover is to get a better lover, and focus on your personal development. When you find yourself thinking about a former lover, just acknowledge that and without rendering negative judgement about yourself, redirect your thoughts.