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Been here too many times.
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How do I talk about my asexuality with my partner
I'm 32, I've never looked at anyone and been like "ooooo I wanna hit that etc". My current partner is very sexual and I just don't find my self into sex... like hardly ever unless I can feel that my body needs to say..blow some steam and even then I just want to get off and get back to what I have planed for the day. There have been times when I want to like, feel sexy look good whatever but usually, all I care about is finishing and I prefer to do it myself...
Am I asexual or just a boring person?
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That's Darn Cunning Of Them
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Anyone else?
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TFW you identify as a flaming asexual
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Everything is awful right now so please accept this meme
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PANIK
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Am I asexual if I don't want sex but still want touch like hugging, cuddling and kissing?
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This definitely belongs here
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Live
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Anyone else think proudly calling themselves a "Flaming Asexual" sounds friggin awesome?
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Wait for it…
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I wanted to join
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Mmm Mac n cheese
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How do you guys eat garlic bread?
I’ve just found out some people use garlic bread and regular bread interchangeably and use garlic bread when making sandwiches and I don’t know what to do with that information. I usually eat garlic bread by itself so now I’m wondering if that’s not the common way to eat it.
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Am I being unreasonable that this comment (slide 2) upset me?
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Today's my birthday , I'm 24
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"you'll have kids one day too" no, I won't
I'm so tired of parents or other relatives saying shit like "you'll understand some day" (referring to marriage, sex or having children), "now it's your turn", "jokingly" because one of my siblings had a kid and now they're waiting for me to give them more grandchildren but that's just not happening.
I hate that asexuality is treated like something that needs to be fixed, or some sort of a phase. And no, mother, not everyone does or even wants to fall in love to be happy. I'm not aromantic, but I don't see what's so bad about dying alone and all. We all do, anyway, but I digress.
Even if I did decide to have children, I would rather adopt. But I'd only do that once I could go no contact with my parents - that's a whole other story.
tl;dr: fed up with -phobic parents and others pushing their amatonormative, allonormative, heterosexist and religious narratives onto me, not respecting my choices or opinions on the matter
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Look what I've started
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Not interested in sex or starting on birth control but looking to date, advice?
I've (23F) never dated anyone since I've always been very focused on my studies, but I've always wanted to be in a loving relationship with someone. Because of that, I always considered myself straight until a few years ago I began to realize that I'm very repulsed by the idea of having sex with someone else.
I'm still not that sure where I fall sexuality-wise, but I just know that I don't want sex (at least until I am very comfortable with someone, e.g. several years married). I don't want any children and that's a non-negotiable for me. Maybe my repulsion with sex stems from my profound fear of getting pregnant, I honestly don't know. I feel like I might be more open to trying sex if my partner were to get a vasectomy, but I think that's too much to ask of someone when starting off dating and I wouldn't force anyone to get one or anything.
I really want to get into dating now that I've finished college, but I'm really worried I won't ever be able to find a guy who would just accept a girl that doesn't want to have sex with him. At one point, I was just trying to convince myself that I would just have to accept sex as a part of a relationship even if the idea repulsed me. I've thought about going on birth control for that purpose but I always hated the mindset framing that thought process: I would have to do something to my body for someone else's interests, not my own. I saw a reddit post a while ago that said something along the lines of if you want to date, you have to be on some sort of birth control if you don't want to get pregnant, and it really broke my heart.
Recently, I've decided to embrace my potential asexuality more. I do not want to go on birth control, especially hormonal birth control that can have terrifying side effects, just to please someone else. I also do not want to be sterilized; I'm a researcher and the hormonal effects of something like a hysterectomy on your risk for neurodegenerative diseases worry me. As I said, I don't want to alter my body for someone else, because I am fine with never having sex with anyone. I've been feeling a lot of doom with the recent US election results, and I've tried to come to peace with the idea that maybe I'll never find someone and that it will be okay.
But I don't want that to be my only option without trying. So I guess, where do I start with finding someone who would be a good fit for me? I'm open to trying dating apps but would love to hear other people's experiences with them. As I said, I feel like I'm still figuring myself out so not sure if I would label myself as asexual on apps yet, but I'd certainly be super excited if I saw someone else with that label on an app.
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Allos and their " you just haven't seen the right person"
Just a quick opinion, the more allos tell me that " you haven't found the right person" " it's too early to say that" (I'm 25F btw), and " is just a phase" just make me want to dig deeper into the asexual/aegosexual hole. (Sex averse too btw).
I know i don't have that much experience in relationships, being out of my first one worth 7 years, and Ive sadly blue balled my ex with not wanting to finish even oral sex lol.
But I've never been interested in any kind of sexual act other than kissing and fondling/ foreplay. Its so annoying too hear allos tell me that my asexuality is just a phase.
Ive seriously considered getting my tubes tied or getting a strong contraceptive because im that paranoid of getting pregnant, even with my asexual feuled celibacy (does that even make sense?) Both bc i don't like anything penetrative, and the shite-y state of the world rn.
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Just made an ace cat Ear beanie for my friend and I. What do you guys think? I also make personalized one if someone is interested.
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My abusive husband is not happy with my asexuality.
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how do y'all feel about the 4B and 6B4T movements?
a lot of women are going on a strike against things like sex, dating, marriage, having children, consuming sexist products, conforming to strict beauty standards, etc.. i'm happy to see a sex-free lifestyle being normalized (albeit politicized), even though it will probably lead to me being asked if i'm just on a strike when i mention being ace on dating apps and irl. any thoughts?
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garlic bread is actual food right?
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Any other autochoris’s out there?
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Wait for it….
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Yes, you can be asexual and still be a follower of Slaanesh
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What is your luck with therapists?
I just moved to San Antonio and had my first therapist appointment. I chose the therapist after her bio mentioned work with LGBTQIA+ communities. When I mentioned being sex-aversed, she pushed back on that a bit. Not too bad, but enough to make me a little uncomfortable. She even used the term, "most asexuals don't..." or something like that to say that sex-averse or sex-repulsed was not part of the identity.
Should I find a new therapist? Should I stick it out beyond this one first appointment? I'm torn.
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