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Common Stereotypes
I'm making a video for school about addressing stereotypes about asexual people so I'd like to know from you fellow aces, what has been a stereotype, myth, or assumption someone has said about you and your ace identity?
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I replaced that challenge with not being allowed to eat nuts. Damn I'll miss them but I'll have to stay strong
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I'm a grown man now
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Question
Let my just preface that I don't really identify by labels but I also like to know what said thing is if that makes sense
But my question is it still asexual if I would participate for my (future lmao i'm only 19) partner sake to make them happy because I see no point in sexual activities even if they are pleasurable it's just not my thing
Also I am sending this before I sleep so I'll respond to any direct questions when I wake up
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When someone thinks I’m being suggestive
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do you guys masturbate?
i heard that it’s normal to imagine yourself in ‘situations’ or imagine other people you know irl but for some reason i feel REALLY BAD and uncomfortable with imagining other people.
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Sorry I thought this was funny
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Platonic life partners ...
Is it really so much to ask for? Is it even a thing...? Like. I feel that people misunderstand me so often when I talk about it bc they say "why not roommate" "why not friend"
Maybe it's just me obsessing over semantics, but I feel like a platonic life partner just goes deeper than that somehow.
I can't be so special that I'm the only one looking for this? Lol.
ETA that came off as super mopey. Not mopey, though a little flustered, and appreciating the absurdity of life stuff in general.
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Scared to go to gyno
Hi everyone, it's my first time posting here. I'm 27 and have only been to the gynecologist once. We talked and she checked my breasts which wasn't a problem for, but I'm super scared of someone touching me down there. I'm sex repulsed and am a virgin. I never even masturbated. I have some negative experiences when it comes to people touching me down there (old creepy men). I know I need to go to the gyno, but I'm so scared. I read that it can be painful, is that true? Unfortunately I don't have anyone who can come with me, my mother died 5 years ago and my father 2 years ago. I only have one friend who I don't want to be there, she has a mental disability and sometimes says inappropriate things. I thought about bringing the plushie my mom gave me and ask if I can listen to music. I do have some anti anxiety medicine I could take, but I want to try to avoid that as I only use them when I have a panic attack. Do any of you have/had simalar fears? How did you overcome it? What can I do to make it easier to go? Thanks in advance.
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I'd rather eat cornflakes
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A Quick Question About Asexuality
Please excuse my ignorance,but if someone enjoys pegging (as the receptive partner),can they still claim to be asexual?
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My Asexual OC
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Im having a funny problem ahhahha
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I found a meme on Facebook
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how do i respond to my boyfriend saying he has needs too?
me and my bf have been together for 3 years. he's been fully aware of me being ace before we even started dating, and was constantly reassuring me that it doesn't matter to him. but lately me being asexual is not as easy for him as it was in the beginning. we tend to argue the last 6 months because he's making me feel guilty, and he's feeling neglected. sex didn't matter to him early on, but lately it seems his mind has changed? every time i try to be open and explain my needs as an asexual person, he always gets me with "well what about my needs? why am i the one who has to suffer in this? can't we compromise somehow?"... compromise meaning can i just have sex with him every now and then to keep him happy. i never know how to respond to that question. obviously i want him to feel loved and wanted. he's amazing in every other aspect of my life. but if i start having sex with him when i don't want to, i'm worried i'm going to start to resent him myself.
what are some good responses to his question that could help further our conversation and provide more understanding?
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What do we know about Project 2025?
I know it's a wish list sort of thing and Trump said he knows nothing about it but we also know many of his closest policy advisers are heavily involved in the project. Do you all think he'll enact the project? I'm not even American but I'm worried about my friends there, some of them are queer and some are Muslim.
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t o u c h
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American asexuals only in the US, how do u feel after the election?
This is a bit more political hopefully I used this flair correctly? Let me know if I’m wrong
just wanted to say Iam deeply sorry abt the loss in America..now I’m thinking abt how many of u guys r gonna cope abt the situation
Despite losing the rights from ur own body.,and we as asexual we have no little to sexual attraction this is making me concerned bc I’m just wondering what if they force it upon you? And ur sexual orientation?
Even if ur deeply uncomfortable abt sex how are u guys going to fight this back? ( I know not all of u are but Ik some of u do too)
I’m pointing this out bc I’m scared that it might affect the whole world..and America has a huge influence to it. I’m not even American nor I do live in the US..im praying for all ur safety
as someone who is asexual too now I wonder what’s going to happen in the next four years losing our rights..and for everyone else’s too
feel free to answer if u like to, this is a safe place for u to rant it out if you’d like and please don’t fight under the comments I want everyone to be civil and respectful
It’s okay to feel sad and disappointed bc Iam as upset as all of u are
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Pray for me or I’m cooked
Going to try to wear an asexual pin on Friday at a school where 70% of the students are homophobic.
Pray for me or I’m cooked
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More Drawings Of My OC
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Confused about my sexuality
Currently, in a heterosexual relationship. I have had sex in the past with different men. And only enjoyed it when I was drunk. I never really enjoyed kissing a man. The one and only time I kissed a girl I liked it a lot more than kissing a guy.
Trying to figure out if I am a lesbian or asexual. What has your experience being asexual like? What helped you realize you were asexual?
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This tumblr post I made, (get in the steam car, we’re attending a pride parade!)
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How many virginities do you have?
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Are u making the right choice?
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Why are my friends being 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂
get that my friends aren’t ace, but still. We’re writing something together and I was told it would be a romance, which I am fine with. Instead of it being a cute romance though it’s filled with prolonged paragraphs where the characters are gazing longingly into more than each other’s eyes. Am I just being weird?
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GARLEC BRED 🧎🏻♀️🙏
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Is this considered ace??
So basically, I have things I find hot and/or attractive. Also, I can be turned on in theory, and have fantasies, but it's like, I'm ok with the concept of having sex, but then I start to think about actually having sex with someone, and I just find that uncomfortable. Like, somehow I want to have sex, but not actually. Does this make sense?? Am I ace?? I've heard of the term "aegosexual" in case this also relates to that. Also, I'm gay (mlm) and seeing a guy's...member either in pics or whatever, it just almost feels gross? I don't know, it's all really confusing
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How most relationships feel tbh
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Screw being a top or bottom! Are you a packet hot chocolate person, or a “melt a bar of chocolate” person?
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