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Ace men. Do y’all exist?
Okay, I feel really bad for this way of thinking. Just because it’s purely stereotypical!
I’m an asexual woman and I’m attracted to men…
Would it make sense for me to say, that I have a hard time believing that ace men don’t exist.
Don’t get me wrong, obviously they do. I know that. But I am getting so in my head about things with how media revolves around sex and men stereotypically all being sex crazed and the world is a scary place and-
We’ve all heard this song and dance before no doubt.
I just wanna know… Do I have a chance in hell in finding a man to have a romantic relationship with with NO sex included??
Because the only ace people I’ve ever met IRL are non-men. And I’d just- like some reassurance I guess.
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She said yes!
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Only aces are allowed to make sex jokes
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never understood why virgin was an insult
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New friend
Bit of a rant, but a happy one
So I met someone recently and we're really getting along well. She's into the same stuff I'm into and idk I might be crushing just a little bit.. but platonically I think? All I wanna do is spend time with her, talk to her, make her laugh, she's been on my mind a lot. She does have a partner so there's that.. not that I wanna be with her like that, I think I just really wanna be her friend ? I find it really hard to distinguish platonic and romantic feelings sometimes. She makes me smile idk !!!!
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Made me think of you all.
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that's all I've got
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I was watching a video titled “ace memes” and that is when YouTube gives me a bumble add…
Bro why?
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Prescription: Sex
Hey guys
I'm in the process of getting tested for endometriosis, and the best scan is a deep infiltrating one. I called up to make an appointment and they said they don't do it for people who are still virgins. I vary between sex repulsed and indifferent. I don't know what to do because I don't want to have sex, and I don't have a partner anyway, but my periods are really bad. There's only the one chain of places that do the scan I need, and they won't do it.
Any ideas?
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Where else would a drink go?
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A+ response
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Sex favorable ace-spec bingo!
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Some things realized
I am a lesbian.
I don't care for sex and sexual, kids and pets. No thanks on that.
I do want kissing, cuddling; non sexual stuff and all else life.
Maybe one day I'll find find someone of the same; a woman of the same and they don't care what each part of me consists of as long as I'm doing as should when, where and how can because they understand not all is a choice; a your fault and you can't do everything.
But who am I kidding. I'll never find a woman the same as me who doesn't care what each part of me consists of as long as I'm doing as should when, where and how can because they understand not all is a choice; a your fault and you can't do everything.
Have any of you been similar ?
...and to those of you similar... Why do think kissing is so wonderful ?
Edit: It has also come to my attention elsewhere that I can’t even remember that apparently being Ace in any way is going against transgender folk and that you should be having sex every day worn your partner or it isn’t a real relationship if you are in one; which I think is complete bull pucky. How are you transphobic for being sexless; but willing to kiss, cuddle, non sexual stuff and all else life?
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ace or bad experience
recently i’ve been pretty comfortable with the label of being ace. However i’m wondering if it’s possible it’s down to not great sexual experiences.
i’ve only ever had sex with one person a few times. it was fine, i didn’t really feel any pleasure at any point other than making out. it was something i more so did for him. before these experiences i didn’t have a negative/avoidant attitude towards sex whereas now i don’t like the idea of it it and it makes me want to avoid it happening. At the start i liked the idea/act of touching and kiss him but now not so much
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he’s just a little crazy (a lot)
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Asexual Install🗣️🗣️🗣️‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥
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Why does 'dating' have to be difficult
I recently broke up with my now ex-girlfriend but it's been long enough I don't really have any lingering feelings if any kind over it. And I'm starting to just get to a point of really missing being in a relationship in of it's self (I should note do to various life circumstances I currently don't have any friends, certainly not any I see often, this'll be relevant later), here's the thing, I'm ace with very little willingness for sexual stuff (though not none, and certainly some sensual stuff would be of interest), and a trans woman (knew I was trans at a young age and have been able to transition medically with blockers and HRT) both of which a potential partner would have to be comfortable with, which many may not be unfortunately. Then I'm a lesbian, which is just another little layer, that makes it harder, but all that would be fine and could work through with struggle but not near impossibility. However I am also demiromantic (at least as far as my experience tells me), essentially only falling in love with close friends, which is why already being at a collapsed social network makes this all the more challenging because making friends is a whole other thing vs already having a support system and that being somewhat desperate, that with the rest of this makes it really really hard. I know really all I can do is expand my social network and focus on myself, my friends, stuff like that, just general moving on with life and what happens happens, but doesn't mean I'm not upset and wish I could just date normally and experience that and eventually find someone and shit. But all of this means I cant really just date and find someone who fits right for me, and that there's some unfortunate layers of what they have to be okay with, that they might not be, making it just, as challenging as possible. In the past I understood it might be hard but I'd be okay never finding anyone, or moving on, but after my last relationship, that's not the case anymore, I don't feel comfortable with that now. I hope that makes sense I know it's alot of ranting and nothing to be done but still.
Guess I don't have much more to say so thanks for reading if you did.
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Don't know if I'm bisexual bi romantic or biromantic asexual
So 21 year old female girl, never had a boyfriend or girlfriend but had 'crushes' or 'situationships' but I used to have crushes on guys when I Was little, but sometimes I definitely forced it, like I'd Pick the guy who everyone had a crush on or a guy who I thought I'd look good with, I never really understood the true feeling of attraction or I never let myself. I always also thought that guys would never like me or never me attracted to me, that I was no boys type, fast forward to high school I got a crush on on a couple girls, but now that's faded and I feel like I can't really like anyone anymore. I always find myself making myself crush on people (especially boys) and I just don't understand my feelings at all. I don't even understand how people feel sexual attraction and private intimacy and stuff but idk
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Help me
I am not sure about my Sexuality, I haven't felt sexual attraction towards men but I do experience some sort of attraction and feel anxiety on my chest whenever i see them , but i loose it easily if i talk to them , I can fantasise about having sex but it's not natural ,I can force or plan a schedule to fantasise about them , I got wet hardly 5 or 6 times in my entire life ( btw I am in my late 20s ) and i dont remember what made me wet . I dont want to use sex toys or have sex but I want to have a deep connection with a man , sometimes i become more desperate , is it because I am too conditioned ? I dont feel anything about my body , I am okay even if i dont have female features in my body , I dont find joy in exploring my body , I do have sex related traumas .... help me to find what exactly I want , am I asexual ?
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Is it just me orrr?
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Would it be unethical to identify myself as ace when I'm Demi?
Even though I know that it's two different orientations, asexuality is way more comprehended in my country than demisexuality and it simply sucks to have to explain it all the time.
Since demisexuality is within the ace spectrum, would it be morally ok?
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Guyssss custom ACE rings 😭💜
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it's a kind of magic 🎵
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It’s so frustrating. We as a society could agree that homophobia is bad. But aphobia is still the norm. Why?
It’s so frustrating to still have to deal with it on a daily basis. On another app I was downvoted to hell for reporting a guy that said to an asexual girl that her „perceived“ asexuality is just a blockade stemming from her childhood trauma. I reported it as discrimination which of course wasn’t blocked and while complaining about it one guy called me snowflake and that it was just an opinion and I should get over it while being downvoted to hell. Not a single person stepped up, everyone was against me and this girl was also alone. The worst thing, the guy that called me snowflake and downplayed it as opinion said that he’s gay. We don’t even have the back of other non allos. It’s so sickening and frustrating that everyone can just freely be aphobic and no one will held them accountable.
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What do you think about my current pfp?
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How tf am I supposed to answer this question on Spanish hw without making everyone uncomfortable in the process. Yes it doesn't seem bad at first but keep in mind this is in a room full of 15-16 year olds with dirty fucking minds
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Literally a decade going “am I ace? Am I demi? am I even in the spectrum at all?”
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Unsure if I'll be welcome in the asexual community
(FTM 29) I realized early into reading Ace that I am not aceflux but asexual. I am sad leaving the bisexual community, but have decided to use biromantic instead of triromantic. I thought bisexuality fit me really well (along with aceflux) but upon reflection and hearing what sexual attraction looks like, I realized asexuality fits better. The one ace group I joined (college) kicked me out. I am worried because I have a sexually active background or other reasons I won't be accepted if I try to join another group.
Other concerns: my girlfriend said she "didn't get it" ig because I get horny. I tried to participate in causual sexual relationships but it didn't work well. I'm sad I don't get to "enjoy" that aspect of mlm culture. I only get aroused by images of monster girls (2d), and I think there is a sub identity that would fit that. But I don't want to have another identity I always have to explain.
Happy: my "likes blank better than sx" is robots! I am glad I figured this out before I got to go to a sx party, which I now think I wanted to do because I was jealous my gf had done it and I haven't. I think it would have ended very badly and with me being sex repulsed a long time. I am glad I don't have to worry about potentially becoming sexually attracted to someone I just met (I thought this happened to me once, but I think it was more a 'love at first sight' weird situation). Because it seems like more of a pain than anything. This is a lot easier to explain than being aceflux.
Thoughts on whether I should try to join a local ace community or just participate online are greatly appreciated.
Summary: both happy and sad I figured out ace and not aceflux. Worried won't be accepted in ace community and thoughts on this are welcome.
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Is this real???
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