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Do you only remember Allah when things go wrong?

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Soul comfort

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Who Would Refuse to Enter Paradise?
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I don’t deserve to be happy

I don’t know how to explain this feeling, but I carry so much guilt that sometimes I feel like I have no right to ask Allah for anything beautiful in this life. I look at the things other people wish for, love, marriage, happiness, a beautiful home, financial comfort, beautiful experiences, and I genuinely feel like none of those things are meant for someone like me.

I don’t want luxury. I don’t want anything extraordinary. All I ask Allah for is a roof over my head, food to eat, a stable job and good health. That’s it. Sometimes I feel guilty even asking for more than the bare minimum.

I feel like I’ve made huge, huge sins that I have somehow lost the right to enjoy life. I don’t know if it’s guilt, shame or if I’ve simply become so disappointed in myself that I no longer see myself as someone worthy of happiness.

At this point, I don’t even know what to ask Allah for anymore. I just keep asking Him to forgive me. I don’t care about being rewarded with beautiful things in this dunya. I just want Him to forgive me and not turn away from me.

I know Allah is Ar-Rahman and Ar-Raheem. I know His mercy is greater than my sins, but my heart struggles to accept that I could still be worthy of a good life after everything I’ve done.

Miracles came to me because of him, but I don’t want him to spoil me because I don’t really deserve it unfortunately

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I want to share something that genuinely changed my life. Please read this if you're going through a difficult time.
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Feeling lonely? Going through a hard time?

Remember, no matter where you are or what you are facing, Allah is always with you.
He sees you, He hears you and He knows exactly what is in your heart.
وَهُوَ عَلَى كلَ شَيْءٍ قَدِير
"And He is with you wherever you are." (Surah
Al-Hadid 57:4)
Never lose hope.
Allah can change everything in a moment.
Just trust Him and keep going.

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Lost faith

Assalamualaikum, feels fake to even write this. Im a hypocrite, or maybe even a disbeliever at this point. I know it because I have ill thoughts about God, and this anger towards him like iblees. I hate people, I don’t find joy in anything, even if I try to relax or feel positive or do something for myself, my body can’t because of all the corruption I caused to my family. I have no ambition, no plans to even do something. I want to end my life. Please I don’t want to hear whether Allah is here for me or that I shouldnt give in. Im probably a narcissist too. I see the veils of ignorance over my eyes and I had a profound spiritual experience after which “the hypocrites find light and Allah snatches it away” happened. I dropped into deep darkness. I am an empty vessel now, I misbehave with my mother, my relationships have failed and I can’t imagine things, unless I am imagining something very dark. There is a big lump on my forehead that I can feel and the level of cortisol in my body is extremely painful. Please give me hope in how ending things might be the way. I am probably just being very arrogant. I don’t feel good about being able to give charity, I don’t even feel like myself anymore

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Bought my First Quran. <3
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Have an important job interview in 10 hours after nearly 2 years unemployed, please make duaa

Hi all, I’m a young woman in the West struggling with quite a bit recently, and this job is my absolute dream job and would solve quite a few of my problems and financial hardships if it were to work out. Please make duaa for it to go successfully, and if there are any duas/surahs you recommend I read before bed to help ease my anxiety, please do share.

I am incredibly nervous and need all the help i can get. Jazakallah khair ❤️

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Fought with my mom more than a month ago and haven't spoken since, I don't know what to do now.

Salam everyone. As you can see from the title, I haven't spoken to my mom in over a month. There's a lot of layers to it but to cut it short I've been depressed since a child. I have severe high functioning depression, I do good in school and work and my social life but I'm very suicidal, and my mom has known this for years. I've never received proper help and it has always been that thing that's on the back burner. My mom has always preferred my siblings over me, I don't blame her my siblings are calmer than me. I'm looking to get on medication or something...so please no advice on this.


I had what started as an argument with my sister regarding her clothes and me borrowing them without permission, stupid sister stuff. We fought and it escalated verbally and I slipped up and cursed. My mom, after ignoring us fighting and my sister calling me names and that sort of thing- suddenly lit up and yelled at me for cursing. I became more frustrated and left to my room. My mom came to my room and started yelling at me for cursing and I told her how is it that she cares so much more about a curse word than the rude names my sister calls me and how she's always starting a problem with me especially in front of people. My mom told me she doesn't care and to not cross that line with her, I became even angrier and started sobbing telling her why does she care so much about such trivial things but never about me or my wellbeing? I yelled at her for always ignoring me when I'm talking or how she's always treated my brother so much better than me despite how hes hurt me. While i'm over that I notice she cares so much more about his small problems like his hair thinning over me wanting to end my life. I then got up and shoved her out of my room.


My mom stood outside slamming on my door yelling at me and saying God would punish me. I won't lie, it wasn't until that moment I realized how often my mom uses religion to guilt trip me. If I get into an argument with her about anything she tells me God will punish you, you will pay for this on the day of Judgement, and things like that. Its hard, because its not like these are things that just happened out of nowhere, these are arguments that built up overtime. I'm going to be honest I've never been a great daughter. I have a very short temper and i'm very anxious due to the environment i was raised in and my mental health. I struggle not getting mad at my family, I think i'm just so consumed by the way they treat me, its hard. Its harder to even feel bad for myself because I know, no matter what, everyone will say I'm in the wrong.


Anyways, I guess what I'm asking is for advice on how I can speak to my mother. It's been well over a month at this point and I don't feel any guilt really...I hate to say it. Still, I know it displeases Allah and I don't want to do that, so please any advice helps. I know I need to talk to her but unsure on how to approach it. Our talks after fighting always end the same, she always tells me i'm wrong, I agree and then try to mention how she can improve or change she brushes me off and the cycle continues. Not looking to get shamed per-say, just want friendly advice. Thank you.

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Allah has 99 names.. Whoever learns them by heart will enter paradise… Sahih Al Bukari 273

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Please make dua for me

Assalaamualaikum,

I very rarely ever make posts like this.

But it’s come to a point in life where I’m so exhaused mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually that I don’t know what on Earth to do.

I have basically no support in life. My parents were both physically and emotionally abusive towards me in life. It got to a point where my father even threatened to fight me in a park/beat me up. I swear to Allah I’m not joking.

I tried so hard to overcome this, to fight onwards, but I couldn’t financially afford anything even in university, and I got burned out from working.

My mother sweet talked me into coming home. And now I’m stuck again, and they deny everything they’ve ever done to me in life, and accuse me of being incapable of understanding general life.

My father only cares about my mother, and my mother only cares about herself. They both see being parents as though they are God-like figures who do no wrong.

I am so tired. I have been unemployed for so long. I cannot go to university to do the course I want to do because it now requires money that I cannot find employment to get.

My father accuses me of being weak, but has never acknowledged the abuse he has done to me. And neither will my mother. She was a raging pyromaniac at one point in my life.

I truly truly never wanted to come online and share a sob story. I also never wanted to leave a digital footprint detailing my life story anywhere.

But genuinely I’m so so exhausted and mentally done. I cannot leave because there’s no means. It’s like they’ve trapped me here to live and now there’s nothing I can do because I can’t get a job.

I ask you for your duas for me please.

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how do men act when interested in a girl?

I wanna know if men act like females when interested in a guy. Do they make dua’a that Allah makes them their naseeb? Do they immediately think about getting married to her? Or what’s the psychology behind how they think

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Alhamdulilah for his blessings - And may Allah help all muslims around the world

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my dear brother or sister who is ill | shaykh khaalid isma’il حفظه الله

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Surah Kahf
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Please pray for me, please make Duaa for me.

Assalamualaikum everyone. I have been having recurring bad thoughts, and i am stuck in an ocd loop. Though i am self diagnosed, i can say that its affecting me and my life. My studies, my appetite, my health. I have been crying non stop for 3 days, my eyes hurt, literally hurt from crying continuously. I wont share much details, but the thoughts are not about my faith or anything that will shake my faith. Its about the uncertainty, the fact that i cant know right now, that if a certain hadith is true or not. Please dont give me any suggestions that do this, search this, research that. U cant even imagine the lengths i have gone to, for finding out the truth, there isnt a single thing in this earth that i havent done. And obviously we are uncertain. This uncertainty is killing me, even now i am crying. Please just make Duaa for me that Allah gives my heart peace, please please please pray for me that everything works out for me and i get fine. Please pray for me and i will pray for all of you. Thank you for reading 💕

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Muhammad Al Luhaidan │ Surah Zumar (39:59 - 39:61)

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Naming your kid that have not much meaning

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters,

Me and my wife will soon be having a daughter next year february inshaAllah. However i wanted to name her Lilia, however upon searching it doesnt really have meaning but i read it related to Layla? Laila, meaning night. Does it really matter much? If its okay i would love to have suggestion if theres combination of name with Lilia.

Thnk you very much.

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Surah Az-Zumar

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Please pray for us 🥹

I recently got out of a haram relationship because his father was against it. I’ve repented to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’-ala, realised my mistakes and sincerely asked for forgiveness. Oh allah forgive me truly.

Please pray for us.. I know Allah does what’s best for us and i want him to be the best for me.. I trust Allahs plan no doubt. Pleasee please keep us in your prayers, I will truly be so grateful🥹

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My own mother told me she’d never feel like I’m her daughter. Now another woman calls me hers, and it breaks my heart…

Salam aleykoum everyone.

I never thought I’d be writing something like this, but I’ve been struggling with something emotionally and Islamically, and I genuinely need some advice. Growing up, my relationship with my mom was incredibly painful. I have healed from the things from my childhood alhamdulilah and love/forgiven her in my heart, and our relationship today is practically nonexistent. I always call and we do talk but it’s surface level how are you, work, school, weather, and that’s it.

A couple years ago my own mother came to confess to me that she never felt that I was her daughter and that she never will. I’m the first born of 4 kids in total. I don’t think I’ll ever forget those words. There’s something about being rejected by the person who brought you into this world that changes something inside you.

But recently, Allah has brought someone into my life who has shown me a kind of maternal love I never really experienced growing up. My future mother-in-law. This woman treats me like her own daughter. She makes me feel loved, wanted, and accepted. She has a biological daughter, and she constantly tells me, “I love you just like my daughter. To me, you two are the same.” And wAllah, those words absolutely destroy me.

Because how is it that the woman who gave birth to me told me she’d never feel like I’m her daughter, while a woman who didn’t raise me, didn’t carry me, and has only known me for a fraction of my life tells me I’m no different from her own child?

Sometimes her kindness makes me want to cry. Not because I’m unhappy, but because I’m realizing how much I missed growing up. It’s such a strange feeling to finally receive the love you’ve always wanted, only to find yourself grieving the little girl who needed it years ago.

And I genuinely wonder sometimes whether this woman is one of the ways Allah is showing me His mercy. I know we can’t claim to know Allah’s intentions, but I can’t help feeling that her presence in my life is such an unexpected blessing. But here’s the part that’s been eating me alive, I feel insanely guilty.

I want a mother-daughter relationship with my future mother-in-law. I want to be close to her, spend time with her, and experience all those little things I never really had with my own mother. She wants them too I can feel that aswell. But I don’t feel that same desire toward my mom anymore.

And as a Muslim, that terrifies me. I know how much Islam emphasizes birr al-walidayn and the rights of our parents, especially our mothers. I know how serious maintaining family ties is. I don’t want to displease Allah. I don’t want to be punished for failing in my duties as a daughter. But I also don’t know how to force myself to feel emotionally close to someone who has hurt me so deeply. She wants nothing to do with me despite my attempts at reconciliation.

Is it Islamically wrong that my heart feels safer with another woman than with my own mother? Can I still fulfill my mother’s rights without having a close relationship with her? Am I in any way wrong or sinful for wanting that close bond with my future mother-in-law instead?

I’m not looking for excuses to mistreat my mother. I never did and I never will I love her with everything in me no matter what. I’m genuinely trying to understand how to balance my obligations as a Muslim with the pain I’ve experienced.

I’d really appreciate Islamic advice, especially from anyone who has been through something similar.
Because the truth is, I finally have someone who makes me feel like a daughter, and instead of being able to enjoy that love without fear, I’m terrified that Allah might be displeased with me for wanting it, or even my mom eventually seeing it and it affecting her.

Jazak allahu kheiyran for reading and I appreciate any advice/stories/experiences.

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Reminder that Dunya is temporary
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how do I maintain patience and hope after my friends suicide?

one of my bestfriends overdosed after battling bpd and her medications weren’t working anymore, lack of support system in her environment a lot accumulating over the last 10 days of her life.

Yes, she was a none muslim. I understand we can’t make dua for her akhira, please don’t make this harder on me just because she was a none Muslim. I’m going to umrah soon and I feel like even that won’t help.

her death has been 2 weeks already, I try to pray with focus and I can’t. We are only 22. life was just beginning. I never lost a person to death.


Allah tested me greatly alhamduillah, but I can’t see how life will get better moving forward. I don’t want to keep listening to music and mourn but I don’t know what else to do. My chest is heavy everyday.

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I am not religious at all but I believe in a "Creator", I am trying to be open minded and was wondering reasons/argument for truth in the god within Islam?

For context: I am 19m from the UK and was never baptised as baby in a Christian context and from a very agnostic spiritually dead family or been apart of any faith at all but from a variety of philosophical, metaphysical and logistical reasoning to believe in creationism and life was produced in some capacity or another but have never felt like I have seen proof, had an experience or any type of spiritual encounter towards what this "Creator" may be, so I am spiritually empty in that regards so my search for truth is very much a pure evidence based one so far

I was wondering any lines of proof for the God in Islam in specific? and also when it comes to the status of Muhammad being a prophet, I am on the basis of truth in creation but struggle with much of a specific faith having the true fullness of God and I am wondering any good arguments, archaeological, historically or prophetically type of evidence the events and miracles done by Muhammad are driven by proof and I am trying to be as open minded as I can but was wondering any outside quran sources or anything you felt convinced you about the truth that Allah does have?

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Al-Mu'minoon: 1-11

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If Your Struggling & Going Through A lot …Remember You Keeping Steadfast & Keeping Sabr Is Not Going To Waste …Allah Never Wastes The Reward Of The Good Doers …Also Remember Jannah Is Not Cheap…This World Can Become Very Uncomfortable But Respond With It With Sabr..
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Easy way to get thousands of good deeds in less than 2-3 minutes

Stop now and recite SubhanAllah 100 times, this will take literally less than 2 minutes and earn you thousands of good deeds without you having to spend even a single cent of money or doing any physical effort.

Mus'ab b. Sa'd reported that his father told him that he had been in the company of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) that he said:

Is one amongst you powerless to get one thousand virtues every day. Amongst those who had been sitting there, one asked: How one amongst us can get one thousand virtues every day? He said: Recite:" Exalted is Allah (He is free from imperfection) (SubhanAllah) one hundred times for (by reciting them) one thousand virtues are recorded (to your credit) and one thousand vices are blotted out. (Sahih Muslim 2698)

See, 1000 good deeds to your name and 1000 sins wiped out. Do this everyday for the rest of your life and we are talking billions of good deeds over your lifetime. Small things add up.

And here's an additional similar dhikr that will wipe out a lot of your sins: SubhanAllah Wa Bihamdihi

Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,' one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea" (Sahih Bukhari 6405)

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Fell in love for the first time, only to discover that marriage is impossible because he's not Muslim

I'm 28F and i've never been in a relationship before amd I honestly thought I'd never get married until I met this guy on social media

At first we just talked normally but one day he confessed his feelings and told me he could see a future with me and that he saw as his future wife

For one reason or another I assumed he was Muslim! and I still don't know why I misunderstood that, his parents are Muslim too, he told me he didn't pray and I assumed he was just lazy about practicing his religion, he also stayed away from haram things...etc, he genuinely gave me Muslim vibes

He's an honourable man, he has never disrespected me not even once, he's's incredibly sweet, caring, and considerate. Everything was going smoothly until I discovered that he's actually not Muslim! He used to be Muslim but left Islam and he made it clear that returning to it isn't an option for him

We were both shocke, he genuinely thought I already knew he wasn't Muslim because he said de doesn't pray, while I had somehow convinced myself that he was!

I feel absolutely miserable right now. I explained to him that Muslim women cannot marry non Muslim men and that marriage is simply not an option for us, so we decided that we should stop talking and end things between us

I really loved him and honestly still do, I love him so much, thanks to him for the first time in my life I felt feminine, loved, cherished, and genuinely cared for. He made me feel like a woman in ways I had never known before, he was so incredibly sweet to me

And now I have to walk away from someone I genuinely love not because he treated me badly or because we weren't compatible in other ways but because there's a fundamental difference that makes marriage impossible for me

I prayed Istikhara repeatedly and I believe Allah wants what's best for me, I know I have to accept that, even if it hurts like hell right now.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice, comfort, or just somewhere to let all of this out... And thanks for reading my post

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Going to umarah soon. Need duaa?

I'm going to umrah soon, if anyone needs me to make duaa for them

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